well, it's been a hectic 6 weeks, family problems, intense at work, etc. Had a child move back in with us for 10 days, so the cage came off (small two bedroom house with a shared bath, we're not up for accidental exposure) So not only was the cage off, but we couldn't have our weekly romp
The kid left, and since I was unlocked anyway, she let me slip in, "but you're not going to come!" Well I appreciated that
But as I was taking the cage off before the kids arrival, I was teasing her, saying admit it, you miss the real thing. She responded with "I do, but I'll never say so" Which confirms one of my worries. I'm not taking it off until she says she wants it, she's not going to say it. She wants me to say I want it off before she will allow it. and we're both stubborn...this could go on awhile.
But the really interesting thing is she seems to be getting more open to trying different sexual things. I've known for 30 years that she likes a finger in her bottom at times, but she has hated the fact, rarely allowing me to do so. Before the kid arrived, she shocked me and said "order me a butt plug and to be fair, you can order one for yourself" I was couldn't believe it.
She's known for 30 years that I like things in my butt, but again, she was very resistant to the idea. I suppose it's "Gay" Luckily, both toys arrived the day before the kid did. Unluckily in both cases our eyes were bigger than our...well not stomach
So we'll try again, I've already ordered my replacement and I have three picked out for her to look at, but there hasn't been a good time.
And just to have a Merry Christmas, she left a day before I was going to visit another child 3 hours away. Then the snow came. OK, I'll delay my departure for Xmas day. she called me Xmas morning, child's spouse has Covid, she's been exposed. I shouldn't come. Had a great leftover Xmas burrito, while the fancy dinner I had prepared sat uncooked 3 hours away. Luckily, we're both vaxed and double boosted. I locked back up before she left.
Highways are clear, so it snowed today, not sure when she's coming back, but when she does, she is going to quarantine upstairs in her office. for an unknown number of days, but I fear that New Years is going to be a bust as well.
In another post, I mentioned that my morning erections felt really good and that I enjoyed them. I was wearing the Cherry Keeper small. Occasionally, there would be a small space between me and the cage. So I decided to try the short cage. It is remarkably more effective. It's a whole 1/3 of an inch shorter, less than 3/8ths of an inch, but is much better at preventing erections. There still is no pain, but without that little bit of space to grow into, the head of my penis does not get sensitive, so less fun in one way, but more satisfying in another. I am into denial after all
all in all, she seems to be ok with me locked, as long as I hold the key, which is a good thing.
Hopefully, at some point, she'll hold the key, but this will work for now.