How did you first learn about orgasm denial / chastity devices?

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How did you first learn about orgasm denial / chastity devices?

Post by Tom Allen » Fri Oct 18, 2019 8:35 am

I'm especially curious to hear from those who have discovered it in the last 5 years or so.

I'm an old timer; I was surfing late night on my dial up AOHell connection back in the mid to late 1990s, when I ran across a link aggregate site that took me to the old Altairboy chastity site. At first I thought it was pretty weird. I mean, mos tof my adult life I'd spent *trying* to have an orgasm, preferably inside a girl. I couldn't imagine why anyone would want to be locked into a device.

A couple months later I ran across it again. Then a few weeks later I checked back to see if there was anything new. And then a week later. Eventually I was hooked,and started making my own, and introduced the idea to my wife. This was before the CB2000 came out, but after several soldered stainless steel devices, I eventually bought a CB3000, which my wife really liked. I've been in and out since then.

I was thinking that I've known about them for almost 25 years now, and was curious how people now are running across the idea.
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Re: How did you first learn about orgasm denial / chastity devices?

Post by KittensBoyToy » Fri Oct 18, 2019 11:20 am

I was surfing the net for new porn and ran across some chastity stories. We were on shaky grounds at the time, to say the least and my porn/masturbation was a major part of our problems.

I did more research into the idea and approached Kitten with it a couple of weeks later. The rest, as they say, is history. For me it is also the future!
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Re: How did you first learn about orgasm denial / chastity devices?

Post by Skip » Fri Oct 18, 2019 12:18 pm

Completely unrelated. I was googling around for some D/S stuff and ran into one of the chastity blogs - it may have well been yours Tom, or Thumper's, or Mr and Mrs Lion - I'm not sure which it is really. It was an article about submission in general, I think, chastity might have been mentioned, and I got caught in a whirlpool of chastity related blogs that sold me on the idea in the general. It's only been a few weeks actually, and I never had interest in male chastity before that, found it quite weird actually that anyone would do that (and I had no idea it was done long-tem!). That didn't last long :D
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Re: How did you first learn about orgasm denial / chastity devices?

Post by Naljeans » Fri Oct 18, 2019 12:48 pm

I saw the CB2000 many years ago at the Stockroom website. I was instantly intrigued but the cost and size kept me away. It led to reading Altairboy, but was just fantasy. I re-engaged via porn a few years ago, then dipped my toes in when I saw how inexpensive cages had become.

I thought it would be a fun fetish or play activity. My KH was intrigued as well, and it fit our dynamic so well, it became 24/7 very quickly.
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Post by sherulestherooster » Fri Oct 18, 2019 3:37 pm

During our heavy child rearing years, partner was a SAHM and would often fall asleep with the kids and I was bored. Always interested in FemDom, I did some searching and found a forum relating to women who dominate their husbands and it really turned me on, especially the asymmetric/role reversal nature of it. Sex for the wife's pleasure only. Orgasm denial and chastity. Cuckolding. I also found altair web site and basically couldn't get enough of that dynamic.
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Re: How did you first learn about orgasm denial / chastity devices?

Post by Steve2059 » Sat Oct 19, 2019 8:38 am

I came across it quite by accident - in fact, in my vanilla(ish) years I had no idea that chastity was anything other than something evangelical Christians did before marriage, nor that cock cages existed. I wasn't entirely naive and did have a few fetishes and kinks I indulged in, if only rarely because She was very vanilla.

So I was surprised one night, aimlessly surfing, to discover edging. I was moved to give it a go and with a bit of practice, I got quite good at it. Because I've got a thing about setting then beating records (I'm going for a lock-up record now in fact) I ended up edging so often and for so long that my cock literally could no longer get erect.

I was very worried, but a day's rest and all was well. But I had discovered that I really enjoyed staying pre-orgasmic, with the orgasm not really being the climax (as it were) of either partner or solo sex.

From there it was a short step into discovering chastity since many websites contain edging, denial and chastity all together.
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Post by sirmebane » Wed Oct 23, 2019 9:10 pm

BDSM erotica which mentioned chastity and denial which lead me to search the web which lead me like many here to Altairboy's website on chastity. A lot of what was there was $1,000 and up, custom made from Europe and wildly out of a curious newbie's price range.

I really started getting serious about my curiosity when I found the under $300 plastic devices as a thing and started with metal Chinese cages until I spent the money for my Jail Bird.
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Re: How did you first learn about orgasm denial / chastity devices?

Post by danj » Thu Oct 24, 2019 6:09 pm

It was early 2000's, probably '02-04, somewhere in there. I think I may have first ran across it in one of the old Yahoo clubs. Think the club was orgasm denial which led to reading on devices. For the first few years it was a strong fantasy and topic for masturbation. I eventually bought a cb-6000s around '09 or so and found this forum not long after that.
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Re: How did you first learn about orgasm denial / chastity devices?

Post by AlcoholicBasilisk » Fri Oct 25, 2019 9:28 pm

My first exposure was with furry porn, and to that point I thought it was hot but dismissed it for the most part. Recently I learned my boyfriend was into it so I'm diving into the rabbit hole head first, so to speak.

We're both fairly new to chastity, and I think I might be taking it more seriously than he is... But that might also be because I've got more disposable income than he does.
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Re: How did you first learn about orgasm denial / chastity devices?

Post by Bunny » Sat Oct 26, 2019 3:34 pm

I first learned about Chastity Somewhere in the neighborhood of 2001.

I was reading RE:search Modern Primitives. Fakir spoke about penile negation by wrapping himself in plaster. I tried to do this, but I was completely aroused by the idea and the plaster wasn’t curing. I tried a few more attempts with varying degrees of success.

Not long after that, I was peruseing an adult site and I discovered the CB-2000. It was in stock at a local store. At the time, I was really embarrassed to discuss my Chastity interest. Two weeks later, while I was doing laundry, I forced myself to go back in the store. This time, I bought it.

I hurried back to the laundromat and crammed myself into the cage.

I was hooked.
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