[FindingFun] Back at it...not sure where it's going

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FindingFun wrote: Wed Sep 16, 2020 9:55 pm ... but I couldn’t help noticing something about myself tonight. What I noticed was a sense of disinterest in what my wife had to say. Could being un-caged have more to do with this than the other factors?
Wouldn't doubt it. My wife has noticed the difference. I sometimes refer to my device as "the hearing aid."
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Why can’t I bring myself to locking myself up again?

I actually know the answer. It’s because I don’t know if I can bring myself to ask my wife to be okay with it.

What’s wrong with me.
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FindingFun wrote: Tue Sep 29, 2020 10:19 pm I actually know the answer. It’s because I don’t know if I can bring myself to ask my wife to be okay with it.

What’s wrong with me.
Nothing is wrong with you would be my guess. I've been there. I didn't mention Chastity for somewhere around 20 years. Her prior revulsion and scorn was more than I could risk. I started occasionally wearing ball stretchers, without her knowledge. Then she found out, (ok the weird guy is manifesting himself again) Then she forgot about the stretchers (something I found absolutely inconceivable, but true) rediscovered them, was a bit upset and that led to a mention of chastity devices and somehow here I am locked, she enjoys setting records for denial...So things can change. Good Luck
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I really needed and appreciate your reply.
Thank you
Nothing is wrong with you would be my guess. I've been there. I didn't mention Chastity for somewhere around 20 years. Her prior revulsion and scorn was more than I could risk. I started occasionally wearing ball stretchers, without her knowledge. Then she found out, (ok the weird guy is manifesting himself again) Then she forgot about the stretchers (something I found absolutely inconceivable, but true) rediscovered them, was a bit upset and that led to a mention of chastity devices and somehow here I am locked, she enjoys setting records for denial...So things can change. Good Luck
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Well, got knocked out of locktober on account of an appendecotomy.
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I am sorry that you had such an unpleasant experience.

Life has a way of getting in the way of fun. :(
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Thank you for the sympathy. Definitely feeling better a week later. Starting to think about getting the cage back on, not sure if there are any risks
WifeIsVanilla wrote: Thu Oct 08, 2020 8:51 pm I am sorry that you had such an unpleasant experience.

Life has a way of getting in the way of fun. :(
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It's been a little over 4 weeks since my appendectomy and really have been feeling good even as I approached 3 weeks. So on Oct 26th I thought I would try caging and it's been fine, No issues whatsoever. So now, with the exception of short periods uncaged on 3 different days, i've been caged for 10 days.
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I haven’t posted in a while. I started a conversation with a woman on Reddit around the beginning of the year or very end of 2020. I didn’t know it at the time but she was interested in chastity. It’s developed in a long distance Domme/sub relationship. It’s working very well. We compliment each other great and learning about each other more and more. My last orgasm was 1/31. Not having kept track of things before the end of 2019 when I got seriously into chastity, this may be the longest I have gone without. I self lock but the keys are in another part of the house so I lay here locked, horny and thankful that she denies me. After my last orgasm, I had some serious sub drop and it took days for me to come around. She understood what was happening and now she’s learned and I don’t know when I’ll get to orgasm next. It’s powerful. I love what it does to me.
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FindingFun wrote: Fri Aug 14, 2020 4:45 am August has been mostly on and off. Any relief is by trying to get through anal stimulation.
I developed a method of ruining myself, by using this vibrator on my cage and anal stimulation. I usually get myself to a point where my ejaculate just flows out, like a peeing sensation. On a couple of occasions the sensation actually sends me over the edge and it becomes an orgasm. While disappointing that I allowed myself an orgasm, I’m usually okay with staying in my cage.
Last week, while doing this a testicle slipped, so I had to take the cage off after I was done. I casually kept playing and got carried away and jerked off.
What I think I realized is, and orgasm from stroking has a different effect than an orgasm from the failed ruin. After I stroked myself to orgasm, I guess I definitely experienced that “sub drop” I’ve read other people talk about. It’s a bitch.
Took me almost a week to start using my cage again.
OH, God! What a story! How are you? What's the ending if it happened?
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