Here's some background information. My wife and I are on again off again with chastity. We use a jailbird that fits really well for the most part. Our personal record previously was seven days. We're currently on eight days with PIV sex and oral sex for me (along with a lot of orgasms for her). All of this is great. We currently don't want long periods of being locked up. I do have some questions for y'all though.
- I am high and tight and really struggle with morning erections. I use a scent free neutrogena lotion in the morning after my usual morning piss and shit. The tightness takes over an hour to go down to where I can function.
My testicles are not cold nor are they purple, but are pretty swollen (similar to the photos in the members section of proper fitting cages. Is that typical?
My wife gave me 10 hours out of the cage after giving me an orgasm and they still were swollen. This is after a five day period of daily tease and denial. Not huge, but still not as loose as they are without playing with the cage. Is that normal?
Since being caged, I have started having serious premature ejaculation (last time was ten thrusts before I pulled out for a ruined orgasm). My wife is cool with it, but I want sex to last longer. I've had a vasectomy, so we don't use any other protection. I did but some condoms that desensitize penises and some spray that does the same thing. Is that the best option? How do orgasms feel when numbed?