[Homebody] Locked in Love

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01-14-2020 – Tuesday – Male Chastity Day

Monday after work KH met me in the kitchen and asked if I wanted to put on the cage. Of course I did, so we went off to the bedroom. As she was putting on the cage she asked me if I knew what the next day was. I said it was the fourteenth. She said it was World Male Chastity Day. I was surprised that this was something she was aware about. I had mentioned it in passing the previous week but apparently she has been doing reading and planning on her own. This fact is exciting on its’ own. She wanted me to wear it overnight and to work the next day. I kissed and thanked her for sharing this with me and did just what she asked.

It is strange at work wearing the device but I am getting comfortable with it quickly. I had a big three-hour meeting where I was presenting for around an hour. I spent a very large part of the time with my thoughts on my KH. I have a very special picture of KH as my phone background. She is wearing her key and has a very sexy smile. I love seeing that every time I am pretending to check the time.

At home we shared dinner before going to the bedroom. Our youngest was working but we weren’t sure until what time. As is becoming our new habit we spent time with the laptop reading and talking and looking at pictures. The topic is chastity in all its variations. All the while we are touching each other.

As time was going to be short we got down to business. I brought KH to two orgasms with oral before she needed a break. We kissed and caressed until she was ready for more. She uncaged me for lovemaking and shortly after we started she told me that she wanted me to go down on her afterwards. Me giving her a final orgasm after lovemaking has been a very rare occurrence, but since chastity we have started doing it around once a week. The understanding we have is that she wants me to wait until we finish and then ask her if she is in the mood for another orgasm. It is a massive thrill to me for her to bring up the idea and ask for it, especially while we are still making love. The result of that excitement is that I didn’t last as long as normal, but I did last long enough for us both to cum. Then I got to enjoy giving her one last orgasm and caress her while she recovered.

I feel like I am in a dream sometimes with how well everything has been going these past weeks. My wife is now doing her own reading and making sexy plans for us. She is so unabashedly sexy and passionate that I am in heaven. Every part of our relationship seems to have gotten closer: wife, friend and lover. I feel very blessed.
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January 18, 2020 – Saturday – Pause

After the wonderful time we had on Male Chastity Day it felt like we were at full steam ahead. The next day at work I started having some symptoms that I had previously spoken to my doctor about. Wednesday and Thursday were spent at the doctors only to be told I am fine. No explanation for the symptoms but no worries. I was even given the go ahead to shovel snow which is a mixed blessing 😊

It did make KH and I slow down with chastity a bit. As I was sitting on a hospital bed waiting for the Doctor I came across a post from @Js12457899. He spoke about his experience having an ER doctor remove his cage when he was having kidney stones. This reinforced my feeling to always have an emergency key available if I am caged and KH agreed.

On Friday night we made love for the first time in a couple of weeks were chastity wasn’t involved. My KH said she missed having me caged. When I was going down on her she said that it felt odd to touch my cock without the cage. It is funny how fast something new can become normal. And then it is missed when it is not there. Those were the only two references to chastity that night. But they were very important to me because they showed me that KH is enjoying and thinking of chastity too. It shows chastity is more than something that she is doing just for me.

Saturday was a good day. We went out to lunch with a friend we hadn’t seen in a while. Back at home, when we were in for the night, I asked KH if she had any plans on using the cage. I was trying to be good and wait for her to bring it up, but it had been four days. We had talked previously about having her being the only one to initiate putting on the cage. She disagreed with this. She wants me to bring it up if I feel the need. We waited until our youngest went out with friends, then KH put on the cage.

We spent the evening together watching some shows. It really does make a difference to me if she has put the cage on or not. I don’t understand it but, there is a large part of my subconscious that focuses on her if I am caged. Later KH was going to start a movie that would run past midnight. So I kissed her goodnight and went to bed. I drifted off to sleep happy that I was caged.

