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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by TwistedMister » Sun Sep 15, 2019 7:07 am

Chastityat60 wrote:
Sat Sep 14, 2019 8:05 pm
I would like to post a thank you also, but I'm blocked..
In what way?
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by Chastityat60 » Sun Sep 15, 2019 8:02 am

The other day I went to post and a message came up saying my up. Was blacklisted, with instructions to a certain link provided to get my IP off the list. I followed it as best as I knew to do.. then sent that recent post as a test message...which went ok. I guess I'm not blacklisted any more.Not sure what I may have posted that was bad or wrong.. maybe someone else got ahold of my IP ?
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by Tom Allen » Sun Sep 15, 2019 8:36 am

Odd.

Next time get a screen capture. I've never seen this. Maybe @Schnoff was doing some database maintenance.
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by TwistedMister » Sun Sep 15, 2019 8:49 am

Chastityat60 wrote:
Sun Sep 15, 2019 8:02 am
The other day I went to post and a message came up saying my up. Was blacklisted, with instructions to a certain link provided to get my IP off the list. I followed it as best as I knew to do.. then sent that recent post as a test message...which went ok. I guess I'm not blacklisted any more.Not sure what I may have posted that was bad or wrong.. maybe someone else got ahold of my IP ?
What was the link/site, and what were the instructions?

(Trying to determine if it was a valid blacklisting, such as from Spamcop, or if you somehow got scammed and might have just got malwared.)
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by Schnoff » Sun Sep 15, 2019 11:11 am

No database maintenance being done. Typically these black lists are populated when spam originates from the IP. The list is not maintained by us, it’s external:
“ Check IP against DNS Blackhole List:
If enabled the user’s IP address is checked against the following DNSBL services on registration and posting: spamcop.net and www.spamhaus.org. ”

The two most common reasons your IP would be flagged as spam or malicious are:
- Someone got infected, their machine was used. When the ISP cycled IPs around, as they do periodically (the technical mechanism for this is DHCP if you want to do a nerd dive), you got it by sheer chance and now you are the one on the black list.
- Your machine got infected and you are sending spam / being used for malware attacks without your knowledge


We always hope for the former, not the latter, of course :).
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by Chastityat60 » Sun Sep 15, 2019 12:12 pm

I do remember seeing spamhaus. In the message. Not a computer guy. New 2 smart phone.. this year. If you see phone doing bad things..on this site.. please contact me asap . Thanks
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by Chastityat60 » Sun Sep 15, 2019 6:07 pm

I wanted to ad my thank you to the others for the way you administer this site. Maybe someday my wife will come around and visit. The last thing she needs to see is some of the other stuff that you so diligently are trying to limit here. Thanks.
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by sherulestherooster » Fri Sep 20, 2019 1:06 pm

Freaky_Dude wrote:
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I mentioned to my psychiatrist today that I'm now in a chastity device to keep me from 'taking care of myself' instead of focusing on my wife. He said Caging the phallus in long-term couples is "not uncommon." #TheMoreYouKnow
I never really read this thread until now, but this statement caught my eye. I've gone to sex shops for quite some time (for toys, porn, lingerie) and I don't recall ever seeing chastity cages but the last time I was in a store I saw a few. I guess chastity is gaining popularity by this and the many cages available online these days. What I don't know is how often this is a male purchasing it out of curiosity or couples like Freaky_Dude and his wife that use it as a relationship enhancer.

But I find the therapist's comment very interesting.

Cheers
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by TwistedMister » Sat Sep 21, 2019 7:09 am

sherulestherooster wrote:
Fri Sep 20, 2019 1:06 pm
I never really read this thread until now, but this statement caught my eye. I've gone to sex shops for quite some time (for toys, porn, lingerie) and I don't recall ever seeing chastity cages but the last time I was in a store I saw a few. I guess chastity is gaining popularity by this and the many cages available online these days. What I don't know is how often this is a male purchasing it out of curiosity or couples like Freaky_Dude and his wife that use it as a relationship enhancer.

But I find the therapist's comment very interesting.

Cheers
Mrs. Twisted saw one in a shop some years ago, she told me that the only reason she didn't buy it was that she was uncertain about sizing issues.
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by Lady M » Sun Sep 22, 2019 7:08 am

Just putting this out there... Hubby and I used to see the same therapist (individually, not couples therapy) so he definitely got to see both sides of the story in our relationship.

Anyway... He knew we began our Wife led marriage and chastity and we talked about how we have the blog, etc. He never saw it or knew what was on it but we talked about it all the time.

We also talked about it openly with hubby's urologist at the time we started because we wanted to know what we were wanting to do, was safe.
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