Yes, there is a change. And like you, he tries to fight it but I still see it. It isn't a drastic change, people would not even notice for the most part. His stress level is higher, his tolerance with the kids and me is lower, and he is not quite as attentive as he is pre-orgasm.Atone wrote: After re-reading your comment, I have a question - Do you notice a difference in his behavior after a regular orgasm?
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Excellent, I will be forwarding this to my wife to further her confidence in the decisions she has been making.Belle wrote:Yes, there is a change. And like you, he tries to fight it but I still see it. It isn't a drastic change, people would not even notice for the most part. His stress level is higher, his tolerance with the kids and me is lower, and he is not quite as attentive as he is pre-orgasm.
This is almost exactly what we went through.
Thanks,
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I will have to think about this for a while and discuss with my wife.Dev wrote:What I found is that the ruined orgasm got Ab focused and back on track.
So far my feelings have been that a ruined orgasm should be treated the same as real orgasm. Either denied, or substituted / implemented at a planned 'release' date.
Who knows, I have been a bit grumpy lately (I have been blaming it on the time change) maybe this is just what the doctor (or nurse) ordered.
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I will say I know that this will occur at some point as we get going with our chastity journey. And I am interested in the experience from I would say a theoretical point of view. But I will say I bet when the time comes I won't be thinking it is so much fun.
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He found it fun I best described it as a kid who got a sweater for Christmas instead of a toy. "Oh, gee. Um, Thanks"bratboy wrote:I will say I know that this will occur at some point as we get going with our chastity journey. And I am interested in the experience from I would say a theoretical point of view. But I will say I bet when the time comes I won't be thinking it is so much fun.
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Belle;
Yeah I just went searching through your blog to find that experience. Fun, huh?
I have a different memory as a child when I got clothes for Christmas.
Yeah I just went searching through your blog to find that experience. Fun, huh?
I have a different memory as a child when I got clothes for Christmas.
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Oh, at that moment he didn't think it was fun. But the next morning when the horniness was still there he said it was worth it and fun.bratboy wrote:Belle;
Yeah I just went searching through your blog to find that experience. Fun, huh?
I have a different memory as a child when I got clothes for Christmas.
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I would say I lost about 10% of my horny build up. At least that is what I wrote the morning after.
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