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3/13/21 – All Day Foreplay – Saturday Morning

I was having breakfast eating a bagel and drinking coffee. There was brilliant sunlight streaming through the windows. I had been up for an hour and was having a peaceful, relaxing morning. Then my wife came into the kitchen and made my day sooooo much better. She asked if I would give her a trim. This is one of the most intimate things one can do for their lover and I was thrilled as always.

Quickly we were set up with a towel on the bed and the trimmer plugged in. I couldn't resist giving her kisses on her snatch before I started. She had a errands that needed to be done this morning so I didn't delay and soon she was happy with the length of her hair. As she was getting up from the bed, she asked if she could put the cage on. And soon she had me caged. I told her I would love it if she would let me go down on her after her shower. She said she would love to, but it would have to be a quicky so that she could get to her appointments.

I spent the time she was showering drinking my coffee and nibbling on my bagel. Thoughts of what we were going to do made eating food seem less urgent now. She came out to get me only wrapped in a towel and a smile. One of my favorite things I love about our sex life now is how happy it is. There is the same level of lust and passion, but there is now such a high level of happiness and joy. I didn't get to spend a lot of time licking her. It was only five minutes until she had a vigorous orgasm. She kept quiet during it because we weren't alone in the house.

As we were getting out of bed she smiled at me and said, 'that was just a taste of things to come until later.' So now I am writing this up while sitting in the kitchen, still ignoring my bagel and coffee, absolutely buzzing like I had downed a gallon of energy drinks. I will spend the rest of the day thinking of how unbelievably sexy she looked on my bed in the morning sunlight. And I will do so wearing her cage. It will be foreplay every time we touch for the entire day.

Saturday Afternoon

We spent the next few hours doing errands. Primarily visiting with our oldest, standing outside their house talking. During a good deal of our driving time we talked about how much we are enjoying our blossoming sex life. When we got home to an empty house we had about 45 minutes before we needed to head out for the evening. She looked at me and told me 'I want you to lick me'. That sent my heart racing. I set about heating up the new toy for her and got the bed ready.

As she joined me and settled into the center of the bed she looked so sexy. She looked so confident and happy and so comfortable it builds my lust for her. There is something so exciting about knowing that the only thing we were going to do is have me give her oral sex until she needs me to stop or we run out of time. After our last session she had explained to me that when I am using the new toy while licking her she feels like I am making love to her. I thanked her and said that it is exactly what I am doing. That in my head, I am doing everything I can to make her feel my love for her.

I kissed my way down her body and had been using my tongue for a short while before she said she wanted the toy. When I added that to the action her excitement rose very quickly along with her first orgasm. She didn't give the usual queues that she needed a rest so I kept going and after a short while the second one followed. At times it seems that there isn't a valley between the peaks. That they are explosions on the way to a bigger event. She was very enthusiastic with her touching today. I felt her hands moving on me the whole time. And the cage wasn't neglected at all. I felt so connected to her. After the second orgasm she needed a rest. I stayed in place until she was ready and soon she had her third.

After that we kissed and she had me lay on top of her. She was moving so that the cage was rubbing against her as she recovered. She looked over at the clock and said we needed to get going soon. I asked if I could give her one more orgasm and she had the most alluring smile on her face when she agreed. This last one was as quick as this mornings, but it was so satisfying. We quickly got dressed and left the house getting to our event exactly on time.

Once I would go months hoping we could have a session only for her. Now we have had that twice in one day. I love how much love and sex and sensuality has come into our lives.

Saturday Night

Again the house was empty when we got home that night. The whole day my thoughts were upon her and how she had made me feel. She told me that she wanted to get back to bed because it was my turn. We started with her using a vibrator on the cage for a while. Then, after removing the cage, she told me that she planned on edging me. I asked if we could try something different. I like being restrained and she doesn't like tying me down. So I slipped both legs into one leg of my jeans and when she put a leg over me it was almost as effective as being tied. It worked really well and we may be able to try again. She brought me close a couple of times before getting on top to ride for a while. Then when she was finished she edged me more until she told me she wanted me to finish. It was so powerful. I had her at the center of my thoughts since the beginning of the day.

