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I have been on an extended business trip and just returned home on Friday. My girl and I are pretty sexually active, and definitely missed each other while I was gone.

We are in a D/s relationship, where I am the D and she the s and have been for almost 8 years. We have a pretty open and honest relationship, meaning we share our desires, fantasies, concerns, anxieties, etc. with each other. I am the kinky one in our relationship and have introduced her to an array of things in the time we have been together. And to date, she has loved all of it.

In the past couple of years I have self-locked on a weekend just for fun. It increases our foreplay throughout the day and typically leads to mind blowing orgasms for both of us due to the sexual tension. While I was gone we had several conversations about the progression of our relationship, what she desired, what I desired, etc. This turned into several orders in the past month: some new toys, some new latex, some cheaper clothing, leather cuffs and collar for me (she already has a set), and a custom chastity device for me.

We are still working through the dynamics of what it means for her to be my key holder, but it is clear that we are both interested in this. As with others here, she is curious about what she will get from it other than serving me. I have tried to share with her what other key holders have stated about the benefits they get from it as well as purchased her a book on chastity. I am not an uncaring dominant/husband but I am less expressive than she would like.

But I think it is time to show her a bit. She has a very busy week this week and has been focused on preparing all weekend, minus our physical interactions. I asked her yesterday what I could do for her this week to make her week go smoother and reduce her worries at home. She will have a working dinner Monday, late days Tuesday and Wednesday and then wrap things up on Thursday. And all of this is a new experience in a new role for her, so she is more stressed than usual.

My girl is responsible for the day to day care and maintenance of my house, laundry, cleaning, etc. I have already started the laundry from my trip, completing two loads over the weekend with one more to go. I plan to vacuum and dust, and do what I hate most, clean the bathrooms. I am usually the cook, but I have a couple of very nice dinners planned for Tuesday and Wednesday.

My plan is to edge for a bit this morning and then self lock and hand her the key when she gets home tonight. I haven't ever tried it before, but I am hoping that edging before locking will increase how horny I am (we did just have a fun filled weekend with several physical interactions) and drive my desire to "serve" her this week. I have some massage oil that I am planning to warm up this evening to give her a nice massage, fire wood ready for a fire, and am going to run to the store to get her sunflowers (her favorite). Pending her energy levels I plan to lick and kiss her and use her wand on her to bring her several orgasms and then put her to bed.

Hoping this goes over well and shows her what can come from a locked dominant/husband. Looking forward to the next at least four days in chastity. It will be the longest lock up of our relationship, and hopefully be the first of many more.
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Well, last night went pretty well. My girl got home rather late from work and then a work dinner. I had the heat up, we're in Colorado, so it was toasty in the house. She likes it a lot warmer than I do. I had a glass of wine waiting for her on the kitchen counter and encouraged her to change into her comfys.

When she came back out to the living room she noticed the bottle of massage oil and smiled. I opened my legs so she could sit between them she began to remove her shirt. I reached over and grabbed both of the keys to my cage and handed them to her. I told her how it would be great if she would hold my keys and she agreed and thanked me. I poured out some massage oil and rubbed my hands together to get it warm and went to work. After about 20 minutes of massaging and gentle back scratches she looked so very sleepy. I kissed her back and neck, she really enjoys that, and asked if there was anything else I could do for her. I offered to lick, kiss, and vibrate her to as many orgasms as she would like, but she said she was too tired. So, I held her close for a bit and she drifted off to sleep. She woke a couple of minutes later and went to bed.

I joined her in bed about 30 minutes later and snaked one hand under her pillow, eased up tightly to her back, and draped my other arm over her. I felt her wiggle her way back in to me and heard her sigh in contentment. She drifted off back to sleep and I held her for a while. We do this every night, caged or not.

I had some trouble getting comfortable throughout the night, and woke this morning with a hard on that was trying to eject the cage. Unfortunately the plastic cage that I am wearing allows for growth, which became quite apparent this morning.

