So, as I posted before my wife is vanilla but had agreed to try the chastity thing with me. After the first locking I was out for a while and I'd almost forgotten about it to be honest. One day, out of the blue, after she'd come back from shopping and picking me up a pair of pants she stated "You can try your pants on and after that I'll lock you up." I was quite a bit surprised, and commented I didn't need it, but she said I did.
I came downstairs later with the device on, since it takes some work to get it on and I don't want her to think it's a struggle. I handed her the lock in the kitchen and walked to the living room. She stated "I don't want to see this, I want to see the device put together and being worn." I told her it was on and to my surprise she said "Oh, then come on...". I walked into the kitchen and she looked at me and said "OK, drop em!". I was a bit caught off guard but dropped my shorts in front of her. She inspected it and quickly locked the device up.
To make a long story short I was quite surprised by HER bringing it up! Anyone else find their wife becoming very fond of the chastity thing? Other comments and thoughts are definitely welcomed!
-New
P.S. I secretly hope she'll embrace the control and turn me into her slave...but for now I'm happy with the chastity.
Second round of lockup in the Bird Cage...
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Re: Second round of lockup in the Bird Cage...
The moral of this story “When beginning chastity play, don’t put pressure on the KH.”
This and communication is the hardest things when first starting.
Hope you have a happy and frustrating New Year.
This and communication is the hardest things when first starting.
Hope you have a happy and frustrating New Year.
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Re: Second round of lockup in the Bird Cage...
Yup, I agree with LbLRC, It sounds like you are on your way. Just remember, she needs to get something out of this too! Actually, she needs to get a lot more than you do.
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Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273
Re: Second round of lockup in the Bird Cage...
Honestly, she could have what ever she wanted. I would happily do whatever she asked. Just needing to get her to embrace the control she has when I'm locked, LOL.locked4her55 wrote:Just remember, she needs to get something out of this too! Actually, she needs to get a lot more than you do.
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Honestly, she shouldn't have to ask!NewToCB6K wrote:Honestly, she could have what ever she wanted. I would happily do whatever she asked.
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Happily secured since 4/2010
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273