No orgasm until my 50th Wedding Anniversary

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SteveOD
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No orgasm until my 50th Wedding Anniversary

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My wife wanted to make our 50th anniversary special and talked me into locking up again until the end of October. I did and to be honest, sine we quit chastity our sex life has disappeared and my libido went away. Took weeks to feel horny and even then seldom did anything about it.

I have only been locked for two days and had sex once and feeling horny all the time. Longest I went without an orgasm was 6 months so if we make it, it will be a new record for us. I am always amazed at how comfortable my HT Nub is. Never a problem to wear it. Problem has always been either a bad yeast infection or just getting tired of the who routine to clean up after I pee and at my age I pee a lot. :)
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Chastityat60
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Re: No orgasm until my 50th Wedding Anniversary

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Being a fairly short grower, in a super small cage, I get the clean up issue.
Also.. I can only dream of my wife talking me into wearing my device..asking to see it on me.. being at all interested in checking it with a quick touch..anything..
I ‘m still wearing it for about a month at a time between our sex times. I do it for me. Got careless with the keys 2 weeks ago and actually lost them for about a week. Too funny. Anyway glad to see you post again.
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JimR
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Re: No orgasm until my 50th Wedding Anniversary

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SteveOD...Thanks for your post. At 75, it's good to see posts from individuals in the same general age group. I too have had a recurring yeast issue, never too bad, just something that is more a nuisance, on occasion. Found a book by Bryan Cox on the internet, titled " Male Yeast Infections, How to Diagnose, Treat and Cure your Yeast Infection So it Never Comes Back". I think mine returns when I am not careful regarding my diet...sugar intake. Anyway, there are several home remedies explained in the book, one of which involves a dilute hydrogen peroxide solution, applied for a few minutes at a time. I'm certainly not a doctor and of course YMMV, but one or more of the remedies in the book might be worth a try. Good luck and keep us posted as to progress.
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SteveOD
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Re: No orgasm until my 50th Wedding Anniversary

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JimR wrote: Tue Nov 30, 2021 12:32 pm SteveOD...Thanks for your post. At 75, it's good to see posts from individuals in the same general age group. I too have had a recurring yeast issue, never too bad, just something that is more a nuisance, on occasion. Found a book by Bryan Cox on the internet, titled " Male Yeast Infections, How to Diagnose, Treat and Cure your Yeast Infection So it Never Comes Back". I think mine returns when I am not careful regarding my diet...sugar intake. Anyway, there are several home remedies explained in the book, one of which involves a dilute hydrogen peroxide solution, applied for a few minutes at a time. I'm certainly not a doctor and of course YMMV, but one or more of the remedies in the book might be worth a try. Good luck and keep us posted as to progress.
I tried to convince my wife that blow jobs would keep the yeast away. She did not buy that. :)
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SteveOD
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Re: No orgasm until my 50th Wedding Anniversary

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Good news is that my wife will allow me three orgasms a year now. There really is no need to lock up because try as I might, I cannot orgasm by masturbation. I was rubbing myself raw trying. Only my wife can make me cum. However, she still wants me locked because I keep on trying and she feels that someday I may succeed if not locked. For us it is not trying to duplicate all the things you see and read in porn.

I am not submissive, my wife is and prefers it that way. She has no desire to cuckold me. She is bi and shared her girlfriends with me for 30 year out of which about 20 were as a submissive sex partner two her girlfriend. We have not had intercourse in over 20 years. We cannot remember when. Our sex life was more about poly and trying most fetishes we found out about in the non internet days. For us it was just fun sex games and not a lifestyle. Once we left the bedroom we reverted to our real life selves which were straight people to those that knew us and sex fiends to those that played with us, :)
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