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TinaHoldsTheKey
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“Most” women, IMO, don’t want something so huge it “hits the end”.
Just something that takes your place should be enough. Wear it over your cage and enjoy the “frustration” while enjoying your wife’s pleasure!
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My wife likes to unlock me a few times a year and play with my cock while she uses her vibrator on herself. Sometimes her edging goes too far because she is oui of her mind with an intense orgasm. What we did was get a Kali's Teeth device which is a ring that you put on your cock and it has very sharp spikes all around it. When I start to get hard the pins hurt me enough to prevent me from getting erect, or in my case, partially erect if I take a Viagra first.

We do permanent orgasm denial. In other words she does not deliberately make me orgasm. Accidents do happen though in the real world unlike the fantasy stuff you read online. We just ignore them and go on as usual. Last year there was only one accident in our sixth month. Now my wife keeps me locked up during sex most times to prevent accidents but says that playing with my cock turns her on more.

This is a real chastity lifestyle that has been going on for the last 11 years. November will make 12 years. Long story short. Wife is bi and prefers girls. In reality my wife will let me orgasm if she feels I am in distress or unhappy with a lack of an orgasm. I would say that I orgasm 1 to 3 times a year when my wife's edging goes too far or she just is happy with me and wants me to orgasm. Most times it is a ruined orgasm that I do not feel and have to ask her if I came or not. There are no orgasms planned, but stuff happens.
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I guess I should’ve gotten a more realistic sized one, that would wear “over” my cage.
I'm not sure that wearing over the cage is the best idea. Most cages have a slight down curve to them, and would position the extender in an uncomfortable way.

Vixskin has a good model that we've tried, but eventually Mrs Edge decided that the unlocking and relocking was more of a hassle, and prefers to stick with me wearing the harness and Vixskin faux cock.
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“Most” women, IMO, don’t want something so huge it “hits the end”.
Just something that takes your place should be enough.
@TinaHoldsTheKey We found that the Vixskin Tex was very similar to me, but also just slightly different enough for her to notice the difference. When I wear it, it's *me* being close and doing the work, but the different feeling inside would add a little something to the mix that made it more enjoyable.
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Tom Allen wrote: Wed Jul 21, 2021 5:43 am
“Most” women, IMO, don’t want something so huge it “hits the end”.
Just something that takes your place should be enough.
@TinaHoldsTheKey We found that the Vixskin Tex was very similar to me, but also just slightly different enough for her to notice the difference. When I wear it, it's *me* being close and doing the work, but the different feeling inside would add a little something to the mix that made it more enjoyable.
I agree Tom. A little something different makes it more exciting and enjoyable…a little longer or little wider or a little different feel/shape.
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I know the problem. We try to keep me caged during sex or wear a Kali's teeth bracelet around the base of my cock that digs into it when it tries to get hard, Over the last 11 years my wife has learned to take pleasure from playing with my balls and nipples. Usually hurting them until I moan in pain which turns her on. Good Luck.
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