This is the first time I have ever not had control over the keys to my cage. I told her last night that I was prepared to go until at least Thursday this way, but that really it was up to her when she decides to unlock it. She has groped it a couple of times both last night and this morning. And she thanked me for giving her the keys again, and I thanked her for taking them.

Tonight I plan to make a nice dinner for her, get the massage oil out again, and hope to spend some time licking and kissing her to several orgasms.
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Last night was great. My girl got off work a little after 5 and made her way home. I had some sun flowers and mini roses waiting for her and was about half way through making dinner. We talked about her day, and she asked about mine, typical conversation. However, at some point I asked her what she would like this evening; another massage, back scratch, some physical attention? She inclined towards a massage and back scratch and go from there.

We made our way to the living room to eat dinner and I noticed the key to my cage on the coffee table. I assumed I knew what this meant, but didn't say anything. We enjoyed our dinner and she made motions to get up and clean up, but I told her I would take care of it and that she should just relax. I did the dishes and cleaned up the kitchen and returned to the living room with the massage oil and a towel.

She removed her shirt and I warmed some oil in my hands and began to massage her back and neck. She mentioned how much better she slept after my massage last night and was happy to be getting another. Looks like I am going to have to go get some more massage oil.

She reached back and gripped my cage and asked me what I liked about wearing it. It took me a minute to get my thoughts in line. I told her it was like a hug to my cock all day when I would grow, which would make me immediately think of her. I liked that she held the key and that I couldn't just choose to take it off when I want anymore. I really enjoy the tease and denial aspect, being horny all the time but with ability to take things into my own hands for release. And more. I even admitted that prior to locking up on Monday I had edged several times just to make sure I was horny when the cage was locked.

When I was done giving her a massage she turned around and straddled my lap. She leaned down and kissed me and we made out for quite a while. She also did exactly what I had been hoping for, she played with my nipples a lot! It really drives me crazy and she knows it. She paused after a minute or so and said she was worried about how horny it would make me and I reassured her, that is exactly what I enjoy and to not worry about it. We played on and off all evening but kept it at making out and touching each other.

This morning when we were laying in bed waking up, I asked her for supervised unlock time this morning so that I could properly clean the cage and myself. She agreed and we went to the bathroom where she handed me the key to unlock. I asked her if she would mind unlocking and locking as it is important to me. Her eyes brightened and she excitedly agreed. She knelt down, put in the key, unlocked the cage, and slowly slid the cage off of my rapidly growing cock. She stroked it a couple of times and then told me to clean up. I cleaned thoroughly and waited for her to finish brushing her teeth before she locked me back up.

She knelt down again and took me in her mouth, such a wonderful feeling. She said she missed the taste of me and spent a moment or two licking and sucking on me. I told her she could spend as much time as she wanted doing that and that I would warn her if I got close.

She stopped moments later and asked what to do now, now that I was rock hard. I told her I would stand patiently out of the way until it subsided and then we could go from there. Several minutes later my erection faded and she tried to put the cage back on, but as soon as she tried I got rock hard again. I told her I would put it back on if she would lock it in place. She agreed and several minutes later I was all locked back up. She stood up and thanked me, kissed me, and played with my nipples a bit. I thanked her back and enjoyed every moment of her touch.

So far, this is going very well and it seems that she is enjoying it as much as I am even if she is a little nervous about it all. We are discussing things as they come up and I am helping clarify anything she is concerned with. She seems to be fully on board at this point.
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My girl decided she wanted PIV last night. She usually sends me a text when she is on her way home to see if I need anything last minute from the store for dinner. I told her I didn't need anything and asked her if she did. She replied, why don't you go get dressed up in something sexy for me, and layout something for me to wear as well. We like to wear latex, etc. So I put on some new shorts I got and a tank top and laid out some things for her.

