... for some value of "vanilla."

[Dogtanian69]

Heh, I’d like to make it clear that I’m not a sissy, I’m an combat veteran with a beard, shaved head and 42 tattoos, it’ll be 43 after tomorrow. My Wife does like to dress me up in ridiculous clothes and underwear every now and again. Not because it turns me on, but because I’ll do it if She tells me to, which turns Her on, and in turn turns me on. On my off days when the kids aren’t here I usually find myself in panties and a frilly white starched apron, cleaning the house… with my Wife either here, with Her ex girlfriend or watching on the security cameras and giving instructions. Do I want to do that? Yes and no… it’s complicated. Some of my captions are a little ambiguous, BUT if you dig on Tumblr, there’s an FAQ that I should probably repost there, it’s been a while. When we first met, we both worked at Renaissance festivals, and that was a somewhat “interesting” lifestyle until the kids came along….

[TwistedMister]

Heh, I’d like to make it clear that I’m not a sissy, I’m an combat veteran with a beard, shaved head and 42 tattoos, it’ll be 43 after tomorrow. My Wife does like to dress me up in ridiculous clothes and underwear every now and again. Not because it turns me on, but because I’ll do it if She tells me to, which turns Her on, and in turn turns me on. On my off days when the kids aren’t here I usually find myself in panties and a frilly white starched apron, cleaning the house… with my Wife either here, with Her ex girlfriend or watching on the security cameras and giving instructions. Do I want to do that? Yes and no… it’s complicated. Some of my captions are a little ambiguous, BUT if you dig on Tumblr, there’s an FAQ that I should probably repost there, it’s been a while. When we first met, we both worked at Renaissance festivals, and that was a somewhat “interesting” lifestyle until the kids came along….

Former 2nd Armored Division here, mountain man beard but no tattoos (wasn't allowed to have them when I was in and had little desire after I got out), dressing up in frillies doesn't do anything for me either. But, if the wife wanted it? I don't know. I didn't set a 'limit' against it, but I don't think she's inclined to go there.

A couple of weeks ago I mentioned to the Mrs. that I had occasionally toyed with the idea of putting the 2AD patch on my left chest, she read up on it and now she's started buying me t-shirts and stuff with the 2AD patch. She said "I never knew"...I have a display table with my patches, stripes, ribbons, unit insignia, two .50 rounds and my trusty MAC 'room broom'. It's been in the livingroom, next to the couch, for years.

I don't know where the rest of my ren get-up is, but the huge broadsword is taking up a spot in the gun cabinet.

[Dogtanian69]

Heh, 1/3 of my closet space is Ren Faire costumes, 1/3 is Star Trek uniforms…. And the kilt collection spans both. The kick isn’t wearing women’s underwear and clothes, it’s being “made to” just like the chastity cage really.

[Bobby290]

Being honest here. My wife and I have been pretty adventurous in our younger years. Swinging clubs.. parties.. open marriage.. and cuckolding which is where I first experienced denial and chastity. We got older and maybe wiser. Now it is just us and we need something to add some fire and excitement. Denial always kept me fizzing and a chastity device enhances the scenario. My wife is my only focus and we both love this dynamic. Weekend is here... let's have fun

Bob

[LockEmUp]

Coming from a vanilla wife - Thank you.
My hubby brought this up and suggested I look into a chastity forum, and the "other one" you mentioned looked a little intimidating, so I was relieved to find your forum.
We're new on this journey, been happily married for 30+ years and love to keep things fresh... or at least an open mind.
thanks,
Maria

[Tom Allen]

@LockEmUp

This group is for mature minded folks who use orgasm denial as a way to enhance their relationship. I'm sure you'll find useful information and support.

[ARK]

LockEmUp,
Tom Allen’s response sound formal or canned.

I would not consider myself mature, quite the opposite. Have fun on this forum, post questions, describe yourself. The more the forum knows about you, the more interactive there is. No body is trying to out you.

Read some of my post you will find I am a kilt wearing tomato growing dude who wears a chastity cage. Mrs. Ark is VANILLA. But she is starting to change.

Have fun and look forward to reading your posts.

[BritCanUsa]

@LockEmUp

I'm new to this forum as a member but have been a lurker for quite a long time....and locked in chastity for a lot longer.

I can definitely assure you that this place is the least argumentative, the most inclusive and definitely not judgmental. Above all that, given we all experience this journey in slightly different ways, the information you can get here is going to be a huge value to you both in your exploration and fun

Ask what ever you want !..the most you can think is 'oh that just doesn't work for us' and adapt .....best case is it starts a conversation and you find your own way to enjoy

Ask away !

ps. Not meant in any condescending way but well done to you in being open and indeed for gathering more info on the topic your hubby brought up to explore. Many partners might not be as enlightened and could miss out on an experience that could be a game changer for them.