She told me that she had planned this before going to bed last night. She wanted to make sure that she got up early enough that we had time for me to trim her and give her a quick O. I love how creative and loving she is. This is probably the shortest lockup we have had since we started but she made it one of the best days in memory. ( And there have been a lot of days that fit that description lately. ) Thank you my love.
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3/20/21 – A many varied thing – Saturday Afternoon

We had a quick, wonderful session last Monday evening. In under an hour we used her new toy, the Avant D8 for three orgasms and then made love. I asked her if she was going to cum again and she said no. “Really”, I said, “even if I go down on you after?” She got a big smile and said “We'll see”. She did get her fourth orgasm after I finished and went down on her, and it was her request that I do so.

The rest of the week was quiet. On Wednesday we had some time alone and I asked her if I could do anything for her. She said no and put the cage on. Friday, when we had some time alone, she had a sinus headache, so we were both disappointed. Saturday our youngest went out with a friend and before we had time to be intimate our youngest returned and said that the rest of the day would be spent at home doing homework.

Then late afternoon our Youngest decided to take a break and go out for a couple of hours. We finished up the cleaning we had been doing and headed for the bedroom. Goddess wanted to use the new toy so I got it warming. I have been cautiously increasing the temperature of the water I use to warm it. This time I used the hottest temperature from the tap. The toy itself lowers the temp as it warms up, and this worked great. I also set the massage oil in its' warmer. Now if only I could figure out a way to get the lube warmed up.

We had only been kissing for a short time before Goddess told me she needed oral. Recently it seems like she is ready for oral loving quicker and I find her need for it extremely exciting. She is getting more direct with asking for it and that revs me up even more. The late afternoon sun was lighting up her beautiful body like it was a movie. I used the Avant and my mouth to give her two orgasms. She then uncaged me and we did missionary for a while. She wanted to try using a paddle for spanking me in that position and we found one that worked for her. It was a lot of fun, but I had to stop moving often because the sensation was too much. She said it was like she was edging me.

From there we tried something new I thought of for us. I had her lay face down with a pillow under her hips, and massaged her legs and butt with oil while gently using the new toy in her. This was a great combination of relaxing and exciting and went on for a long time. I had free range to look and touch as she enjoyed. I hope I can transmit how much love I feel for her through my hands at times like these. We slowly made love in that position for a while. She found it very comfortable and we will hopefully do this again soon.

We talked about her toys and she said the Avant D8 was definitely her favorite toy, but that I was better than any toys. She asked to use her Lelo Ella next. I handed it to her and went to wash the oil off my hands. From the bathroom I could hear her softly moaning. I walked into the bedroom to see her using the toy and was torn between wanting to watch and participate. She made up my mind by saying she needed my tongue again. I did until she had her third orgasm.

We did 69 for a while and then finished the session by cumming together in missionary. We had spent two hours luxuriating in each others pleasure. And I felt so close to her that my love was overflowing. We got take out for dinner and drove down to the beach to eat. We were listening to a podcast called 'Sex with Dr Emily' who is a sex therapist. She had a list of things that lovers could do to spice things up. And we got a laugh when many of her recommendations we had just done. She also said that couples should tell each other what the three most exciting times making love where, and why. We looked at each other and said the last three times together were the most exciting. Life has ups and downs. But right now I feel like I am on top of the world. Thank you my love.
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3/25/21 – Wonderful days – Thursday

Just a quick update. The last few days have been wonderful. We made love Sunday. The highlight being giving her oral with extended use of her new toy. Finishing with lovemaking and us cumming together. Tuesday found us with time to spend a couple of hours in bed, picking out videos to watch on the laptop. With breaks for oral and lovemaking again for a finish. The totals for both days was seven orgasms for Goddess and two for me.

