A simple punishment would have been for her to push your head between her legs and get you to lap it all up. Another simple punishment would have been to lock you up, and not allow you out for a week. If you cum without permission after that, maybe it becomes 2 wee
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Sounds more like heaven than punishment to me , as punishment for me is not being allowed to clean up .
Especially from a ruined orgasm when the desire is still high .
To each his own but you should communicate what your likes and dislikes are at that point it's her discretion what to do to you or not let you have if you screw up .
This may still have an emotional effect but you know your being punished and why , if you don't like the emotional effect then as my wife has said don't fuck up next time .
Thanks for the responses. I do plan on talking to her about it and I don't think she's really "mad" but I think she was disappointed as she just discovered ruined orgasms and seemed to like my frustration. I do want there to be ramifications for messing up or what's the point of rules but it should be a positive for the relationship not a divider. Still I DID mess up and maybe I deserved the cold treatment for a day.
Last night my partner started out with teasing me. We moved onto me giving her a rub which led to me playing with her and getting her close to orgasm. She then stopped me and instructed me to go sit in the corner and face the corner. She then proceed to finish herself off. Once she had finished I was told to go put my cage back on. This was something new and totally out of the blue. I thought I would share this here as a possible punishment as I really didn't enjoy being left out of her orgasm.
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conorg wrote:Last night my partner started out with teasing me. We moved onto me giving her a rub which led to me playing with her and getting her close to orgasm. She then stopped me and instructed me to go sit in the corner and face the corner. She then proceed to finish herself off. Once she had finished I was told to go put my cage back on. This was something new and totally out of the blue. I thought I would share this here as a possible punishment as I really didn't enjoy being left out of her orgasm.
Confused. What did you do to deserve such a wonderful punishment.
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She didn't do it as punishment for anything. A couple of months ago she was going to finish herself off which she had never done before but I couldn't help myself and was determined to help which she didn't want me to. So the other night when she decided to finish herself off that was her way of removing me from the bed and interfering. The last couple of months she seems to have gotten a grasp on controlling me and my orgasms, as a result of that I seem more content with her control which I'm sure has helped her.
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Grizzly228 wrote:While explaining what happened I had to explain what a ruined orgasm was. I think that's gonna be my punishment for a while. Just don't know how long or how many. We only see each other a couple times a week so the time in between seems like it's gonna be the worse if that's the direction she goes.
i have to give my wife orgasm when ever she wish she will edge me on but that is it an she will not take my cb off either after she has multi orgasm later on that night i find i had dischage in my cb but neve know i came
Confused. What did you do to deserve such a wonderful punishment. 
