fineline wrote:Yes it's twice as exp but we are talking about $150 more, hardly a huge sum of money.
That $150 maybe an insurmountable obstacle. I couldn't lay out that much cash in one chunk when we started - and I would have had it dead wrong. I also don't like how open the JB is.
Some of us have to do this on a budget and can still have as much fun as anyone else. Been doing that with most things in life.
Probably going to start a JB war here which is not my intention, but I couldn't agree with you more fineline. Too much penis is exposed. Sure it must be easy to clean , making it a good candidate for long term and it will stop vaginal penetration or a hardon but not an orgasm or stimulation if one really wants to. I personally don't see how that is really chastity but everybody has their own preferences. We all have our own journeys and whatever anyone likes or works for them is OK with me.
One can also wear a completely enclosed or mostly enclosed device that does not allow any stimulation or orgasm. They also can be worn long term. It just takes a little more tenacity and discipline to keep them clean. I have worn an enclosed device for over 6 months straight without unlock whatsoever and never had problems with smells or sores or infections etc. The best part about the enclosed device for me is when I finally get stimulation from my keyholder, it is unbelievable and so wonderfully sensitive. I bet a full on orgasm would be incredible also when stimulated if only I was ever allowed one.
But I have to make a mention here. It seems that any time someone asks for advice on a steel device, the majority informs the new member to get a JB mostly or some other custom steel device and are very biased against other devices, especially the so called "Cheap Chinese Devices" even though the JB might not be the best fit anatomically or budget wise for the person asking. It kind of reminds me of the motorcycle world. The word bounced around there is "Harley" without any regard or knowledge about the other bikes out there. There are other bikes out there that ride far better, are more reliable, cheap to maintain, will last longer and meet multiple budgets and riding styles.
Some of us have to make do with the lesser priced vehicle. It doesn't mean we can't have the same fun and be just as happy with a cheap steel device. There are good ones out there and they are coming in real stainless now. The Mrs and I are in 7th Heaven with our "Cheap" choice. I'm sure that there are many others in the same boat.