Long initial lock-up - did it work for you?

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Re: Long initial lock-up - did it work for you?

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trijack3 wrote: Sat Apr 30, 2022 8:10 pm The author of Secret to a Happy Marriage https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/when.htm states that an initial lock-up of 3-6 months is necessary to break the cycle of masturbation and re-wire the male brain to focus on his wife/ gf/ mistress instead of his own sexual needs. Have you tried this? Was it successful? How long was your initial lock-up? What did you learn along the way?
Yes 3 months break the cycle and habit of masturbation, but it cannot be the first time ever you wear a chastity device.
It take months to get use to the chastity device ( often 2-3 devices before finding the good one) and ajustement with your lover needs in the mean time

Yes I focus and enjoy +++ my wife pleasure more than ever

Initial lock was for a week-end, more than 1 month is common, over 3 month last year, never ate the paint on the wall or turned zombi :roll:
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Re: Long initial lock-up - did it work for you?

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C Souclay wrote: Thu May 05, 2022 9:21 pm
trijack3 wrote: Sat Apr 30, 2022 8:10 pm The author of Secret to a Happy Marriage https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/when.htm states that an initial lock-up of 3-6 months is necessary to break the cycle of masturbation and re-wire the male brain to focus on his wife/ gf/ mistress instead of his own sexual needs. Have you tried this? Was it successful? How long was your initial lock-up? What did you learn along the way?
Yes 3 months break the cycle and habit of masturbation, but it cannot be the first time ever you wear a chastity device.
It take months to get use to the chastity device ( often 2-3 devices before finding the good one) and ajustement with your lover needs in the mean time

Yes I focus and enjoy +++ my wife pleasure more than ever

Initial lock was for a week-end, more than 1 month is common, over 3 month last year, never ate the paint on the wall or turned zombi :roll:
Love it! Thanks for your reply.

During your 3+ month lockup, did you have any orgasms at all... full, ruined, or wet dreams?
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Re: Long initial lock-up - did it work for you?

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jsmith12 wrote: Thu May 05, 2022 12:29 pm
trijack3 wrote: Tue May 03, 2022 8:47 pm No, we're not talking about the chastity break-in period. Initial lock-up comes after that. From the website, the break-in period is getting adjusted to wearing it once you've got the fit correct on the device ;
She views the "real lock-up" as two phases - (1) an initial lock-up that re-trains the male behaviorally to focus on his partner's needs and gain control over a masturbation mindset, and (2) a steady-state release schedule that persists in the new norm.
That's still so wild to me. i've been doing this 2 months, and never gone more than 6 days denied - always with some short unlocks for clean or a long endurance workout during those 6 days.

3 months (92 days?) of 24/7... especially right up front as soon as a "good device" is proved... daunting. can't imagine how my head would spin for the last 90% of that timeline
I couldn't agree more which is why I posed the question. After 4 weeks which was my longest denial, just a slight touch skin to skin was enough to make me drip. This website suggests men my age should go a lot longer than 3 months. But the difference from most, I think, is that my wife teases me everyday and gets me dripping, twitching and moaning. I suspect I'll have an orgasm from nipple stimulation alone before the 3 month mark.
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Re: Long initial lock-up - did it work for you?

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trijack3 wrote: Fri May 06, 2022 7:28 am
C Souclay wrote: Thu May 05, 2022 9:21 pm
trijack3 wrote: Sat Apr 30, 2022 8:10 pm The author of Secret to a Happy Marriage https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/when.htm states that an initial lock-up of 3-6 months is necessary to break the cycle of masturbation and re-wire the male brain to focus on his wife/ gf/ mistress instead of his own sexual needs. Have you tried this? Was it successful? How long was your initial lock-up? What did you learn along the way?
Yes 3 months break the cycle and habit of masturbation, but it cannot be the first time ever you wear a chastity device.
It take months to get use to the chastity device ( often 2-3 devices before finding the good one) and ajustement with your lover needs in the mean time

Yes I focus and enjoy +++ my wife pleasure more than ever

Initial lock was for a week-end, more than 1 month is common, over 3 month last year, never ate the paint on the wall or turned zombi :roll:
Love it! Thanks for your reply.

During your 3+ month lockup, did you have any orgasms at all... full, ruined, or wet dreams?
Full. None
Ruined. One, while wearing a strapon and making her happy
Wet dreams. None
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I'm just over 2 months with no orgasms. If my KH calls me or we send series of texts then I'm dripping. When I get the chance to visit her I'm constantly dripping. It has made me more attentive to her.
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