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For the last 3 weeks that I've been wearing the HT nub, we've noticed that during our regular romp times my erection is noticeably firmer. For years she's had to push my buttons to get me hard enough to enter her. Not the last three weeks. The last time she said "that's the deepest you've been in me in years". Now I've done 2 months of denial on the honor method without this result, so it's not lack of orgasms. It may be psychological, but I don't think so. I think it's the total lack of sensation from wearing the nub is making me more sensitive...or something. Maybe it's the decreased number of erections?

Any one else have a similar experience. I've never read anything like this happening, so I'm curious. The nub hasn't erased 20 years of age and medications, but it's knocked a good 10 years off.
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Don't know for sure...but last week I woke up with 'morning wood', stretched, felt a 'surge'...and split the CB-3000 at the seam again.

That's the third time. I'm beginning to think that it's going to take steel to keep this thing contained.
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Well, that's a problem I don't think I'll have to worry about, things are improved but still not like I was at 40 :roll:
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nosaint wrote: Thu Apr 09, 2020 5:22 pm Well, that's a problem I don't think I'll have to worry about, things are improved but still not like I was at 40 :roll:
I think I'm doing OK for 60...
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A couple of years ago I went to the doc with performance issues. I would lose it during the act and it wasn't as rigid these days. But.. I did still get a decent morning wood on occasion.
Doc said it was most likely a combination of getting older and lack of confidence in my ability. If I get a wood. It still works. Try these blue pills. Once you realise you can get hard you may not need them. Bollocks! I came to depend on them.
No problem As long as I had advance warning of things to come. But not ideal.
Now then. being Caged made me aware that I have quite a few nocturnal etrctions I wasn't aware of. I'm also very aware now when I'm aroused. Again more than I ever thought. But the big plus. Yes. My errections were harder. Now. much harder. I don't worry about it any more. If I didn't get hard I get locked again.. Its a double win for me.
And best of all. After 8 month of cage fun. If I'm out and my wife plays with it. I get rock hard. I cum. No pill. No worries. Without thinking about it.
We have less "actual Sex" than we used to. But it feels like we have more. And it's better. Happier. Desired sex unlike before.
Knowing Im out because my wife wants me is the most potent pill of all.
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Good to know it's not just me. I floated the idea of the little blue pills over 3 years ago, she was adamantly opposed to the idea. I'm not sure if it's because I have hypertension and they mess with your blood pressure, or she likes the idea that she knows how to get me up, but it wouldn't be obvious to any one else, so guaranteed monogamy :lol: So instead of the pills, I got our first Vixskin, she likes it, she really likes it. :mrgreen:
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This conversation looks to be a gathering of the old farts so I guess I need to join in. First, except for possibly @Mr Pickle, you guys are still young 'uns. I also went through some performance issues. I didn't say 'anxiety performance' because I'm not sure if anxiety caused the performance issues or the anxiety caused the issues. Either way, I discussed it with my doctor and started on the little blue pills. Even with good insurance I thought the copay was a lot for so few pills. The next visit at the VA I got my prescription switched over to their pharmacy. The couple of times I have been unlocked without warning since then I have been up to the plate with a hard bat. Still the insurance is nice to have, not that I get to put in a claim very often. My last orgasm was in mid November. There has been PIV since then but I was not allowed personal relief.

At this rate of usage I probably have a three lifetime supply of Viagra and 8 more refills authorized through the VA. Maybe I need a new career. :idea: anyone know how the street market is doing these days???? :lol:
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Nah, I'm only 62, but 20 years of statin drugs have some side effects, certainly the arthritis in my hands, and I'm willing to blame them for pretty much anything, including erectile issues. Not to mention the 3 different drugs for hypertension. (did you know that statin drugs have the side effect of accelerating the normal muscle loss that occurs due to age? I was in my mid 50's when I noticed I just was not as strong as I used to be, then the arthritis, then I looked up the side effects. You would think my Doc might have told me about possible side effects.

Anyway, we're having fun with the cage and strapping on the Vixskin.
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My god I would love it if my wife would consider a strap on. She has no problem with me going down there armed with toys, but im not sure how she would take such an idea. I'm currently in best behaviour and Not pushing it.
I wouldn't even know how to ask without it being a push lol
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Mr Pickle wrote: Sun Apr 12, 2020 8:53 am My god I would love it if my wife would consider a strap on. She has no problem with me going down there armed with toys, but im not sure how she would take such an idea. I'm currently in best behaviour and Not pushing it.
I wouldn't even know how to ask without it being a push lol
She decided we would visit a few "adult" stores just for fun. So we walked around, looked at things and she commented on the strap on harness, so I bought one. She's enjoyed it much more than we expected. I bought a cheap, $26, harness. She did not like the hard metal ring and snaps, but overall loved the experience. So I just bought a Deuce harness that has a soft elastic ring to hold the Vixskin and a pouch to hold me. Haven't had a chance to try it yet. But she loves the idea :D
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