From here on I will keep it up to date as it rolls out.
What done is done. But the future is still being written so any advice is welcome and I will tread carefully towards my (hopefully our) goal, once we work out what it is.
I think I might be on the right track now. More a voyage of discovery than a journey I think?
We are (after 18 years) still quite smitten with each other. I dont want to spoil this. However I'm positive we could both benefit greatly with a little experimentation.
I feel we are missing out on something.
My wife is adamant she has no kink in her or room for it. Nothing that isn't "normal"
But this clearly isn't the case (as you may see in the last pages of my journey)
My wife doesnt want me to hand over control of anything, but also doesn't seem to like not having control of some kind.
Any suggestion, chat or attempt at reasoning is usually shut down before it begins. But it seems shutting up and letting things fall into place might be working.
My wife doesnt make sense to me? And I don't make sense to My wife

Onwards to the breach
