[locked_husband] The letter that started it

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[locked_husband] The letter that started it

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This is the letter I wrote to me wife, about doing it long term.

Dear wife.

Let me start by say how much I love and adore you.

It has taken me a while to give you thia letter. I have always come up with a fairly rubbish excuse to my self, not to give it to you. I was wondering if we could try this again. By this I'm talking about chastity. Please don't stop reading now.

The way for this to work is to change it from a one off. To something a little long. Say a couple of weeks. If it doesn't work it doesn't work.

I want to use it to build a stronger relationship. One where I show you the attention you deserve. Such as not sitting on my phone in the evenings. Its a bad habit I have got into and have thought that maybe this is what is needed to break that habit. Also I am hoping that maybe it will mean we will talk more, with out a argument or me taking something in the wrong way.

Let's shift my focus from me. To we. And prepare for our son. X

It not about a game, that's only for my satisfaction. For me it's about us bonding together as a couple. I want to move away from. Us being playful means sex. Or me doing stuff to gain sex. Let's use it to open up more to each other emotionally listen to each other.

I also don't really like masturbating behind your back. Its disrespectful to you. So this will rid the temptation to do that.

I would rather have sex come second to itamacy with you, rather than have post sex itamacy. This goes with me not bugging you for sex or getting annoyed because we haven't had sex. Moving my focus from me to we and you. To your emotions and supporting you during pregnancy. Also I have noticed and get annoyed at myself that, sex doesn't seem the same. I'm not thinking of your needs. Getting you in the mood. Making sure your comfortable, making sure you feel special and loved. Instead it's just a quick few pumps and it's all over. I want to use to break that cycle and change from just have sex to sharing a itmat3 and special connection.

Maybe in 2 weeks, we will be a stronger couple, able to connect more emotionally with each other.

If you would like to try this then keep the key in the envelope. If not give me the key when I get home from work.


Now 8 days in and going stong :) :D
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I also don't really like maturation behind your back.
:coff coff: :)

Anyhow, is this the start of a blog for you?
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Thanks. I will change it now.

Hmm haven't thought about that. But it could be
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Locked_husband wrote:
Mon Jun 01, 2020 9:12 am
Thanks. I will change it now.

Hmm haven't thought about that. But it could be
Well then, perhaps you ought to take a look at the rules posted conspicuously at the top of the forum, and in particular the thread entitled "Before you begin...(please read before posting here)":

https://www.chastityforums.com/viewtopi ... 15&t=18227
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Good morning all. A little update on my journey.

Took of my cage for some regular cleaning, all well and good. Until my wife decided that the ring on the CB6000s looked to big and suggested I put the next size down. I obliged as I know my self it feels a bit loose sometimes and I could easily pull out.

So on goes the number 2 ring. After some pinching as I was getting worked up. (Note she was lay on our bed in a wonder woman outfit and her tomboy pants, by far the sexiest pegging pants). I get the ring on and build the rest of the device, let me say I could tell this was going to be tight.

I head to the bed where she fucks me, hard the hardest she ever has. This is the first time I've been locked while pegging and my god the pressure on my poor balls was incredible. I could feel them getting bigger as she massaged by p spot. I could feel the big O building but because of the pressure from the smaller ring, It just wasn't going to come.

After I go for a cold shower and we settle in for the night.

3 o'clock this morning I'm awoken by what feels like my balls being ripped off. I head for the moisturiser (found it works wonders on chaffing, and the buring sensation you get from the ring.) Carefully I put some around the ring and head back to sleep.

I wake this morning with my usual morning glory, head to the bathroom and my balls had turned purple a dark purple. Like when you wrap string around a finger. I panic and try pull of my cage this was a terrible idea. She keeps the key in a safe so I had to get her up and get it off. I thought they were about to explode.

Back to the next size up and staying there.

A lesson learned. When adjusting the ring size, always do it during the day, when you can check fitting etc. Don't do it before bed as it could go wrong.

Peace and love
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Found a great app, so we can count my days locked and since I was last allowed to have sex.

Its fun and gives medals for the length of time
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Good morning all.

So the night, before last, after giving my wife a long massage, she decided that maybe I should be let out to release some pressure. She refused to touch me, and told me I would have to watch porn to get off, while she watched me. This was both incredibly hot and embarrassing at the same time. She brought herself to a big O using her magic wand and i had to wait till she had finished.

I was told I was allowed to cum and I did in spectacular style. I've never produced so much or shot so far. The odd thing is that it felt fantastic for about 2 seconds then I had the post O blues. I felt so meh, I didn't want to be locked back up. I didn't want to do anything. I still feel like it now a whole 36hrs after. Its got me questioning whether the O's are worth it. I felt better on the high of anticipation and watching, feeling and seeing her have a O.

Thinking about starting a thread on this subject, to see if people have giving up on O's and how they have kept everything working with out the post O down
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Pencilling the next letter to my KH

Wifey

2 weeks have flown by for me. I have enjoyed everyday.

I have loved being closer to you, its been so nice giving you massages and cuddling with our trying to have sex with you all the time. I feel I have been much nicer, less argumentative. Life just seems to have been easier. Its mad the some plastic can do all of this.

I feel it has brought us closer to get as a couple and broken the bad habits I had gotten into.
This bit is a bit difficult to say as it seems counterintuitive, but a week in you let me have a O, which was very nice of you and for about a couple of seconds is felt great, but then I felt down, I don't know why, but for a few days after I just felt a bit 'meh'. I enjoyed the time being locked up and tease and not having a O so much more than I did the actual O.

I've feel so much closer to you now, and love you so much. I would happily wear it for as long as you wanted and limit my O as to reduce that post O blue I felt. I get more gratification, hearing and feeling you have a O, than I did having one myself.

If you would like to continue this a bit longer, I would like to look into possibly another design with less plastic. Maybe we could look together to find one you are comfortable with.

Your thoughts, emotions, etc are all so important to me, and I want to listen to what you have to say regarding the matter.
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2 weeks into our trial male chastity l, and my KH/wife. Loves how i have been, massages, tidying the house bringing her to countless O's. She has decided that its going to be 24/7 now. Only let out for cleaning (supervised of course) and the very occasional orgasm myself. When she feels I have earned it. The reason behind are wish and partly mine for the lack of orgasm my side is because of the big down I get. Where I'm just not thevsame for a few days after. And the ones I am going to get are going to ruined ones as to reduce the chance of the big down. I'm both scared and excited.

I wonder how long our 24/7 lifestyle will last 🤔
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A update on our new 24/7 life. Tonight have been told there will be is no planned release date at all. :shock: :shock: this just got very real
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