"Hello world" thread

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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by cincydom » Mon Aug 06, 2018 3:27 pm

Hello All,

Very, very new to the idea of chastity. Been trying to breech the subject with the wife. We've been married a number of years now. I've always been kinky and she's always been pretty vanilla. Hoping to get some good advice and good ideas here!
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by KittensBoyToy » Mon Aug 06, 2018 7:24 pm

Welcome to the forum, cincydom! Kitten was always very vanilla, too, but accepted my keys and is embracing the chastity lifestyle. Take a look at my Journal, "Hopeful" to see how I brought up the subject to her. No guarantee it will work for you but it may give yo some ideas. Biggest advice given by most everyone here is NOT to push to hard. Let her warm up to the idea at her own pace.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Kitten » Mon Aug 06, 2018 7:37 pm

cincydom wrote:
Mon Aug 06, 2018 3:27 pm
Very, very new to the idea of chastity. ..... I've always been kinky and she's always been pretty vanilla. Hoping to get some good advice and good ideas here!
Welcome! I hope you like it here.

I've learned a lot about this lifestyle by reading and asking questions, in both the members forums and the Keyholder's Hangout. If your wife is at all curious or interested, she could register and request access to the KH Hangout. However, like my hubby mentioned, try not to make her think you're pressuring her into anything. That could turn her off to it.

You're more than welcome to let her know that I was the most vanilla wife that ever existed before my husband approached me about male chastity.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by cincydom » Tue Aug 07, 2018 1:03 pm

Kitten wrote:
Mon Aug 06, 2018 7:37 pm
cincydom wrote:
Mon Aug 06, 2018 3:27 pm
Very, very new to the idea of chastity. ..... I've always been kinky and she's always been pretty vanilla. Hoping to get some good advice and good ideas here!
Welcome! I hope you like it here.

I've learned a lot about this lifestyle by reading and asking questions, in both the members forums and the Keyholder's Hangout. If your wife is at all curious or interested, she could register and request access to the KH Hangout. However, like my hubby mentioned, try not to make her think you're pressuring her into anything. That could turn her off to it.

You're more than welcome to let her know that I was the most vanilla wife that ever existed before my husband approached me about male chastity.
Thanks, Kitten! If we get that far, I will certainly suggest it to her. We've talked about it a few times; but, I'm trying my best to just let her digest it and see where it goes.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by cincydom » Tue Aug 07, 2018 1:05 pm

KittensBoyToy wrote:
Mon Aug 06, 2018 7:24 pm
Welcome to the forum, cincydom! Kitten was always very vanilla, too, but accepted my keys and is embracing the chastity lifestyle. Take a look at my Journal, "Hopeful" to see how I brought up the subject to her. No guarantee it will work for you but it may give yo some ideas. Biggest advice given by most everyone here is NOT to push to hard. Let her warm up to the idea at her own pace.
Thanks, KittensBoyToy! I will certainly check out your Journal.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Chris71 » Fri Aug 10, 2018 11:33 am

Hello all.
Not new to male chastity. Not an expert either. My wife and I play around for a weekend or a few weeks now and then.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Tom Allen » Fri Aug 10, 2018 11:48 am

Chris71 wrote:
Fri Aug 10, 2018 11:33 am
Hello all.
Not new to male chastity. Not an expert either. My wife and I play around for a weekend or a few weeks now and then.
That's pretty much everybody around here. Welcome.

Well, except me. I'm the expert. :lol:
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Chris71 » Fri Aug 10, 2018 11:53 am

Tom Allen wrote:
Fri Aug 10, 2018 11:48 am
Chris71 wrote:
Fri Aug 10, 2018 11:33 am
Hello all.
Not new to male chastity. Not an expert either. My wife and I play around for a weekend or a few weeks now and then.
That's pretty much everybody around here. Welcome.

Well, except me. I'm the expert. :lol:
Thanks for having me. Thanks for creating this site as well.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by KittensBoyToy » Fri Aug 10, 2018 12:43 pm

Welcome to the forum chris!
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Post by Kitten » Sun Aug 12, 2018 10:22 am

Chris71 wrote:
Fri Aug 10, 2018 11:33 am
Hello all.
Not new to male chastity. Not an expert either. My wife and I play around for a weekend or a few weeks now and then.
Welcome to 'the forums' Chris71.

My hubby and I are still newbies here also. I'm happy to meet you, and look forward to meeting your wife if/when she decides to register and join us in the Keyholder's Hangout.

Before my hubby introduced me to male chastity on June 19th I didn't know it existed. I joined CF & the KH Hangout on June 24. I've learned a lot about MC and being a keyholder through reading & asking questions.

Again WELCOME ... it's nice to meet you!
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