Different effects between just touching, edging, ruined O

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Different effects between just touching, edging, ruined O

Post by PervParadox » Wed Jul 17, 2019 3:47 pm

Hi all,
I'm fairly new to denial over 'longer' periods. 52 days is the current record with quite a few edges and many of those leaking precum or a mild ruined orgasm.
I'm curious as to the different psychological and psychological effects of different ways of denial.
As far as I can tell there are 4 ways to be denied; no touching, mild touching but no edging, edging but no leaking, or the ruined orgasm. The latter being definitely some shooting but no spasms or the drop in arausal after a real orgasm.

What would you say are different effects of the over 'longer' periods of time?

Any input is greatly appreciated as of course I'm looking to go as deep down the rabbit hole of our liking as possible.
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Re: Different effects between just touching, edging, ruined O

Post by slave d » Wed Jul 17, 2019 10:19 pm

The longer we have gone the more i really don’t want want to cum at all and so i actively stop MsM playing when i feel that might happen. She always plays until She gets a dribble of “Her seed” run out and then has me relock. It’s absolutely the way we both love it.

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Re: Different effects between just touching, edging, ruined O

Post by TwistedMister » Thu Jul 18, 2019 3:20 am

PervParadox wrote:
Wed Jul 17, 2019 3:47 pm
As far as I can tell there are 4 ways to be denied; no touching, mild touching but no edging, edging but no leaking, or the ruined orgasm. The latter being definitely some shooting but no spasms or the drop in arausal after a real orgasm.

What would you say are different effects of the over 'longer' periods of time?
After some weeks of being locked in the CB3k, not getting out for any reason, at times I find I have an extreme desire/longing to be able to be free, to have a full erection, to be able to touch and rub it a little bit. It can be very intense when it hits.
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Re: Different effects between just touching, edging, ruined O

Post by Critter228 » Thu Jul 18, 2019 9:27 am

After long denials With little to no play from m gf, I get depressed, lose my sex drive, and get
Bitter. I just want it to end and go back to “normal.” If I had a more sexual gf who teased regularly maybe I could stay interested much longer.
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Re: Different effects between just touching, edging, ruined O

Post by PervParadox » Sun Jul 21, 2019 1:44 pm

Thank you for your input all!
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Re: Different effects between just touching, edging, ruined O

Post by Tom Allen » Mon Jul 22, 2019 8:02 am

We have to distinguish between neglect and denial. Denial with no touching or interaction is simply neglect.
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Post by Schnoff » Fri Jul 26, 2019 4:16 pm

^^ This. It’s important that both - correction, all - partner’s needs are met. Just that “orgasm” isn’t a need for everyone.
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Re: Different effects between just touching, edging, ruined O

Post by Paraplegicsub » Fri Aug 30, 2019 3:06 am

I am up to 40 days now. I posted on another site that the cum eating rule my wife introduced over a year ago is causing me to cum less and less. I hate swallowing I find it really difficult. We never do edging my wife does not touch my penis I have to put my cage on myself. My main release is on the toilet. When I poop I drip cum all over the seat and also I drip in my cage often the so called chastity cage tears. My wife has sex with other guys which is fine I can't have sex with her so what's she supposed to do. The only time anyone touches my penis is the nurse every six weeks who changes my catheter.
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