The following night I was relaxing in the kitchen, thinking about taking a shower before bed, when Goddess came in and asked to put the cage on. As soon as I finished the shower we were in the bedroom and the cage was on. I am as happy as I can remember with our love life and waiting for the next time Goddess and I can make love.
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3/27/21 Bookends – Saturday

Saturday had my favorite beginning. I was sitting in the kitchen finishing breakfast when Goddess came out of the bathroom in just her post-shower towel. She asked if I wanted to go back to the bedroom and go down on her. We were quickly back in bed making out with my cage being the only thing either of us were wearing.

When she was ready for oral, she told me that she only wanted me to lick her once because she wanted to save some for later. Playfully, I gave her nipple a long lick and said “Ok. there you go. I thought you wanted more but if that's all you need....” She found that funny said “You are being fresh, and you know what fresh boys get, a licking and a spanking” That set my mind to wandering about what may happen later, and it set my tongue to work on making Goddess feel as loved as I could possibly make her feel. After her orgasm we cuddled for a bit and got up to start the day.

For the first time since 2019 we went to a small outdoor crafts fair. It almost felt normal except for everyone being masked, which was nice. The six foot social distancing wasn't as respected as I like, but people were making an effort. It was one of the best days since winter so people were just so happy to be out in the sunshine. At one table I saw a beautifully carved wooden spoon made of Olive wood. I asked about it and told the vendor I thought it was really nice. As we walked away I told Goddess that when I saw the spoon I thought about the quip she made earlier about spanking. She laughed and said she had wondered why it had caught my eye.

We next went to a Craft Brewery that had reopened their outdoor seating to get a beer and a snack. We followed that up with a ride to the beach to look out on the water. Goddess wanted to talk about our love life and asked a lot of questions about how I was feeling and if there were any other things I wanted to try. I answered, then asked her the same questions. It was so good that this is now a normal conversation for us. A couple of times it got emotional in a really good way with each of us explaining how loved and happy we are feeling. We promised that we would continue with what we were doing, and just as important keep talking about it. I was so looking forward to the night.

Unfortunately dinner didn't agree with my love. She was really uncomfortable with bouts of pain and feeling really hot. In bed she wore only her panties and I did what I could to comfort her. The hot feeling was replaced by being cold so we cuddled for a long time. She started feeling better. She asked me if it was difficult for me with all the build up during the day. I was caged and dressed, holding her undressed while cuddling. I told her that it impossible for me to not see her as sexy and attractive, but it was difficult because I felt so bad that she wasn't feeling good. But it always feels good to me to hold her like this.

A while later I felt her give a little shake and press her pelvis into my leg. She said she couldn't understand why she could still feel horny while not feeling good. I offered to use my fingers to give her a gentle orgasm if it would make her feel better. She said no thanks, and continued to cuddle up next to me. Awhile later she changed her mind and asked if I would touch her. So I gently circled her clit while licking her nipple giving her a very therapeutic orgasm, if there is such a thing. It seemed to help as she was ready to try sleeping after that. She asked if I would be ok, and I told her I was so happy she felt better that I would be ok.

It took a long time to fall asleep, but I really was ok. The emotional connection I feel with my wife is so strong right now. I hate seeing her not feeling well, like after her operation in December. But I feel so good about being the one that she turns to at those times. She is so attractive to me physically, emotionally, and as a person, that I want to do whatever I can to make her life better and fill it with as much love and joy as I can. I love you Goddess.
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3/28/21 – Quiet Day - Sunday

I found Sunday to be a bit challenging. Saturday was a very sexual day from start to finish. However I felt guilty that I was still turned on by Goddess when she wasn't feeling good last night. I didn't sleep well and woke up tired and out of sorts.

We spent the day together doing things around the house. She was feeling a bit better but there was no sexual tension. I was still horny because it has been five days since I got relief. I didn't mention it. I am committed to allowing Goddess to tell me when she is feeling ready to make love. That doesn't change how my body is feeling.

