Anyone else denied PIV sex?

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daveaby
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I have been denied PIV sex with my wife for almost 4 years. I am pretty sure that it will be this way for the rest of my life. I have been able to engage in many kinks and other ways to get off. I probably have more frequent and more satisfying orgasms now than I ever did before my new denied status. I even get turned on by my wife teasing me about how I am not permitted access any longer. I really could not be happier.
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We are older, PIV once or twice a month is about our norm,
She loves her vibrators and I am trying to be self locked faithfully with no manual stimulation except cleaning,
We are both free to masturbate when ever we want..however for me, it’s the discipline not to with or without a device..
My device has a ring of 3 spikes along the bottom side. It does nothing for the first week after a full on orgasm..by week 2 regular erection attempts makes those semi dull/sharp points very noticeable..kinda almost painful..which actually encourages the program to engorge even more..at some point, the brain gets the message of no play time today,..then things settle down..
Sooo, by the time we are ready again, I AM READY!
She does not deny me and will always want me to O in or out ,, no matter for her..
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I’m not denied PIV, but since she is no longer on the pill and we both really dislike condoms, I am reduced to pulling out just before I orgasm. Unfortunately for me that is not terribly enjoyable, so while I’m not denied, it’s not very fulfilling. She is beginning to enjoy using toys more and keeping me locked while she does more often, and I can’t say that bothers me.
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Post by Tom Allen »

@buzby,
since she is no longer on the pill and we both really dislike condoms, I am reduced to pulling out just before I orgasm.
You do know that there is sperm in your pre-ejaculate fluid, and the pullout method is only 75% under the best of circumstances, right?
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Tom Allen wrote: Sat Sep 11, 2021 7:03 am ...the pullout method is only 75% under the best of circumstances...
Maybe not even that good, depending on circumstances and given the fact of what we do. After not having had an orgasm/ejaculation for some period of time and the prostate filled to capacity, I have noticed that I can 'leak' fairly significant amounts of semen during stimulation without orgasm.

Since the Mrs. is no longer fertile, this is not an issue for me...but for someone whose wife *is* fertile, it could be like playing with matches and gunpowder- sooner or later, somebody is going to get blown up (pun intended). (And if you live in TX your options have become extremely limited, if another child is not among your desires.)
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I’m not terribly worried as it took us a LOT of trying to have our first kiddo, and while we’re not actively trying at the moment, a second has been discussed more than once. But...if I can use that argument for her to keep me locked more often during playtime...ha ha ha.
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