After many years of on-again off-again chastity 'play' it's amazing to me that being locked in a Steelworxx Steelheart has become the new normal. It rarely comes off and when it does it usually goes right back on shortly thereafter. We think almost nothing of it being there. It just is. I'm starting to think of it much like another wedding ring - or perhaps promise ring - although with much more practical force behind it. And, as much as I think about tease and kink possibilities related to it, our marriage, our activities and the way we relate to each other occur for the most part without any reference to the device. Only that we know for a fact she prefers the man that I am when locked. And if it works well for her, then it works well for me.
Cosmo