At night we had a very long hug before I went to bed. Again it was a restless night but I know that soon we will both be feeling our best and the love will flow. Before chastity there were days like this too. But I felt more upset then. Now I am more ok with the feelings. I don't know if it is the cage or if it is the wonderful communication we have. Either way I am at peace with my feelings and the love I have for my beautiful wife.
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3/28/21 – Connecting – Monday

Monday evening all the stars aligned. Goddess was feeling better and our youngest was out for a few hours. We relaxed for a while to let dinner settle then went into the bedroom. We had a very loving encounter. I gave oral to Goddess for two climaxes. She then uncaged me and we made love and came together. It was just what I needed to feel connected to my wife and to reset from the high and frustration of Saturday. All together it was a five day lockup, which is long for me. I feel a real calm and peace in my heart now. This is because of the central presence of Goddess in my life. Thank you my love.
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4/1/21 – Recaged – Thursday

There was good news on Thursday morning because Goddess got her second vaccine shot. I took a half day off work to drive her, and then I worked from home for the rest of the day. Goddess went into work after her shot and wouldn't be home until after 5pm. From what we had heard about peoples experiences with the second shot, Goddess was prepared to not work the following day. I wasn't expecting that we would be intimate for a couple of days. Being home alone during the day I put on the steel cage so that I could focus on work and keep Goddess in my mind.

Goddess was feeling ok after work. When dinner was finishing up she surprised me be stating that she wanted to put the cage on. I told her that I had put on the steel cage after she left for work and asked her if she wanted me to take it off, or if she wanted to take it off and put on the Cobra cage. She opted to switch the cages herself. This was the first time she removed one cage and immediately put a different one on. I thanked her and we went about the rest of the evening.

4/2/21 – Unexpected Pleasure – Friday

By morning Goddess was feeling the effects of the shot and took a sick day. I was concerned during the day, and when I checked in around lunch she was doing ok. When I got home that night she was feeling better. She had a good nap mid day and it helped. We had the house to ourselves so Goddess wanted to take the laptop to bed and watch some videos. I had been looking for videos that I thought she would enjoy and we spent an hour or so watching them. I wasn't counting on doing much more than spend time together watching.

Goddess got turned on by the videos and asked me to go down on her. It was wonderful and she was able to have three orgasms from oral. We stopped and cuddled for a bit and she told me she wanted to take the cage off and make love. That was a great relief because with an hour of watching porn, and then the oral sex, I was getting sore from trying to get hard in the cage. We took our time making love. with a short break to give her more oral, before coming together. And then the biggest surprise, she asked me to lick her to one more orgasm.

She amazes me that she recovered so quickly, from feeling bad in the morning to being my sex Goddess that night. With her having her second vaccine shot, my anxiety has gone down so much. I recently have had my first shot. I hope I am not getting ahead of myself with this, but it seems like we are going to turn the corner on Covid soon.
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4/9/21 – Special Day – Friday

Morning

This is a special day for us so we both took the day off. I was up first,sitting in the kitchen eating breakfast. My beautiful wife finished her shower and asked if I would like to give her an orgasm. Soon we were undressed and kissing in bed. I was kissing her breasts when she told me she needed me to lick her pussy. She didn't want too much foreplay and asked me to focus on her clit. Her orgasm followed too quickly for me, because I knew this was just a quick O before we start our day.

In the afterglow I was kissing her neck when she told me she wanted to put on my cage. She joked that she hoped it wouldn't be too difficult to put on because of how excited I was. This was very true. She likes to sit at the side of the bed and have my stand in front of her to put the cage on. As we moved, she playfully got on her hands and knees and wiggled her hips. I caressed her hips and she asked me to get inside of her. This was one of her favorite positions. Because of the difficulty she is having with her knee we haven't even tried it for a very long time. I slowly slid in and out expecting her to ask me to stop at any time. When she grew more excited I reached around and started rubbing her clit. This got her motor going and for the first time in years she was able to orgasm in this position. When she calmed a bit she laid down on her stomach. I kissed her lovely cheeks and rubbed her back until she rolled over. She beckoned me to get back inside her and we gently made love for a few more minutes.

