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Ordered my first device but my wife is mystified

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We've been talking about chastity devices for awhile and usually my wife has a raised eyebrow and doesn't understand why I would be interested in being locked up. She is confused about the whole thing and doesn't know what to make of it Finally, she said I should buy one but she's not sure how she will feel about it. I have noticed over time as we discussed it and I shared some articles with her, she is probably a little more intrigued now then confused. Personally, I think once she gets over the shock, she may really get into it. I am wondering if other have had a similar experience where a partner was skeptical at first and maybe came to enjoy it once caging began.
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Not completely skeptical, since we had played with a 'Gates of Hell' and a 'Stallion Guard' previously, but she did gradually extend the periods as she got more accustomed to the control. Over a period of about ten years, what began as a month every now and then turned into 18 months at a time.
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TwistedMister wrote: Sat Feb 20, 2021 9:18 am Not completely skeptical, since we had played with a 'Gates of Hell' and a 'Stallion Guard' previously, but she did gradually extend the periods as she got more accustomed to the control. Over a period of about ten years, what began as a month every now and then turned into 18 months at a time.
Thanks for the reply and sharing your story.
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We had a couple of talks, but my wife didn’t get my attraction to chastity either. I then gave her Lucy Fairborne’s book, and that allowed her the comfort to try it. That was years ago and we’re even more happily married than ever.
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Bird in a Cage wrote: Mon Feb 22, 2021 8:43 am We had a couple of talks, but my wife didn’t get my attraction to chastity either. I then gave her Lucy Fairborne’s book, and that allowed her the comfort to try it. That was years ago and we’re even more happily married than ever.
Thanks. I'm not familiar with that book but I'll look it up. So I assume based on your message that chastity is a part of your marriage now?
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Thanks. I'm not familiar with that book but I'll look it up. So I assume based on your message that chastity is a part of your marriage now?
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Oh yes. We’re fairly vanilla, but have been on the path for 3 of the last 4 years. (Due to a combination of health and family issues, most of 2020 was chastity free. Which actually harmed our relationship. We’re both happily key holding and key held again.)
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The book is "Male Chastity: A Guide For Keyholders" and is written in relatively plain terms. Excellent book to explain the workings and benefits of male chastity to a more vanilla wife.
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KittensBoyToy wrote: Tue Feb 23, 2021 8:05 am The book is "Male Chastity: A Guide For Keyholders" and is written in relatively plain terms. Excellent book to explain the workings and benefits of male chastity to a more vanilla wife.
Thanks for the clarification. I guess I should’ve lead with that. :lol:
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