I have a limit against glaringly overt displays in the general public, such as grocery stores, etc., that would permit strangers to be involved (even if only just by observation), ball-kicking is also a hard limit for me (but not other, 'slower' forms of CBT) and I don't have any kind of shoe fetish. But, I do find the idea of other, more subtle, forms of public humiliation to be...arousing.Shoe Slave88 wrote:Her : Can you to run to the store to get (lists a bunch a things)
Me: I just got home and I have other things I need to get done
Her: go get the BIG butt plug and lube, bring it to me so I can put it in you (shes not gentle about it) and now I'm telling you to go to the store.
The plug is so big it makes me walk funny and she loves publicly humiliating me. She embarrasses me in front of her mom, sisters, friends and strangers in public for her entertainment all the time. Usually she'll kick me in the balls or make me kiss her heels in the middle of the grocery store etc. She's obsessed with plugging me now. Relatively new for her but she loves shopping for new and bigger plugs like every other week
The butt plug in public scenario is one that has occurred to me, though Mrs. Twisted has not gotten anywhere near that sort of kinky yet. She has, however, gone as far as sticking her feet in my lap at family gatherings, for me to rub them, knowing that it will make me swell and strain...though it may appear to everyone else to be not particularly remarkable, she and I both know different- it's a 'service' that I am required to perform, that causes us both to become aroused, a 'sexual act' in front of others though they are unaware of it, and a mild form of CBT for me because I'm straining in the cage and the desire for orgasm that comes as a result of arousal will not be fulfilled.
I find the idea of being 'exposed' to certain select individuals or small groups of 'friends to be erotic as well. We used to have an acquaintance who had a business on the side which involved selling sex toys at house parties- like Tupperware, only kinky. A scenario that occurred to me was of being brought to such a party to serve as a 'demonstration'- chastity devices, bondage gear and insertables, with some 'hands-on' try-before-you-buy at the end. Unfortunately, that acquaintance seems to have dropped off the radar and it is rumored that she has been divorced from her husband who was in the military (one can jump to several conclusions there, which might or might not be correct).
Also the idea or being exposed and required to 'serve' a small group of female 'friends' at a sort of 'tea party'...and some other, kinkier ideas.
Of course, to my mind, these things would not be done for my 'pleasure' and benefit of becoming aroused, but for the Keyholder's amusement, knowing that I would become aroused yet being unable to obtain release and relief from the arousal, adding to my overall 'horniness' and desire for orgasm (which increases her power and control, since she is the one who determines when such release will be granted).