Moments when it felt more "real"

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Moments when it felt more "real"

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I saw a thread on another forum (yes, I don't spend *all* my time here), and the writer said that he was surprised that he wasn't unlocked for his birthday; his wife told him that being in chastity was his gift.

This made me think of times in the past that it went from a fun game into something more serious.

Once, maybe a year or so after we started, I caught a really bad stomach flu. Felt miserable, had things coming out of me at both ends, missed work for a few days, ate saltines and ginger ale. You know.

Anyhow, after a week or so and I was feeling better, Mrs Edge mentioned that she hadn't even thought to unlock my cage. Not out of cruelty or anything, she just figured that I certainly wasn't horny, and if I really, really needed to be unlocked, I'd mention it.

Certainly, at the time I was too ill to be thinking about sex, but later on it was kind of hot to think that it had become such a "normal" part of our lives that she never thought twice about it.

This is more involved than the posts that would normally go in the "Hot things your keyholder said" thread. Anyone else?
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We had something happen that gave it the "real" feel for us.

I was allowed on a recent Monday morning to be unlocked because she just wanted PIV before she showered and headed off to work. I am required to always ask her for permission to cum. When she said yes I responded by saying "am I going to have to lock up right after" (this is a trigger mechanism for me). She said "yes you are". This is not always the case. When done she hoped into the shower and I got dressed not locking up. The desire to lock up just wasn't there now and she didn't mention it or bother checking when she hurriedly headed out the door to work.

When we went to bed later that night she reached over to say goodnight and grabbed my crotch. She shot up in bed and said, "why isn't this locked up?" I replied, "don't worry, I didn't do anything". She said sternly "you were told to lock up when I got in the shower". I said "I was the one who mentioned it and I really didn't think it was a big deal to you. You didn't even bother to check before you left for work".

She didn't say anything, rolled over and we both fell asleep. The next morning I was downstairs on the computer, most likely signed in here when she came up to me with tears in her eyes. She was upset that I disobeyed her and she said "you want me to take this thing seriously and I'm trying but then you go and do this". It became instantly very real for me that she would react that way. In almost 29 years happily married I can't count too many times a disagreement between us has brought her to tears.

We ended up talking the whole thing out and I explained that I didn't think by her actions that morning that she was this vested in me being in chastity. I was wrong and I screwed up.

Ya, real as it can get.

Maybe too real. :shock:
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I was about to have minor dick surgery, which would need to heal for 2 to 3 weeks after. Bear went out of his way to tease/edge me in the week prior to the surgery, telling me he wanted to be sure I had something to "coast on" while the dick was off limits. No mention of giving me an orgasm or several so I wouldn't be so desperately horny during recuperation - of course I don't come. And of course he kept putting a cock ring on me at home after the surgery - if the resulting strong erections were so painful as to warrant not wearing the ring, I'd have said something, right?
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A few months in, I needed a massage. I asked if I could uncage and wear boxers (by this point, it was panties only.) “You can buy a snug pair of tighty whities if you must, but there’s no need to uncage.”

I knew it was more than just a fun thing at that point.

Not long after, I had a big celebratory work event and my owner offered for me to uncage for it. I declined and I think that moment felt big for us both.
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Tom Allen wrote:
Thu Jan 30, 2020 10:01 am
Once, maybe a year or so after we started, I caught a really bad stomach flu. Felt miserable, had things coming out of me at both ends, missed work for a few days, ate saltines and ginger ale. You know.

Anyhow, after a week or so and I was feeling better, Mrs Edge mentioned that she hadn't even thought to unlock my cage. Not out of cruelty or anything, she just figured that I certainly wasn't horny, and if I really, really needed to be unlocked, I'd mention it.

Certainly, at the time I was too ill to be thinking about sex, but later on it was kind of hot to think that it had become such a "normal" part of our lives that she never thought twice about it.

This is more involved than the posts that would normally go in the "Hot things your keyholder said" thread. Anyone else?
Yep, we are both just getting over back-to-back bouts of illness, we have had some very serious flu strains around here this year, which apparently weren't included in the flu shots we got. The vaccines kept us from getting as sick as some others got (some deaths) but still not fun at all. Nary a mention of 'letting me out'.
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