Ideal chastity term

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Grizzly228
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Ideal chastity term

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How long would you prefer to be locked up/denied at a time? Like what would be the perfect length for your taste? And don't say 1 or 2 days because for that was the case we wouldn't be on the site. LOL. And I don't wanna hear forever. I mean if it was up to you what would be the average length of time tease and denied

I wonder cause I find it peaks after about 2 weeks with occasional flare ups of intense lust particularly when being teased obviously. I think my preferred length would be 2-3 weeks at a time with occasional time off to enjoy myself. Which is pretty close to what I have now so I am fortunate.

Just wanted to hear some other opinions
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I think my preferred time is 4-6 weeks. I mean there is not set schedule for me so the length is always changing but if my release is somewhere in the 4-6 week then I'm good. But, I'm also unlocked once or twice a week for cleaning.
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Re: Ideal chastity term

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I'm just a few months into this and learning as I go but so many memes on Tumblr talk about "It isn't really chastity until you want to get out. Then it begins."

I'm at day 19 (personal record) and the past 48 hours have been more of a challenge for me that I was ready to handle. I'm so... distracted.

From my rather limited experience, I'd have to say a month is where things start getting serious and more than that is prime time. I'm so ready but I really don't want it to end. The male mind is confused and conflicted while the female is thoroughly satisfied and clear.

Not sure what ideal is for me but I'm finding new borders as I go.
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Grizzly228
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Re: Ideal chastity term

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A week used to be it for me. Then 2. Now it's 2-3. But once I'm that long, I do dread ending it a bit because I know how much work it took to get that far. So I don't want it to end, yet crave an orgasm so I understand what you mean.
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Grizzly228 wrote:A week used to be it for me. Then 2. Now it's 2-3. But once I'm that long, I do dread ending it a bit because I know how much work it took to get that far. So I don't want it to end, yet crave an orgasm so I understand what you mean.
I agree. I dont like having to start over again. The ideal length for my KH and i is about 4 months. Right now i am at 3 months and extremely horny!
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I'm on the 3-4 week plan usually. I could and have gone longer but I would need some T&D just so I know she's still interested.

I get that once you are past a month it's almost like "what could be my personal best"?
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2-3 weeks would be good. But my wife disagrees.
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Shepherdsflock wrote:2-3 weeks would be good. But my wife disagrees.
:lol:

My wife reminds me, "It's not about you and how long you want to go, it's about what I want and I want you inside of me right now". :shock:
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locked4her55 wrote:
Shepherdsflock wrote:2-3 weeks would be good. But my wife disagrees.
:lol:

My wife reminds me, "It's not about you and how long you want to go, it's about what I want and I want you inside of me right now". :shock:
Quite right too.
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Honestly - as long as my KH wishes - her pleasure in denying me and controlling my erections is so rewarding, she loves chastity - I don't even ask for release anymore, it's all up to her now - and it's become even better by giving her full control, and letting her decide when she wants PIV or T&D... Chastity has been a huge change element in our life, and as long as she loves it - who am I to complain!!!! But on average I'd say 2-3 weeks if she is stressed, or weekly (2-3 times per weekend) when she is relaxed... Seems like I have a vested interest in her "relaxation"...
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