In longer term denial? How has it changed you?

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Re: In longer term denial? How has it changed you?

Post by danj » Thu Aug 08, 2019 12:32 pm

Tom Allen wrote:
Mon Aug 05, 2019 9:27 am
I'm returning to this because I had another thought. Yes, I do feel "sated", as you ask, and at some point over the years, I've lost the "need" to have an orgasm. Not the desire, which always remains with me, but that almost overwhelming need for release. I don't know if it's age (although I almost always wake up hard, and am certainly very aroused enough for sex several times a week), or if it's something else.

I mean, about once every 4 to 6 weeks, I'm aroused enough to have an orgasm in my cage, so maybe that helps to keep things under control?
Do you orgasm in the cage on a regular basis then? I could see that relieving enough pressure to stay locked pretty much indefinitely. As for the sated piece, while I'm probably not fully sated, I'm sometimes surprised how sated I can feel after giving her an orgasm while locked.
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Re: In longer term denial? How has it changed you?

Post by Tom Allen » Thu Aug 08, 2019 2:32 pm

As I said, probably once a month I'm having some kind of "release" or spillover in the cage. Sometimes it's pretty powerful and is as satisfying as a regular PIV orgasm. Other times it's less, or ruined, and I feel "incomplete".

But the rest of the time, I've managed to be in some kind of mental state in which I'm sated or satisfied by giving my wife several orgasms.
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Re: In longer term denial? How has it changed you?

Post by LockedUpNewb » Mon Sep 09, 2019 11:41 am

It takes between 6--7 weeks before my brain finally accepts that I'm not cumming. At that point, my brain tends to shift more towards total submissiveness. The desire to orgasm subsides quite a bit.

Once I reach the 8 or 9 week mark, I tend to NOT want to have an orgasm. This is the stage of denial that my wife enjoys the most. She knows it doesn't take much effort to get me on the edge, and she really loves to edge me but deny my orgasms. At this point, I've begged, pleaded, even cried... asking her NOT to make me cum. After 8 or 9 weeks I don't want to ruin the heightened state of arousal with an orgasm. I'd much rather be teased mercilessly and then locked up again with no orgasm.

We've gotten into this situation twice. Both times, when she finally did allow me to have an explosive orgasm, I was BEGGING her not to do it. She's a fast learner and makes frequent threats to lock me up for very long periods of time.
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