After midnight when KH came to bed I woke up and kissed her. She spent some time telling me about the movie. She had remembered it in great detail. When that was done she surprised me by asking me to lick her, which is our phrase for me going down on her. For years I had been telling her that I would love for us to do this. If she came to bed and wanted a nice orgasm before sleep, please ask. She never had. Now that chastity has opened up our love life, she did. Her tone of voice was so hopeful and turned on that I immediately got excited. I got to spend twenty glorious minutes doing what I love best and gave her two orgasms. She often played with the cage during this. When we were recovering she asked if she could do anything for me. I explained she just did something wonderful for me and thanked her. She was asleep long before me. I was very excited. It was more than being sexually turned on. It was a feeling that against all expectations, after forty years of bliss, things could be so new and exciting.

This month has been like a honeymoon to me. We have been trying so many things that are new to us and communicating on a more intimate level than before. And my beautiful KH seems to be blossoming and expressing herself sexually in ways that are so exciting to be part of. I have been thinking about how long this could go on like this, probably because of the health issue. But now I think that if each of us focusses on the happiness of the other the sky is the limit.

Right now, the following morning, I am getting ready to go out shoveling (yay /s) while my wife is sleeping peacefully. My heart has never been fuller of love for her. Thank you KH, I love you.
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January 20, 2020 - Monday – 48 hours

Sunday afternoon we had a gathering with my KH’s family. KH said that she had often thought about chastity during the visit. We had a great time and got home around dinner time. We got to spend one last dinner with our youngest before they left for college the next day. That evening when we were getting ready for bed I could tell my KH was tired and wanted to go to sleep. We had talked a bit about me trying to wear the cage for a longer period. This would be a good time to try because I had Monday off for Martin Luther King Jr Day and my wife had to work. We kissed good night and went sleep.

Twenty-four hours had been the longest I had been continuously locked. When I woke up Monday I was into new territory. I had been thinking of things I could do to surprise my KH while she was at work. I was going to help our youngest pack the car for college so I had to stick around the house until noon. I did some of the things around the house that I knew would make KH happy. But I really wanted to do something romantic for her. So once the youngest was on the road I went out and bought a couple of bouquets of flowers. I drove to KH’s work and left a dozen roses on the front seat of her car along with a note. I was a bit worried when I was dropping them off that one of her coworkers would spot me, but I got away with it. At home I put the other flower arrangement on the kitchen table with candles and set the table for dinner.

About 15 minutes before I expected KH to get home, I got a very nice text from her saying that she was surprised and happy with the flowers. She came through the door with a big smile and I greeted her in a bathrobe with a big hug. We didn’t spend too much time talking before heading to the bedroom. For most of the next six weeks we would have the house to ourselves. So now we wouldn’t have to worry about how loud we get or using other rooms if we choose.

In the bedroom the lights were off except for candles. The stereo was playing romantic piano music. I had gotten out all the items we like to use while making love for KH to choose from, and the bed was turned down. A couple of years ago I gave her a beautiful rich looking red bathrobe that comes down to just below her butt. We have called it her Royal Robe ever since. It helps keep her upper body warm while I make her lower body hot. I helped her undress and put on her Royal Robe. I was still in the cage and she seemed happy to touch it. We sat up in bed and browsed the chastity web sites. I admit that I was very distracted by seeing her body next to me and I don’t think I was paying attention to what we were reading.

When she was done with the laptop I got her to roll over onto her stomach so that I could kiss down her back and pay special attention to her beautiful butt. From there I got to spend a lot of time slowly bringing her to two orally induced orgasms. With the house empty again, I got to hear her pleasure. She kept touching my cage which had me very hard and dripping precum. Before chastity I never had precum. I had assumed that with my age it was over. But my KH gets me so excited that it happens often now. We took a break after two O’s, kissing and caressing. KH mentioned she noticed that I had gotten out her favorite toy. She started using it on herself, slowly moving it in and out while her hips rocked. She asked me to turn the bed side lamp on because she wanted to be able to see me trying to get hard in the cage. While she was stroking me, I started on her nipples and worked my way down her body. Recently we have switched from making love before bedtime to the early evening. Neither of us is tired and we have the luxury of spending as much time together as we want. I was in no hurry and let her excitement build and build. When I got to her snatch though things picked up speed. She asked me to take control of her toy and I gave her a shaking, screaming orgasm that left her out of breath for minutes.

