[mozes74] life changing - scared but overly excited

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[mozes74] life changing - scared but overly excited

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First of all want to set up our story. I think you will find its slightly different from most on here, but also awesome lol .
I have had experience with threesomes & cuckolding with my ex-wife. She was blond, skinny, big boobs. She was kinda slutty but she also use to be like my best friend. We were more like friends then a married couple but i was with her for 15 years. We split because of issues she had, mostly a drug problem.
Now to my wife. She is vanilla'ish up front but really deep down she has kinks. She is beautiful to me, she has perfect breast, a big ass and a very bushy pussy but this was my idea and trust me it looks awesome. She is very controlling doesn't trust anyone. She is still mad at me because once I dirty danced with her bridesmaid. I've never done anymore then that, but she holds on to that. She wont talk about ex's and usually wont tell me her kinks or desires. But that is what is great. I know that they say good communication is the best way to live out fantasies together. but prying things out of her little by little is the awesome part.

We first started off of our vanilla sex with porn watching. This was her idea. Trying to get it on a smart tv really doesn't work though. Then I asked her about a toy. So we picked out a vibrator about the size of my cock and it was purple. This was great it helped so much to spice things up. Sadly it broke about 4 months in. when I went to get a new one. I asked her if she wanted one bigger. She said yes. I said longer or thicker. she said both but mostly thicker and not to long. We purchased a homewrecker it is 9.25" long and girth 6.5', recommend this for everyone great toy!! I know size doesn't matter (whatever) but this is 3.5 inches longer then me and twice as thick. My wife is funny about this. She would always try to act like it was no different then mine but she would have way better orgasms with the toy. And this is where things really started. For me it was somehow more exciting to watch her orgasm on the toy. For her she started denying me and she loved it. She noticed that if I was denied I would act better around the house. Which was true. she is kinda bitchy sometimes and naturally demanding in life in general. So i am way more tolerant when denied. I was kinda digging this game sexually anyway. For about a year she would let me have mine about every 3rd or 4th time. Then we reintroduced pron. ( her idea). Forgot to mention we have kids so we cant just use a computer or be to loud (which sucks). So we came up with a tablet. But she took this over so she is watching it while I tend to her needs.
2020
So this was the setup last year she would watch porn on the tablet and I would use the homewrecker and ether my tongue or another small rabbit. I am under a blanket down by her pussy always. This meant that I only got to orgasm with her about 4 times. But what was great for me was that I get up earlier then the rest of the world. So i would grab the tablet sneak downstairs and watch what she was watching and get off. I dont let her know that I do this. I tell her that its set up to delete when you close it out. I cant tell if she believes this, she is way smarter then that but anyway... it is great to see what she fantasizes about, witch is forced sex, and group sex mostly.
This set up has evolved our life outside of sex. We are in a total flr. Our day starts with me waking her with back rubs. I start the shower and undress her. i shampoo her hair and wash her body. I get her breakfast. I wake up the kids and get them ready for school. I start her car and make her lunch. I make and serve her dinner and rub her feet at night before bed.

Most notable sex last year.
one was when we were on vacation with the kids. we were taking a shower at hotel and she started rubbing her awesome ass on me and said put it in u have 5 minutes. I couldn't get it up because she never does that. She said your loss but im getting mine latter. Latter i asked to have sex and she said that i could only use my finger. but it felt great just to feel what i used to feel with my cock.
Then with our anniversary coming up i asked if I was good could we finally have piv sex and she kinda said yes. But then i asked if instead of piv can i just go down her without the toy. She rewarded me with that after a great night out.
Then we went on vacation together just the 2 of us to the Caribbean. the 1st night she let me have piv sex. She was laying on the bed with but up and to the side. ( it is so great btw) So i put it in and in 1 minute i was done. She was very disappointed. But the next day i surprised her with the homewrecker. She said why didnt u tell me that we could of used it last night instead. Then of course that is what we used the rest of the vacation.
We had piv sex one more time after she got hers from the toy, i think i lasted 30 seconds.

other sexual notes
I tell her all the time that i just want her to get hers. That it looks better with the big one(toy). She says that she wants the big one now to refer to the toy. I tell her that i just want to help her get off and that i love to cuddle with her after she gets hers and i just lay there against her naked body. She is so ok with denying me and just concentrating on her. One time she starting slapping my dick after she was done getting hers. I told her it felt good, even though it didn't. most of the year she would do this. I started to really like it. I like the fact that I'm close to orgasm and the sting from slap feels so good and edges me closer but i don't go off. I told her that i loved to clean her up after she gets hers, now she stands there with her ass out and tells me to clean her ( only with a wipe) and then hops in bed totally denying me.

