[inchastityat127] She is starting to like it more when I’m locked

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Re: [inchastityat127] She is starting to like it more when I’m locked

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My wife has been more “in control” and sexual since returning last Saturday from a girls beach trip. During her trip, she told me she wore the keys on a necklace under her top a couple of times and it made her feel special and sexy. She even sent me a couple of pictures with her wearing them in private. Her company were all single and vanilla, so nothing inappropriate happened. If so, she would have told me.

Since she returned, we have had several discussions/text messages about what is next as we approach 1 year with her being the full time keyholder. I have repeated many times that I am 100% OK pleasing her without any expectation of her returning the favor every time.

For the past 3 nights she has wanted me to give her an orgasm using my hands and toys. It’s normally only one to two times a week, so that’s a bit odd but I’m not complaining! I LOVE to make her orgasm. Each night I throb in my cage watching/feeling her then I receive quick kiss goodnight after she has an orgasm.

Vaginal penetration is not her favorite. She prefers anal sex/stimulation 500% more than vaginal sex and normally orgasms easily just playing with her clit and ass. Most of the time penetration is using a toy for anal sex. Two nights ago she wanted me to use a dildo inside her vagina. The toy is a bit slimmer but longer than my penis when erect. Quickly, she was enjoying herself and I enjoyed watching and making her enjoy the feeling. Afterwards, a quick kiss and bedtime.

Last night was a bit different. Earlier in the day she told me her lady parts needed a break since they have been getting so much attention. I agreed - we had been staying up WAY too late and I wasn't feeling 100% either. When she came to bed she asked me to play with her boobs. That was a surprise not only because she said she needed a break, that's not her favorite, either. But for some reason she said they were more sensitive and felt more firm/full than usual. I obliged and lightly rubbed them and teased her nipples and agreed they felt more "full". She grabbed my hand and slid it down and into her underwear. She pushed my finger into her and moved her hips to push my finger in she out of her - she was already wet. Wow!

She asked me if I was up for a challenge. OF COURSE I AM! Her challenge was for me to make her orgasm without any direction or guidance from her. She took off her bottoms and pulled her shirt over her head so it covered her eyes and spread her legs. GAME ON! I fantasized about light bondage where I did this exact thing and teased her for hours. (she is NOT into it, though).

I rubbed in all the usual places that she enjoys, but it wasn't quite doing the trick. She did hint that she might need a toy. I asked which one and she told me to decide, she wasn't telling me - it was my choice. Well, I know which one I want to see! I grabbed the toy to buzz her clit and the BBC dildo and lubed it and her up. Maybe one day I can video how amazing it looks sliding in her, but I digress. Since she hasn't had any penetration (except for the smaller dildo the night before since the middle of May), things were a bit tight. We slowly worked it in and she got VERY close, but she finally told me it was too big for her and to take it out. I grabbed the smaller dildo and used it in her ass as I buzzed her clit. THAT did the trick and she had a HUGE orgasm. One of the body shaking, can't move afterwards orgasms. It was glorious and I was THROBBING watching/feeling her orgasm.

After a few moments she regained her composure and asked me, "So what are the rules?" I reminded her that I wanted to stay locked in chastity until July 26th - which would be one year in the full time chastity lifestyle. On July 27th, she could take it off and we would do whatever she wanted. She told me that she has become addicted to all of the attention and me wanting to touch her/give her an orgasm anytime she asked. She REALLY enjoys it. She said my behavior changes when I can orgasm whenever I want and I become grumpy, and she didn't like it. She didn't want that to change so we were keeping it on. She asked when should I orgasm and I told her when/if/how she decides. If she just wanted to tease me and/or ruin my orgasms, it would give me some relief, but I wouldn't drop all the way down to being a jerk. She could still make me orgasm AND keep me on edge. I reminder her of the guidelines I sent her while she was gone (shown in the last post). I said that if you have any questions, refer to those. THAT would do the trick! She said, "Ok, let's do THAT!" I got a quick kiss, and I tried to go to sleep as my cage throbbed.

On we go....
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Well shit.

My wife decided to unlock me on Friday, July 22nd and we’ve had PIV twice. I’ve told her repeatedly that after one year of full time chastity life, she can decide what’s next.

The one year anniversary is tomorrow. As of now I remain free and while I’m enjoying the full erections and orgasms, I already miss being in chastity.

This will be my last update until she decides to lock me up again. She is fairly vanilla and has played along for the past year, but I don’t know if she will decide to lock me up or leave me free.

On we go….
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Well shit.

My wife decided to unlock me on Friday, July 22nd and we’ve had PIV twice. I’ve told her repeatedly that after one year of full time chastity life, she can decide what’s next.

The one year anniversary is tomorrow. As of now I remain free and while I’m enjoying the full erections and orgasms, I already miss being in chastity.

This will be my last update until she decides to lock me up again. Hopefully it will be soon!

On we go….
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It happened. I’ve been free since July 22.

My wife and son are visiting her dad and I sent the keys with her. Tonight we were talking on the phone while she was sitting in the room with her dad.

While we were talking using vague language she asked me if I missed being locked. I told her I did but it was her decision. She kept asking me what I wanted and I was nearly begging to be put back in chastity - but followed with it was HER decision.

Finally, she said “OK, let’s do it. Now.” So now I’m locked with no timeline. All is good except I have no idea what’s next.

I did send a follow up text telling her “Thank you. I love you. I hope you like it too.” She replied “I love you. I do.”