I had been caged for forty-eight hours, and now I had been hard in the cage for about an hour, so I was quite uncomfortable. KH said she wanted the cage off so we could make love. I can’t figure out if it is more emotional to me for her to put it on or to take it off. I think the most important part of it is that she is deciding when. I still have trouble believing that this has become so integrated into our lives this easily.

Once the cage was off we began making love. KH told me that she didn’t want to come again. She wanted to feel me come inside her. As time went on I could sense that she was getting excited again. When I asked her if she had changed her mind she said she yes, wanted to come again. It makes it so much more exciting for me if she is going to come with me. So we made love, paying attention to each other’s signals and were able to cum with each other. It was a wonderful and loving romantic time.

I felt bad that she had to work that day, but I do think that I was able though my words and actions to make her day better and express to her how much I love her. She does so much to show me the same and now chastity is a new way for us to express our love.
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January 22, 2020 - Wednesday - New Cage

Chastity is starting to blend into the normal part of life. Which is wonderful. Tuesday the 21st was a day without much talk of the cage. Tuesday after work I was sitting in the kitchen writing about Monday when my KH asked me if I wanted to put the cage back on. I said yes and spent the next day in the cage. That made 3 out of four days wearing it.

While at work on Wednesday I got an email that the cherry keeper should be at the house that afternoon. We opened the box and examined the cage together. We both wanted to try it out so off came the metal cage, and with some effort on went the new cage. We took a picture of the new cage and posted it. I was only able to wear it for an hour before it became too uncomfortable and we removed it. I based my order of the cherry keeper on the dimensions of the cage I was wearing. However even though the ring has the same width, it is smaller. I may have to get a bigger ring.

After removing the cage, we didn’t make love, which is a first. We spent a quiet evening together until bed. It feels like this is becoming a part of our normal life. It may not always lead immediately to sex, but it brings us closer physically and emotionally. You have to be pretty close to put a cage on someone. And that in itself is an intimate and loving act.
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January 23, 2020 - Thursday - Deleted Photos

After work we went to the bedroom to spend some time together. We undressed and made out for a while. Then I kissed my way down her body and gave her her first orgasm. I love the time after she first cums when I lick and suck on her legs and lips. This gives her time to calm down a bit and then build back up her excitement. I work my way back to her center paying attention to her reactions. When I sense she is ready again I concentrate on her clit and give her her second orgasm.

After she recovered a bit my KH requested a massage. We have a heater for the oil, so when it was up to temp I got to give her an exciting erotic massage. I started using her toy on her while doing so to ramp up her arousal. She then requested that we take some pictures which is a newish activity for us. We got some close ups with the toy. Some with my cock and her toy in her, both in and out of the cage.

We went through the pictures we had taken and picked three that she wanted to post on Chastity Mansion. Unfortunately, the pictures were deleted by the site. There wasn’t any message explaining the deletion, so I assume that they may have been too explicit. Since then, I have looked through the site looking for directions or warnings about what isn’t allowed. If anyone knows what rules apply or where I can look to read them I would appreciate the help.

We finished our evening by making love. Every time we are intimate now it seems we are doing something new. I love that my KH is thinking of new ideas for us to try and that she is so into doing ‘this thing that we do’.
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January 25, 2020 - Saturday – Almost caged

When we got back to the house after our errands my KH asked to put the cage on. In our now customary caging position, I was standing next to my wife who was seated on the bed. My KH was applying the almond oil we use for the ring. I was leaning over, rubbing her back and kissing her neck, telling her how much I love her. With a lot of feeling in my voice I told her I wanted to lick her. She looked up into my eyes and said she needed that too. I asked her if she was going to finish putting on the cage and she said no, she wanted to be able to feel my cock. The cage never made it on 😊.

I undressed her and she lay down on the side of bed with her legs on the floor. I knelt between her legs and started kissing her mound. She lifted her legs and rested them on the dresser giving me a beautiful view and great access. With my head in the opposite direction from how we normally do cunnilingus there is a different angle for me to work my magic and it wasn’t long before my wife’s legs were shaking. Neither of us are young anymore so we move to a more comfortable position in the middle of the bed. With the buildup settled a bit, the first orgasm was not too quick. I caressed my wife and kissed her legs as she enjoyed the afterglow. After a minute it seemed that she was ready for a second round and I zeroed in on what brings her the most joy. The second orgasm is almost always much more powerful and this was no exception. It is wonderful to have her move beneath me as she climaxes. I get as much emotional satisfaction from her orgasms as I do my own. And this one left me as out of breath as it did her.