Eventually she said it was time to stop and put the cage on. This is only the second time I can remember that we have made love and stopped before I came. This is the first time that it was her idea. I kissed her and thanked her, telling her how sexy and exciting she is. I gave myself a quick wash with a facecloth and we were back at the side of the bed. It took longer than usual for her to get the cage on. She never shows impatience and gently applies the needed pressure until the job is done. With the lock in, she kissed the cage, and I kissed and thanked her. I know that no matter what else is going on today a significant part of my thoughts would be on the wonderful, sexy woman I share my life with.

We spent a couple of hours driving around town doing some errands. Then went for a drive to an Orchard we heard about, to get some lunch and some hard cider. It was a great day sitting outside with bright blue skies and 70 degrees. Our conversation was very intimate and we discussed how the morning had made us both feel closer. We made great plans for sex this evening. But, when we got home our youngest told us that plans had changed and they would be home all night. Therefore our plans changed for the evening. We spent a quiet night watching TV and went to bed together. She caressed the cage for a few minutes before we drifted off to sleep.
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4/10/21 – The Morning After – Saturday

Normally I am out of bed long before my wife on the weekends. Two things made me stay in bed to wait for her to awaken. First, our youngest started a new job in retail and would be leaving before eight for the day. Second, of the many things Goddess and I discussed yesterday, one was how much I love giving her orgasms in the mornings and she agreed we would do that today. So when she woke up I was beside her and we started kissing. I asked her if she would like to use a toy and she choose her Avant. I set her toy in an insulated mug filled with hot water to warm up. Then we went back to warming each other up.

With the window shade up a little the morning sun lit up her body wonderfully. I kissed my way down to her center taking my time to get to her vulva. After a while she asked that we get the toy. It had gotten to a very nice temp that was warm to the touch. The combination of the toy and my tongue gave her two orgasms. Kissing afterwards she told me she wanted to take off the cage. I was getting out of bed to get her the key and stopped to give her pussy a quick lick. Her response made me linger, and when there was no request to stop, I stayed for her third orgasm. The feelings I get at these times are not easy to express. It isn't like a physical orgasm for me, but it is the emotional equivalent. I told her yesterday that a fantasy of mine is that I get to give her a good morning orgasm everyday. And I know that it will stay a fantasy. But the reality of these morning sessions keeps me happy for a long long time.

When she had the cage off she wanted to start with her on her knees. And we do that until she needs to stop and stretch out her knee. From there we stay in missionary for a long time. It is very passionate and I needed to stop a couple of times before I could continue. When our climax came it was a joyful and loud event that left us breathless. I have no question that since we have started using chastity we have become more adventurous and been drawn closer to each other than we have been at any point in forty years. I love you Goddess.
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4/14/21 – Wave of Emotion – Wednesday

My wonderful wife is dealing with a painful hip so after dinner I volunteered to massage it for her. I warmed the oil and sat next to her on the bed. She showed me what hurt, lower back and right hip and leg. I started gently not knowing what pressure to use and checked in often to see if it was ok. I could tell she was enjoying it and hoped that it was helping. I was really focusing on how much I loved her and hoping it was coming through in my touch.

When she said she was done I started kissing all the spots I had massaged. As time had gone on I had drifted off target and covered a lot of very sexy territory, so I had a lot of skin to kiss. The movement of her hips encouraged me to continue my exploration and soon I was kissing her lips between her legs. I was hoping she would want to rollover, instead she adjusted herself to give me more access and I found a way to get to her clit with her still on her stomach, a new position for us. This led to her rolling over so that I could have more access and use my thumb, which we continued for a long time until she needed a break.

I often get emotional at these times. It makes me glad that my face is positioned so that I can't be seen. This time it hit me really strongly. I stopped kissing and licking but buried my face at her lips and started shaking. Missy uses the term 'melting' for how she feels sometimes. I won't claim it is the same emotion, but it describes how I felt really well. I never wanted to move because I felt so close to the woman I love. I don't know if Goddess knew what was going on, but she let me stay there longer than normal and I just swam in waves of those feelings.

We finished the session with missionary and felt very close. There are times when everything is going right in life and it is important to recognize it. There are challenges and hard times for everyone and there will be more coming for us. So I am trying to feel the moment and stop and smell the roses. Thank you my love.
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