Chastity via Hypnosis success

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Re: Chastity via Hypnosis success

Post by male_pet » Wed Oct 10, 2012 12:33 pm

BTB,

It sounds like your keyholder definitely likes her new toy. It's nice to have another datapoint that hypnotic chastity belt keyholders seem to take to their new role quite readily. Good luck!

I can also report that after three weeks of lockup, I managed to have a hands-free ruined orgasm by clenching my PC muscle while viewing some pornography. I've seen other cases where people can do this belted, so I guess this is pretty standard stuff. Occasional ruined orgasms or milking would seems to be the solutions for those that might find that loophole in HCB wearing to be a problem.
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Re: Chastity via Hypnosis success

Post by betheball » Wed Oct 10, 2012 8:21 pm

MP

Yes, I think my KH does like the prospects of her new toy. Will find out more this weekend, if various text messages and emails are a sign. When we talk on the phone, kids or daily issues are at hand, but it's clear that her curiousity is engaged late at night, and when she's alone, which seems a good thing.

Lee sent a note suggesting that for 'best effect', my KH should test the device, either by unlocking/locking, or by some other command. She also suggests not to "test drive", and instead encourage my KH to lock or unlock based on desired end state. While she emailed this to reinforce my concerns of transfer effectiveness, I doubt there's much to improve upon, as my hands "can't get a grip" beyond showering/dressing/bathroom duties". It seems almost silly, but as soon as even showering begins to turn to something else, the mental lock engages, and my hand (either one) will lock up arthritically, unable to close on even light stroking. Pumping an erect cock is akin to getting a grip on a greased pole. One stroke is about all that I am allowed to do before hands fly away. Even nipple play (admittedly, a big turn on for me)is off limits. Grinding away onto the mattress is okay for a little while, but as I "get close", either I "lose interest", or hips will just "lock up", and refuse to go. It sounds weird, but my subconscious is not only powerful, but seems to have me figured out pretty well.

The PC muscle trick seems plausible, but a long road to get there. But perhaps, in the name of science, this is worth some quality porn-viewing time?! Thanks for the inspiration!

btb
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Re: Chastity via Hypnosis success

Post by betheball » Wed Nov 07, 2012 9:22 pm

Just checking in, as I've been traveling a bit, and unable for work or other reasons, to "lurk" on the blog as much as I would like.

So, here we are, several weeks into wearing the HCB. I can report no rashes, no chafing, no bulges...but definitely working. Very interesting, as the transfer of the "key" has not only worked well, but repeated use by my KH seems to make the belt even stronger. She has adopted well, using commands/triggers to either turn the belt on, or off. With travel (hers and mine) a somewhat constant (and yet erratic) part of our day-to-day, this seems to be a way to keep the kink, while living an outwardly normal life. Showering, when denied for a few weeks, is an exercise in futility, as my conscious mind tries (daily) to outwit my subconscious into a good ol' fashioned stroke.

As for the effectiveness during sex, it's weird. I still get very horny, and fully erect, but find myself unwilling, or unable to climax. She can ride me, and induce something that I can only describe as a ruined orgasm, as my body will lock up, or even recoil from a pending orgasm. But most times, it just seems that an erection is very quick to even the slightest touch or interest, but orgasm seems far away. In the same way that my subconscious is now programmed to not allow me to touch myself, my body will tend to repel an impending orgasm. When she commands a trigger to remove the belt, and allow me to come, either inside her (on those 1-2 days/month when cycles will allow), orgasms are more intense, and fulfilling when given the command. A ruined one, is at best, similar to a milking exercise, and neither enjoyable, nor all that draining. An unlocked one...feels as good as anything I can describe or recall.

There's still a lot to figure out, as we've had some interesting discussion regarding where "I'm at" on all this. MP had good counsel about how there is a sense of a hypnotist in our relationship, either as a third party (my fantasy), or as a distraction to my KH (her concern). Time, and the feeling of control, including engaging me in long-term tease, denial, or play on her whims - when "belted" - does seem to be increasingly attractive. While the device conveyed a physical sense of control, and a submissive "space", the mental aspects of this new toy are still evolving. Not sure where this may lead, but currently, enjoying the ride. Can't recommend, but certainly a good place for me. Not getting rid of the cage, but probably not wearing it for a while, either.