We both took a while to rebound, all the while I was kissing her legs and waiting for her to tell me that she was done and to ‘come up here and kiss me’. But she didn’t say it. I continued to rub and kiss her and took a chance to suck a lip into my mouth. She put her hand on my head and guided me back to her clit. It wasn’t until the past few years that my wife wanted two orgasms in a row from oral sex. We may have done three in a row before, but if so it was long enough ago that I don’t remember when. I tried to make it last but my beautiful wife was needful and she had one of the most powerful climaxes I can remember. There are times I joke with her that she is trying to throw me off the bed when she cums. This was one of those times. I don’t know if it is because of chastity or because of the closeness we have developed since it started, but the frequency of oral sex has increased a wonderful amount. This is a dream come true for me. It is so wonderful when the thing that gives you so much joy gives your lover so much ecstasy.

It took much longer for her to recover from this. We talked about how it made us feel and how much love we were experiencing with each other. We made gentle love for a while and then my KH finished me with her expert hand leaving me breathless again.

It’s kind of funny that we never put the cage on but it was responsible for one of the most exciting and satisfying love making sessions we have had.
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January 26, 2020 - Sunday – Fancy foot Work

Sunday afternoon we went to a local brewery that had live music. We had a great couple of hours, playing some card games and listening to the music. Back at home my KH asked to put the cage on. As she was putting it on she said that she almost asked before we went out. I asked her to always ask if she wants to. It is as exciting to me to know that she is thinking of chastity and wanting it as it is to actually wear the cage for her.

After dinner we tried something that we had talked about but not tried yet. A week before I had removed her toe nail polish for her while caged and found it extremely exciting. I had offered to really pamper her feet for her and we gave it a try. We got set up in the TV room so that my KH could watch the Grammy’s while getting the royal treatment. I was wearing just my cage and bathrobe and she was only wearing her bathrobe. The way she sat on the couch I could only see her cleavage and couldn’t tell if she had panties on.

She has a heated electric foot spa that I set up on a towel in front of the couch. She soaked her feet for around twenty minutes while we watched and talked about the show. When she was done I dried her feet and emptied the spa. I used a pumice stone for the first time ever. I had not used one on myself so I was nervous using it on her. But she enjoyed it and it did seem to soften the rough spots nicely. I really enjoyed looking at her, sitting in her robe, getting glimpses of her breasts. I really like trying to physically show her how much I love her emotionally. When her feet were as smooth as I dared for a first time I asked if I could do anything else for her.

She said she would like if I put some moisturizer on her feet. When I returned from the bathroom with the lotion my KH had opened her bathrobe to show me her beautiful naked body. I hugged her and kissed her stomach and told her how sexy she looked. It was understood that we wouldn’t be making love that night so this was an unexpected bonus.

I spent a good deal of time on lotioning her feet. My KH has been very ticklish so it is rare for me to be able to do so. From her feet I worked my way up her legs where my KH stopped me with a smile. We spent the rest of the evening cuddling and talking about the show and each other. It was a wonderful time.

Later we talked over what we liked about it. We both liked it enough to want to do it again. We will see if weekly works out. I hope so, but life has a way of modifying our plans. I loved seeing and touching by wife in a way that wasn’t going to lead to sex but could show her how much she means to me. My wife loved the experience and found it very sexy to see me sitting, working on her feet, wearing the cage for her. That information is so wonderful to me. We both are getting so much out of this new lifestyle and it feels like our love and commitment to each other’s happiness is growing.
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January 27, 2020 - Monday – Goddess arrives

After work my KH wasn’t feeling her best but she still wanted to be intimate with me. We undressed and went to bed. We spent a lot of time talking. Over the course of the last month we have really started to integrate chastity into our lives. I had been caged for 24 hours and we talked about how that made us feel. We both agree that it gives a real physical connection between us even when we are apart. She thinks about me more when she has the key to my cage that she is the only one able to remove. It gives me a real deep psychological connection that keeps my love for her always bubbling near the surface. We exchange texts more often during the day now which also enhances our feelings.