When she got home I was just about done making dinner so she quickly went in and got changed. She came back out and "inspected" me, making me turn around so she could see me from all sides. She smiled approvingly, smacked my bare ass, and giggled. She looked stunning in her panties and top and I told her as much as I leaned in to kiss her while my cock attempted to swell in its confinements.

We had a nice dinner and I asked her if I would be able to service her this evening as I had not been able to the past two nights. I was really looking forward to showing her that it could be all about her while I remained caged. She told me that as much as I want to hear her cum, she wants to hear and feel me cum inside of her. So, it was decided, I would be coming out of my cage for some terrific PIV.

I did get the joy of eating her first. I totally love the way she tastes and smells and the little sounds she makes while I kiss, lick, and suck on her clit and lips. But it wasn't long before she told me to take her from behind. I had spread some numbing cream on before we began so I was well prepared to last for a while. It was terrific and she came several times to my once.

After we cleaned up we sat back on the couch and enjoyed each others company for the rest of the evening. I am now unlocked, but plan to talk to her tonight about what this week meant to her, whether she enjoyed it, and whether she would like to lock me back up. We'll see how it goes!
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Well, the MM cage arrived Wednesday and I waited to unbox it until my girl got home from work. We had also received an order of latex garments, both of which we were both excited to finally get. She laid both packages out on the coffee table and I asked her which one she wanted to open first. She told me she wanted the box with the cage opened first. I smiled widely inside!

We opened the box, took it out, and admired it for a minute or two. I asked her what she thought and she did the same. I answered that I liked the way it looked but that I wouldn't know for sure until I had it on. She agreed and told me to go wash it so she could lock me in it at least overnight. She has a bit of a hang up about sending me to work wearing a chastity device.

So, I washed it and came back and we put it on. She threaded in the locking screw and took both the keys. For the most part, it fit really well. The base ring is too big. But it is quite comfortable so I feel confident that once I get the base ring sized correctly all will be good.

She teased me a bit, playing with my nipples and lightly spanking my butt. We sat down to open the package of latex, several pairs of shorts and two shirts for me, and a pair of panties, a bra, and skirt, and a dress for her. She told me to model my new items for her first then she modeled hers for me.

After all the build up I asked her if I could help her orgasm a couple of times. She agreed. After three orgasms, one with a squirt (which I love!) I was leaning over her while she was on the bed and I pressed my caged cock against her and she started playing with my nipples and kissing me. I guess with all the excitement from the new cage, the latex, her squirt, I was REALLY turned on. I was also able to grow a bit in the cage as it stretched from my body. She could tell by the look in my eyes and the moans coming out of me that she was having a very positive effect and kept going. I couldn't help it and exploded all over her belly. She kept teasing my nipples while I came and giggled with true joy at her ability to make me cum that way,
We cleaned up and passed out! Both of us were worn out.

When we woke up yesterday she made it clear that she wanted PIV. So I decided I would reward her for both locking me in my new cage right away, allowing me to help her orgasm several times, and teasing me to release as she wanted. So, I took two generic viagra (still locked in my cage by the way) and went about my morning duties for a bit. Once I could feel things tightening, which I learned is waiting too long, I told her I was ready if she was. She got the key and unlocked me. I immediately applied some numbing cream we have and then worked for several minutes to get my very hard cock out of the base ring. Once out, it was on. I told her after I brought her to several orgasms what I had done and why, and she enjoyed the idea that I would do that for her. I told it I was also doing it for me, as positive reinforcement for her locking me up as I liked, etc. So, truly win win!

Now to see about getting an adjusted base ring and working this chastity stuff in much more regularly. Probably still going to have to self lock for a while, but I will work with that until she gets comfortable enough to start locking me on her own!
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Well, I am back to being locked, as of this morning. And expressed to my girl, who is new to all this, that my intent is to stay locked through the COVID 19 pandemic. Should get interesting. I haven't cum in over a week even though I haven't been locked.