Hope all is well - back to lurking!

btb
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Re: Chastity via Hypnosis success

Post by cb6000s » Sat Nov 10, 2012 4:49 pm

I've listened to a few sissy/chastity hypnosis tapes and they haven't done much for me. They ar not telling me anything I don't already know. For me they only reinforce my beliefes. Nothing wrong with that but they aren't changing anything.
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Re: Chastity via Hypnosis success

Post by betheball » Fri Dec 07, 2012 5:09 pm

CB

I'm not sure which sites you are referring to, but the site and files referenced in this thread (www.leeallure.com), as they relate to male chastity, are not sissified. At least from what I can tell. I'm in a very vanilla relationship, with no "sissification" tolerated or proposed. This is more about control. The files do not reveal new information. However, when applied, they create a subconscious "belt" that (for this humble reader) is as strong as any metal device. Combined with a few other files, that "reinforce" the submission (but not the sissification) to subconscious control, the bonds are almost unbelievably strong.

What has been compelling is the transfer of control from "remote hypnotist" to the hands of my KH. All done by email. And with repeated use, bonds and commands that are stronger still.

Still enjoying this - but glad to peak in on the forum and the journey of MC through more physical tools.

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Re: Chastity via Hypnosis success

Post by anominus » Tue Jan 08, 2013 2:08 am

Tom Allen wrote:mp - I've already emailed Lee Allure for some information, and she was very prompt and courteous in her response. I'll let you know how the first stage turns out.
Tom, I was just rereading this thread, and I assume you'd post an update if you had any, but nevertheless ...

Any update?
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Re: Chastity via Hypnosis success

Post by Tom Allen » Tue Jan 08, 2013 9:38 am

anominus wrote: Tom, I was just rereading this thread, and I assume you'd post an update if you had any, but nevertheless ...

Any update?
I hadn't done anything while the weather was warm (i.e., bike season) because I really didn't have the time to sit for an hour trying to make it work. However, I've been thinking about this recently, and I'm thinking about giving hypnosis another try over the winter.
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Re: Chastity via Hypnosis success

Post by betheball » Wed Jan 09, 2013 9:24 am

Well, one nice thing about a HCB: It's not too cold to put on in the winter, or hot and sweaty to wear in the summer!!! Very easy to ride a bike while wearing as well. Seriously, while inviting a hypnotist into the bedroom is about as tricky as it sounds, it continues to be a great avenue to explore on the MC journey. (there's probably a whole new stream of blogs that need to be written about that!)

happy listening

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Re: Chastity via Hypnosis success

Post by betheball » Thu Mar 07, 2013 5:32 pm

Hey, Tom.

Just wondering if you ever had any luck with the hypnotic chastity files?

For me, I guess the most amazing news is that there is no news. Still locked, with release seeming to be controlled and carried out by my KH/wife about every 30 days. Very cyclical, and yet, sometimes not, as I never really know when release will happen. Starting to experiment (or be experimented on) with turning the belt on and off, and on again, which is a bit twisted...and fun. Even arranged for a "live session" with Lee - just to tweak the belt a bit - making it more powerful by way of combining other triggers and reinforcing key messages. Long story, but we needed a way to "dial up" or "dial back" the belt. Still working on that, but the early results are good.

Listening to the foundational files is a bit infrequent now. But still very enjoyable, and actually the craving I have is for the relaxation and sense of calm that they provide. Engaging chastity from a place of calm is actually a much better platform than from jacked up and horny 24/7. Still very, very horny after a period of time without release, but there's a lot less fidgeting, and surprisingly low motivation to cheat the device, or seek out alternatives. With the possible exception that just about anything will drive me to instant horniness. Knowing that only my KH can release me (or Lee, but that's not a viable option), creates a very close, and distinct behavioral shift for me...and for my kh. She seems much more certain of the power she has, which creates a lot less tension for both of us.

all good. I will admit it's not as day-to-day tormenting as a metal device. But with an active lifestyle, and nosy kids, and travel schedules - this is still a very good place to be.

glad to check in - back to the lurking...
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Re: Chastity via Hypnosis success

Post by Atone » Thu Mar 07, 2013 7:00 pm

betheball wrote:Engaging chastity from a place of calm is actually a much better platform than from jacked up and horny 24/7.
I am glad to hear the hypnosis is going well. I still want to try this but finding the quiet time is a challenge. Even without the hypnosis I agree completely with your statement that I quoted above. I am not always in that place but I am more so than not, it is a great place to be.
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