Chastity Rules

[Mr_Circle02]

I am a complete novice when it comes to chastity. And what I want, I need is to be locked 24/7. However without being around my key holder who hasn’t received her keys yet, I find myself giving myself breaks. My reason for my key holder not holding the keys is because I see her once a week. And this Monday I just received my cage. So far the longest I have gone is 2 1/2 days without orgasm or even touching my key holder’s item. Its been now 1 1/2 before I caved once more and touch the contents of my cage except this time I gave myself ruined orgasm with hardly any juices flow out. From that point I knew the idea of giving my key holder one key instead of both would be more challenging. Since I don’t live with her. It makes sense to hold on to one key for emergencies only.

Now that you are caught up, my question that comes to mind is.. For someone who has just started chastity, and wishes to partake in 24/7 lockdown. What rules do you have with you and your key holder?

[williebdenied]

If you are just starting out, work your way up with incrementally longer periods of time. Get to the point where you can go a full week, then once she comes over she can hide the emergency key somewhere in the house, and then if you need it, she has to tell you where it is. There are other options like mini safes where the key can be kept only she will know the combo. That might work too.

At the end of the day, self control will have to win out. If she's not around 24/7, there will always be opportunities to touch yourself and achieve orgasms. It has to become a matter of pride that you don't disappoint her by doing that. It takes time.

[Mr_Circle02]

once she comes over she can hide the emergency key somewhere in the house, and then if you need it, she has to tell you where it is.

Mr. Circle: I love that idea, I will definitely tell her to do that.

[TwistedMister]

once she comes over she can hide the emergency key somewhere in the house, and then if you need it, she has to tell you where it is.

Mr. Circle: I love that idea, I will definitely tell her to do that.

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[Mr_Circle02]

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I’ve figured that one out now, thanks for the tip

[TwistedMister]

^^^^^ Really? ^^^^^

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[locked4her55]

^^^^^ Really? ^^^^^

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Looks like a Moderator in training.

[SteveOD]

The best way is to attach a serially numbered lock to your cage as either the primary or secondary lock. Your key holder notes the number and will know if you took your cage off. As someone who has been unexpectedly rushed to the hospital by EMS and given an MRI right away one time and a CAT scan the second, It paid to have that spare key with me. in fact, the last time the EMS were pissed off on me because they were at my house in two minutes and I had to take my cage off. Do not assume that they have the means to cut your free all the time. I was admitted at 1am and there was a skeleton staff there.

So you have a numbered plastic lock on your cage and then put a key in a small stamp sized enveloped and have your key holder sign and seal it so she will know when you opened it. You can do away with the numbered lock, or use it with the envelope. Do not be foolish due to the masturbation fodder you find on the internet by guys living their sex lives online. You need to have quick access to your emergency key in and outside your house. You cannot rely on a phone call. What if you are far from home and the key is at your house??? What if she is on the phone and you cannot reach her. Last time I was rushed to the hospital I found that my phone battery was dead and could not call my wife.

Always make sure that your key holder has your best interest foremost. As someone into BDSM for 50 years I can tell you that you need to play safe and sane. I got my colon tore so bad from a pegging that I need surgery. I saw those big dildos in ads and figured they were the way to go. They were not. There were other medical problems from believing what I read and saw in porn. It is only a fetish. Do not let it cause you any harm. My wife, our girlfriend and I learned a long time ago that there are no rules for any fetish. Just do it the way you feel most comfortable doing them.