I ask her all the time if my dick is just for slaps, she says yes. i ask if she just gets hers from now on she says yes. i ask if my job is just to clean her up again yes. I tell her that there is no point in doing mine because it doesn't last and is smaller. I have her tell me that im to fast and small ( shes only said it a couple times though)


As you can probably tell I have a bit of a flr / cuckold fetish. I watch other porn sometimes. when I do I watch ones with females that look like my wife and get drilled hard by well hung guys. We have both worked up to where we are through little to no conversations. She likes top deny me, she likes that i am more obedient and dont argue as much. She like to watch porn during sex but so i cant see it, watching what she wants. She says she doesn't care about size but wanted a bigger toy. She says she doesn't like other positions except missionary, but watches girls getting pounded doggystyle. She doesn't like oral as much as the toy. Now in my mind i think that cuckolding me would be awesome for us. Because i have become kind of useless for piv. I mean i kind of helped this along, but it is now true.

Ok so chastity.

A week ago she watched something with a male chastity. She asked if I would try it I said sure. Next day she was at work and text me a website to buy one. I gotta say i never really thought about it.. but it goes along with what I crave. I asked her if i had a choice. she said no. So when it came in i text her and she was so excited. We put it on right away that night. unfortunately it was to small , but i didn't want to kill the mood and wore it anyway. i bought 2 more9coming soon) She loved it she made me do all kinds of things around the house and i rubbed her back for hours. I made a deal with her that if i wore it she had to tell me to do things never just ask again. I asked how much would i be wearing it. she said 24/7 just off to clean, and maybe a slap or two. Cant believe that from the start she wants it on all the time. I asked if i was done ever getting mine again she said yes! just slaps if your good..

Then the next night the first night of sex with chastity. I was rubbing her back and legs. she told me to set up for sex. Which is get the box of toys, tablet and a blanket. We used the homewrecker and a rabbit, just the same. IT was amazing. how she is fantasizing about other men by watching porn and she gets into it and starts moving her pussy up and down. I'm under the blanket by her pussy , just there to work the toys. i try to use the big one like its a real cock thrusting. She really gets moving when she is close and her legs start trembling. After she goes i pull up beside her body wrap my legs around her leg and but cheek. helpless with my cock in a cage. We lay there awhile and i kiss on her. then she gets up goes to the bathroom, comes back and bends of for me to clean with a wet wipe. She hops in bed and says goodnight. Im sitting there in pain but in awe of how mind blowingly great it was. i didnt come and laid there in bed with cage about to break.
This was the greatest sex or nonsex I have ever had.
The last year or so she has denied me sex, but i really could of pressed the issue. I have restrained from jerking off, i backed off and just kinda edged myself. We have changed it so my dick is useless for her to use. I tried to drive the point across by saying im too fast and smaller.
But up till now I could have changed that at any time. I could have jerked off more. I could have had piv sex with her more, making her want mine more and making me last longer. Now its all changed im locked and I dont see her letting up.
I got to say i love chastity never thought i would.
I like that my wife brought it up and is crazy happy about enforcing it.
What do you think of my life set up?
and one more issue i dont know what to do with is
Now I cant stop fantasizing about being cuckolded. I think about how hot she is, how she deserves to have a real cock. How awesome it looks with the big toy . how maybe he could put it in slow first and see her being teased . then he could could shove it all the way in and she would arch back and gasp. he could pound her doggystyle or she could ride him ( things we never got to do). I could see and hear her comb harder then ever, All the while im caged and have no choice in it. How i cant give her that and she deserves it. How she would do this whenever she wants and i couldn't stop it. I could only help it along. I could do more chores and everything for her just so maybe i could clean her up.
I dont what to do about these thoughts. but it feels like its what we both want idk.

