I am a complete novice when it comes to chastity. And what I want, I need is to be locked 24/7. However without being around my key holder who hasn’t received her keys yet, I find myself giving myself breaks. My reason for my key holder not holding the keys is because I see her once a week. And this Monday I just received my cage. So far the longest I have gone is 2 1/2 days without orgasm or even touching my key holder’s item. Its been now 1 1/2 before I caved once more and touch the contents of my cage except this time I gave myself ruined orgasm with hardly any juices flow out. From that point I knew the idea of giving my key holder one key instead of both would be more challenging. Since I don’t live with her. It makes sense to hold on to one key for emergencies only.
Now that you are caught up, my question that comes to mind is.. For someone who has just started chastity, and wishes to partake in 24/7 lockdown. What rules do you have with you and your key holder?
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Re: Chastity Rules
If you are just starting out, work your way up with incrementally longer periods of time. Get to the point where you can go a full week, then once she comes over she can hide the emergency key somewhere in the house, and then if you need it, she has to tell you where it is. There are other options like mini safes where the key can be kept only she will know the combo. That might work too.
At the end of the day, self control will have to win out. If she's not around 24/7, there will always be opportunities to touch yourself and achieve orgasms. It has to become a matter of pride that you don't disappoint her by doing that. It takes time.
At the end of the day, self control will have to win out. If she's not around 24/7, there will always be opportunities to touch yourself and achieve orgasms. It has to become a matter of pride that you don't disappoint her by doing that. It takes time.
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williebdenied wrote: ↑Fri Feb 05, 2021 11:31 am once she comes over she can hide the emergency key somewhere in the house, and then if you need it, she has to tell you where it is.
Mr. Circle: I love that idea, I will definitely tell her to do that.
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When you 'quote' a post in your reply, your response needs to go either above or below the quoted portion, in order for it to display correctly.Mr_Circle02 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 05, 2021 12:27 pmMr. Circle: I love that idea, I will definitely tell her to do that.williebdenied wrote: ↑Fri Feb 05, 2021 11:31 am once she comes over she can hide the emergency key somewhere in the house, and then if you need it, she has to tell you where it is.
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TwistedMister wrote: ↑Sat Feb 06, 2021 9:24 amMr_Circle02 wrote: ↑Fri Feb 05, 2021 12:27 pmI’ve figured that one out now, thanks for the tipwilliebdenied wrote: ↑Fri Feb 05, 2021 11:31 am
When you 'quote' a post in your reply, your response needs to go either above or below the quoted portion, in order for it to display correctly.
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^^^^^ Really? ^^^^^
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Looks like a Moderator in training.

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Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273