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Re: Time without orgasm

Post by KittensBoyToy » Tue Jul 16, 2019 9:52 am

There is no scheduled or regular time for me but the minimum has been around 30 days. Previous longest time was 108 days once but I am currently at 109 and counting.
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Re: Time without orgasm

Post by Lockedchef » Tue Jul 16, 2019 10:24 pm

I haven't cum in 10 days but sometimes it's twice a day. There is no rhyme or reason to it all
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Re: Time without orgasm

Post by locked4her55 » Wed Jul 17, 2019 3:02 pm

Tom Allen wrote:
Tue Jul 16, 2019 8:39 am
and then we have the weirdos who go for ridiculously long terms.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6uM1MlQ0S64
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Re: Time without orgasm

Post by Critter228 » Thu Jul 18, 2019 9:25 am

Longest without a full orgasm was recent...57 days. However there were multiple ruined orgasms. Sometimes weeks apart. Sometimes minutes apart. I’ve attempted milking with no success.
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Re: Time without orgasm

Post by 613LockedUp » Thu Jul 18, 2019 11:12 am

Looks like there's a full spectrum. Longest I've been locked with cleanings and some play is 33 days. Longest without orgasm is 13 days. She's never really milked me and I've has a few ruined orgasms.
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Re: Time without orgasm

Post by Cueball » Thu Jul 18, 2019 2:35 pm

For me it's not about the numbers but about the feeling. It only takes about three or four days for the "bees" to arrive (that feeling of increased desire you get after abstinence) and while it does increase after that initial period, four days is the point of diminishing returns.

That doesn't mean four days is it - quite the contrary. It't just that it's that feeling that's important, much more so that ringing up stats. If given a choice between spurting now and another 24 hours of denial, I'll opt to wait every time. And if asked again after the first 24 hours I'll again opt for another day. This cycle in theory is endless.

Or it would be if it were my decision, which it isn't. My wife decides when it's time, and it's solely her decision. I'm not allowed to complain about it (and there's really nothing to complain about) I thank her for every day I go without, and thank her for every release. It works for us. YMMV.

As for numbers, the longest was a month and a half (46 days). It's typically ten days to three weeks, but there's a lot of variation according to her whim.

Ruined orgasms are never intentional (I'm not sure we could manage it if we actually tried) but they do happen by accident. Last one was about 11 days ago, which counted as a release assuming anybody is bothering to count.

Milking is not part of our repertoire.

As for "other forms of orgasm-related experience", we do something like that almost every day when we're together. I'll leave the details to your imagination, suffice it to say I don't feel at all deprived. Quite the opposite. Less frequent ejaculations has led to the best sex of my life. I think that's supposed to be the point of the exercise.
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Re: Time without orgasm

Post by mr_faithful » Thu Jul 18, 2019 4:24 pm

1. Days without full orgasm; 60
2. Days without ruined orgasm (some semen); never had one that I can remember
3. Days without milking; n/a
4. Days without other forms of orgasm-related experience. 60

Today is my 60 day milestone, and I forgot about it until I started counting when I saw this post! I knew it was coming up, but I don't count every day.
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Re: Time without orgasm

Post by mr_faithful » Thu Jul 18, 2019 4:28 pm

Tom Allen wrote:
Tue Jul 16, 2019 8:39 am
and then we have the weirdos who go for ridiculously long terms
lol written by the weirdest weirdo of long terms
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Re: Time without orgasm

Post by Tom Allen » Thu Jul 18, 2019 7:24 pm

You'd think so, but sometimes I feel like a Freshman in the Senior lunch period.
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Re: Time without orgasm

Post by sls01234 » Mon Jul 22, 2019 11:05 am

our best has been 52 days she is thinking of changing that this winter
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