Anybody else have these thoughts after flr and cage?
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Re: [mozes74] life changing - scared but overly excited

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I just want to say that everything up to the - one more issue fantasy thought - is 100% true.
I really want to know what people think, my wife is hard to read, is she into this kink stuff more then i know? she wont even tell me if shes done stuff like this before.

I know this is a chastity website not cuckold. I also just wanted to know how people can be caged, submissive and not have PIV sex or not able to last long enough to make it worth it. , and not wonder if there woman is thinking about PIV & different sex positions. And as the submissive man caged what would you do if your woman wanted these things and you cant do it anymore ?

Please respond with some thoughts.

ps it just happened this week and the last year stuff was 2021 not 2020....

thank you all!!!!!!!
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mozes74 wrote: Thu Jan 20, 2022 3:58 pm I know this is a chastity website not cuckold. I also just wanted to know how people can be caged, submissive and not have PIV sex or not able to last long enough to make it worth it. , and not wonder if there woman is thinking about PIV & different sex positions. And as the submissive man caged what would you do if your woman wanted these things and you cant do it anymore ?

Please respond with some thoughts.
Well, we started with just chastity, and over the years it morphed into her talking/dreaming about fucking other guys while I watched, caged (and bound). As time went on she talked about it more and more, so I'm pretty sure that she really wants to do it, but, then Covid came along. I can't deny that I have come to get extremely aroused by the idea, and just before Covid hit, I gave her an 'official', written 'Hall Pass'.

So, it can happen. The question is, does the idea turn you on?
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I wanted to update my situation. So that first week of being locked was hard. I would love it one day then hate it the next. The dirty talk and texting while working was the hottest part, well that and getting her off while caged. I got scared on the 2nd week and we took it off for 4 days. why? Because It got real, wasn't just a sex game. I read some horror stories on the internet about guys being caged. It seemed most guys did this to themselves and that most guys are older, maybe small size and don't get erections that well anyway. No offense to anyone. But what i mean is it seemed that there were issues down the road with size reduction and ED but these people didn't seem to care. Please let me know if anyone has experienced this!...

But I decided to have it back on. Why, because my wife doesn't have any desire to have piv sex with me. She really gets turned on by the cage and having the key. She is a control freak and this is some kind of dream come true for her. So we have way more dirty talk and a better chance for sex with it on. Of course only she gets to be pleasured. So now its been on for about 3 weeks. Only off for cleaning and maybe she slaps it once or twice in the shower. She is very good at making sure i clean it properly. She watches to make sure nothing else happens But she wants nothing else to do with it. One time i got real hard in the shower with her and she was pissed. She said to control that thing , that i wasn't allowed to get hard without her permission.

I got to say i like it, but i wish things were different. I mean i read were guys get hand jobs, edging or actually piv sex when let out. With us it is all about her. I still wait on her hand and foot. I do all the chores and give her foot rubs and back rubs. Sex is her watching porn while I'm under the blanket using toys on her. Then i clean her up with wash rag and dress her, then we cuddle. Im not even allowed to lick her. In her defense when I'm aroused after sex I do tell her that the best part is cleaning her up after and cuddling after that. And that i like these things better then piv, and that the big toy is better at that part anyway. Cant help it that i say that , the cage makes me do it , lol. Right now i am for some reason working on her being more demanding in our relationship. I want her to boss me around more. She has agreed not to ask me to do anything but to demand it. She has started having me kiss her feet when she gets home from work. Also she stuffs her underwear in my face after she gets done working out. She will sit on the couch and use me as a foot rest. These are now the highlights of my day.

