[Sam3655] I’ve put it out there

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Thanks for the advice. I have read Locked Love. While I enjoyed the book it is coming mostly from his view. My wife is all about her which is why I chose the book I did. It tells her what she can get out of it. And when I say about all about her I mean all about her. I can be in a room watching a movie and she will come in, pick up the remote and say let’s watch television. I saw I am watching television. She’ll then reply we should watch something we both like and then turn it to one of her shows. So when presenting an idea I have to show what she gains. And if outside her narrow comfort zone, most likely it ain’t gonna happen. So this was a long shot at best.

Sorry to hear about your divorce. Been through that once myself and absolutely no picnic.
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Five weeks have passed and the wife has said nothing about the book or chastity that I may have to broach the subject again. I think Loctober is out of the question.

In the mean time. My Cherry Keeper arrived. I really like the design and could see it becoming a favorite of mine. Only issue the material it’s made of is rough and porous. I am trying to sand it down and hoping it works. Got it in green but the sanding is rubbing it to a white. But it’s the ring so not really minding it.
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Personally. I would send it back or chuck it. I've had plenty of knock offs to find a type I like, I think only two were not up to standard. I didnt even put them on. There are enough problems with decent devices as it is.
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I hear you. I have tossed about five knock offs in the trash. This one ran about $70 so gonna try to sand it before tossing. Plus it has a smaller ring at the base of the cage to prevent turtling which I want to see if that works. Tends to be an issue
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Mrs Xileh, who is a voracious reader and likes chastity, doesn’t really care to read FLR or chastity books. I’ve been very careful selecting a couple, but it hasn’t caught on yet. I have sent her links to a number of podcasts and she liked those. We also watched a streaming class about developing dominance. She also liked that. Maybe you can try a different format?
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My wife refuses to read any books I've purchased to introduce chastity into our lives. Could you provide some links to podcasts that you found particularly helpful? Thanks!
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I would also like to know some of these podcasts too please. I ordered her the Stephen King book hoping she will feel the need to read the chastity book first. If not, will try the podcast. Thanks for the suggestion. Really appreciate it.
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Today was a good day. Took CS out and asked her if she planned to read the book. It was a less then exciting no not really. She didn’t want to seem like she was punishing me or that we won’t be equals. So we had a good talk and she said she would give the book a read. I also mentioned several podcasts I have researched and listened too which might be helpful. Thanks for the idea.
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