The idea came to mind yesterday. My girl was starting to express her desire for sex. She doesn't ever come out and say it, it always starts with increased touching, etc. It had been over a week since we last had sex since she was on her cycle. We usually have sex in the mornings as that is when my libido is highest. So in preparation for this morning, I took out two little blue pills and staged them in the kitchen for the morning.

I woke this morning and left the bedroom to make us coffee. As mine completed brewing I started the water for hers and popped the two blue pills. The plan was that she would come out to get her coffee and I could go to the bedroom and apply an ample amount of numbing cream to myself and then bring her in and have some fun. Timing went just right, and as I was pulling out some rope, a gag, and the hitachi, she came back into the bedroom and smiled widely. She had no idea what I had done for myself in preparation and what I had in store.

So I tied her up, gagged her, put two condoms on my now pretty numb cock and grabbed the hitachi. The combination of these four things are one of her favorite things and I can often get her to squirt as a result. But even when she doesn't squirt she has some of her most powerful orgasms this way. She came several times, squirting a little twice, and let me know she was too tired to continue. (She snapped her fingers which is her "safe word" when gagged.

I left myself inside her while I untied her. I told her to climb up on the bed and relax while I went and showered. I had staged my plastic chastity device in the bathroom already and jumped in the shower. It took a bit of time for my swelling to go down and for me to be able to get the base ring on. Then I had to work really hard to get my cock in the tube and I was finally able to insert the lock and turn the key.

I finished showering and dried off. I went back to the bedroom, naked, and let her see my caged cock. I went over to the bed and cuddled into her and informed her of my intent.

I plan to stay locked, orgasm free, through the COVID 19 crisis. Her eyes widened! I reassured her that events like this morning, me giving her as much pleasure as she can take while not orgasming myself is fair game, and that we can explore other avenues to allow me release with no orgasm. She seemed on board at the time and even started playing with my nipples right away.

I laid the keys on her chest, between her breasts, and leaned down to kiss her and nibble on her neck. Then I leaned back and told her I had to get ready for a meeting and helped her up.

So it starts again. We will see where this goes, but I have some ideas on how to make this shelter in place more enjoyable for us both! Wish us luck.

P.S. I cannot wait until I get my custom cage back from MM after some slight alterations!!! So looking forward to that metal cage over this plastic one!
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So much fun!

Define “until we are through this crisis” :). I am being only a little silly. Best modeling right now is that we will be isolating for 2 months, relax for 1, isolate again for two, and so on, until we have a vaccine in 12-18 months. Once 70 to 80 percent of people are immune, by having lived through infection or a vaccine, we’ve weathered the storm.

So - until the end of the current bout of social isolation, or until we’ve achieved “herd immunity”? One is a month and a half, two at the most, away; the other 12-18 months.
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Well, this has been quite an adventure so far! Being locked up for longer than I have ever before has been an unexpectedly easy transition, except for sleeping. Which seems to be common.

I have been in and out of three devices so far. I started in my black plastic cage as I waited for my custom Mature Metal cage to come back after adjustments. It is my second favorite aside from the Mature Metal cage, which I LOVE. But the plastic one needs more cleaning as it has fewer air holes, etc. So, I swapped to a cheap metal version for a day.

Then my MM device arrived and after a cleaning it went on directly!!! AWESOME! The ring was a little tight but seemed like it would work out fine. But the clearance was too tight and chaffing began. So I worked with MM to return it again for another round of adjustments. So, in the mean time, back into the cheap metal cage.

Staying committed to locking through CV-19. And the kH is still on board so far!!!! Just not teasing and such as much as I would like. But we'll work on it!!!
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@Schnoff

Good question. I have not thought that far ahead! Goodness....

At this point I am thinking it will likely be until this initial bout of shelter in place is over. But who knows. My kH does not seem to mind it so far and she is getting all the attention she asks for. So........
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