She says i can be let out in about 8 months on my birthday and that is when i will get to have an orgasm. And thats how things are.
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mozes74 wrote: Mon Feb 28, 2022 6:34 am I wanted to update my situation. So that first week of being locked was hard. I would love it one day then hate it the next. The dirty talk and texting while working was the hottest part, well that and getting her off while caged. I got scared on the 2nd week and we took it off for 4 days. why? Because It got real, wasn't just a sex game. I read some horror stories on the internet about guys being caged. It seemed most guys did this to themselves and that most guys are older, maybe small size and don't get erections that well anyway. No offense to anyone. But what i mean is it seemed that there were issues down the road with size reduction and ED but these people didn't seem to care. Please let me know if anyone has experienced this!...
If you read through certain of the older threads, you will see that the stories have been de-bunked, that's all they are- stories with little basis in fact. Any apparent size reduction is due to the skin losing some of its elastic quality after a long time in the cage, after being out for a few days it returns to normal. This can be avoided by being let out every week or two, to have a full erection before being locked in again. This 'stretching exercise' helps the skin maintain its proper elasticity.
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Thank you for the reply. I am glad i found this forum a lot of good information. My wife does not like me to have erections though. I wish she would let me get some release. I have reinforced the cage and am wearing the smallest one i can. I couldn't get out without breaking it. My wife insist on 24/7 lock up and like i said before no action for me except maybe once a year. So this is all hot and exotic to me . I make it more exciting by having her boss me around more. and I like the denial , teasing, worshipping, dominance. But I'm kinda afraid that I'm just playing into the no sex for me thing and don't know if i want to give it up completely for the rest of my life. and I kinda have a decision to make. I am on 3rd cage but noticed that the key from the old one fits my cage now. So im debating on throw it out, so she has complete control which is really the greatest feeling. Or keeping it so i at least have a chance to relieve myself someday. idk what to do, any advise? what would you do?
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For me, it's 'hotter' when my wife has all the keys, and complete control. But, what is 'right' for me is not necessarily right for you. You two have to set your own rules and limits. Your rules and limits do not have to stay the same forever, they can change over time. If something isn't working for one or the other, then you discuss it and change it to something that you both agree on that works for both of you.
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Thank you for the advise. My wife is a dominant controlling person before any of this flr started. She wont let me change her mind. Just last night I asked if we could maybe change from me being locked 24/7 and before i could say anymore, she said that we already discussed this and i was not aloud to bring it up again. Then she told me to rub her back and shut up. She was the one that thought of the cage and so she thinks this is her thing. She knows that i get turned on by it. She knows that i get turned on when she bosses me around. So to her, she is giving me that gratification. She is a lot happier now that I'm wearing it, so i don't want to change that. I think for now i will just keep the key hiding somewhere maybe in a vehicle i have stored elsewhere so its not easy access.

I did want to ask you "twisted misters" if you got to do anything with the cuckolding and if you did how was it?
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mozes74 wrote: Wed Mar 02, 2022 4:48 am I did want to ask you "twisted misters" if you got to do anything with the cuckolding and if you did how was it?
It hasn't happened yet, but it could. The Mrs. has described several situations that she wants to happen, her descriptions were very arousing (and she knows it).
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I fantasize about cuckolding but I dont know if I want to do it. My wife has watches a lot of cuckolding porn also. One night last week I had a dream I was telling her about." She went over to bulls house did her thing. Then she came home and she made me clean her up with my mouth. Then after i waited on her all night. We laid down and when I was giving her, her nightly back rub before bed. She told me all about the sex she had. " After I told her this dream I said that was hot wasn't it. She said that it was really hot. But she wouldn't elaborate and changed the subject. That night I asked her just as a fantasy if she could have a big cock , what position would she want to do. She said doggystyle. My favorite position.
I imagine it the way i told the dream. I think she has a awesome ass and just think that if she wont let me do her that way that someone should and that that someone should have a big cock of coarse.
I dont think I really want it to happen though, because it wouldn't go down the way i imagine. She would probably come home and maybe put her underwear in my face or maybe rub her pussy on my face for a second. She almost defiantly would not let me give her an orgasm. Then on conversation about her sex, it would be me asking her questions and her answering yes or no until she didn't want to talk anymore.
Unfortunately this is how she kinda is with the chastity. She says and does some stuff that is hot, but not as hot as it could be. She makes things hot but border line vanilla. I have to talk about sexual things and constantly try to spice things up. If it was her way I would just be locked up 24/7 not aloud to talk about sex and I would just get her off once a week or when ever she wanted it. And i would just wait on her and do all the chores. and my only reward would be getting to see and help her get off.
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