On we go….
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They came home yesterday. I picked them up from the airport about 2 hours from home. During the drive home, she texted me a picture. It was an edited picture she sent me on the girls beach trip wearing the keys with her bikini. She had applied some filters and liked this version better and asked me to use the new version as the Lock Screen (haha) on my phone.

After driving in the rain for two hours, we finally made it home. There was no playing in the vehicle because of the weather. Almost immediately after walking in the door she wanted me to give her an orgasm.

Our son was watching tv, so we went in our bedroom and I started to use her favorite toy. As she was approaching a massive orgasm, our son started to call me from the other room. I gave her the toy and told her she may have to finish on her own. She did.

At bedtime, she told me I still owed her an orgasm since I didn’t finish what I started earlier in the day. This time she not only wanted her clit buzzed, but wanted a toy in her bottom. This is quickly becoming her favorite way to orgasm, and once again it did the trick.

Of course, there was no mention of unlocking me or giving me an orgasm. I’m just happy she didn’t want to immediately unlock me when she got home. This time it’s 100% her decision of when/how/if I get to have an orgasm.

On we go….
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I wanted to make sure she was doing this because SHE wanted to, so I sent her the following text:” I have a serious question that you may need to think about before you answer: Do you REALLY want me in or out? Which do YOU prefer?” Her reply was: “In is good.”

I told her “ Ok. That’s what I thought you really liked, but I wanted to be sure. I bought a book I’d REALLY like you to read. It’s “Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders” and is written for wives/gf new to this. I think it may help you to enjoy and get the most out of it. It’s less than 100 pages. I’ll do whatever you ask if you’ll read it.”

I’m waiting for her reply.

Edit: she replied “OK, I’ll read it.”

On we go….
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That was the book I gave M'Lady when I first introduced the idea of chastity to her. Excellent read, especially for the wife/GF that is on the vanilla side.
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I apologize for the long post, but some big things happened last night!

I had been locked and denied for 8 days and we had play time last night. I used the usual toys and methods for a long time. While we were playing she kept asking things like “should I feel bad for not pleasing you” and “Is it bad that I love for you to touch me when I don’t touch you” and other related questions. I reassured her I REALLY want to focus on her pleasure. (She hasn’t read the book yet).

Although she enjoyed my efforts and said it felt good, her orgasm was ever elusive. It was then she realized she had taken some low dose prescription pain medicine and a muscle relaxer for her back earlier and that was probably the reason. It WASN’T for the lack of effort on my part or her lack of enjoyment, I just couldn’t quite get her there, so it basically turned into an hour long edge for her.

We finally called it quits and she pulled me on top of her so we could kiss. After a few minutes, I moved down to kiss her breast and stomach as I often do. Surprising me, she spread her legs and pushed my head down. After testing the waters, she allowed me to taste her, which usually isn’t her favorite. I went ALL IN doing my best to make her orgasm. She was SO juicy and delicious but it wasn’t happening.

I finally got up to get ready to go to sleep and she asked me where was the key. I told her it was on her nightstand on top of the book I got for her. She told me to get it, so I did. She unlocked me and told me I got her super wet and she wanted me inside of her. It was awesome, but I was trying to hold back. She told me to orgasm inside of her as a reward for everything I had help her do over the past few days. I quickly fell asleep afterwards.

She was still asleep when I woke up this morning. I was still free and it felt weird, so after my shower I put the cage back on and replaced the key on her nightstand. After leaving for work, I sent her a text telling her that I made the assumption she always want me in until she decided to let me out, so I put it on this morning. I was sorry I didn’t let her close the lock but I didn’t want to bother her. If she wanted to be the one that closes the lock, I would wake her next time.

Her reply? “ok. You assumed correctly.”

Wow. She does REALLY want this. I can’t wait to see what happens after she reads the book and if that changes anything.

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She had a girls night out last night and came home a bit tipsy. As she got in bed, she grabbed the book (Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders) and read it cover to cover.

When she finished reading, I asked her what she thought. She replied, “You wear it because you love me. You wear it to honor me. You’ll wear it because I want you to and I shouldn’t feel guilty. I can say ‘No’ wherever I want.”

She then asked me to hold her as she drifted off to sleep. I’m interested to see if/how things will change in the near future.

On we go….
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I take testosterone therapy (pellets) and a week or so after an appointment, my testosterone level sharply increases for a couple of weeks then levels out. My last appointment was August 23rd. Also, the full moon has an effect on my sexual drive (it increases my desire) and the next full moon is Sept 10th (two days away).

In addition, I’ve been locked 24 days without an orgasm and she read the “Keyholders Guide to Male Chastity” 19 days ago. Since reading the book, I’ve given her 8 orgasms and she has teased me twice to the edge of an orgasm with a vibrator on my cage.

Last night my desire was through the roof and I was going crazy. Drinking a few beers probably did not help my decision making process….

Via text message, I told her I wanted to be out of the cage so bad (orgasm implied), but it was her decision. She replied for me to stay locked. After a few more teasing text from her, I told her I wanted to finish SO bad! It would only take a minute or two! And asked her if she REALLY will make me wait. She replied “yes.”

That shocked me just a bit because she hasn’t been very consistent about saying “No.” Still surprised at her answer and desperate at this point, I replied “Can I beg? Promise something? Please?” Her reply? “ You told me to do what I want. That’s what I want.”

Wow.

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