After browsing our two favorite chastity websites my KH decided that she was ready to get her own accounts. For the past month she has been logged in using my account, reading and learning. She is getting a much better sense for how others use chastity in their lives and we talk about what we might like to try ourselves and what we would never try. We sat in bed and created her accounts. I had created my accounts before so I drove the keyboard.

The first decision to be made was what name would KH like to use. We talked a bit and she wanted one that would link her account name to mine; Homebody. I was pleasantly surprised when she chose the name GoddessofHomebody. I have often called her my sex goddess, especially after she has had a bed shaking, loud orgasm. It is nice to see her use the idea in her user name. It took a little while to set up the accounts and start looking around. But it is not surprising how much more fun the task is when a beautiful naked lover is kissing you and touching your cage, keeping you hard the whole time. My KH created her first welcome posts and we decided to put the laptop aside.

KH still wasn’t feeling like receiving but she wanted to give to me. She removed my cage and gave me a loving blowjob and handjob until I had my climax. We cleaned up and had a quiet evening. I think that KH having her own accounts makes it feel like we are equally invested in this lifestyle and that is so moving to me. I feel so blessed.
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January 28-30 – Work week

January 28 - Tuesday
My love was really excited to have her own account. We reviewed them on Chastity Forums and Chastity Mansion. She wanted a picture for her gallery under her name. So we had fun picking out what she wanted us to wear and what pose would work. She put the cage on me and we ended up taking pictures very much like the first one posted under my name. She was happy with one and she posted her first picture. The rest of the evening was very quiet but I got to sleep next to my love caged.

January 29, 2020 - Wednesday
We spent some time figuring out the process to follow to become a verified female on CM. It normally would have made me frustrated because I wasn’t sure how to do what the instruction required. But my KH made it a lot of fun. I was still in my cage so it was exciting figuring it out with her. After that we search google images to find an avatar she liked and got that settled.

I would like to take a minute to thank Tom Allen and L-U-C-Y for the help both gave Goddess in setting up her accounts. Little frustrating things went wrong, and they both took time out of their days to provide help to anonymous strangers on the web. We truly appreciate the work that is done to give us a safe space to explore our developing lifestyle and read about how others are living.

After spending the time having fun on the laptop my KH was ready for some loving. She got her well-deserved oral orgasms before she took the cage off and we made love. The time we spend before making love really acts as foreplay and our love making is very satisfying.

January 30, 2020 - Friday

After work we had a great discussion about how we want to do chastity. There are so many different ways to use chastity as part of your life. We are really spending meaningful time talking about what is important to us. We are going to stay with what is working for us now and let it grow naturally. I am getting to spend so much more time telling and showing my KH how much she means to me. It really feels like our love life has gone to a different level. Suggestions from either are listened to and discussed. There is a real acceptance and comfort in it. We are spending large periods of time together undressed casually. Before nudity almost always had a purpose; getting changed, taking a shower, making love. Now we can spend two or three hours together in bed nude and it is amazing. I tell KH how absolutely sexy she is when she is totally relaxed and casually naked while we talk. And she knows I am telling her the truth.

We discuss things that I would love to do for her and it is now not taken as pressure to do something new. If it is something she doesn’t want she says so and we move on; no stress or worries. And that’s perfect. I have suggested some things that I think would have gotten a no last year that now get me a sexy smile and she says that sounds like fun to try. God I love her.

Spending a couple of hours kissing and talking about sex usually leads to sex, and that is exactly what happened. The love making was unhurried and passionate. She relaxed on the bed as I gave her two oral orgasms. As we were making love she had this amazing smile that she sometimes has during sex. It is this look of supreme happiness and I love it. As we moved faster and faster the smile was replaced with a very lustful look that stayed right through her last orgasm. We spent time in the afterglow telling each other how much we loved each other. The perfect ending to the week.
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02/01/2020 - Saturday - Short Take

Last night, Friday, my wife and I had some time after dinner to ourselves so we went up to the bedroom. We talked a lot about our love lives, what we are doing, and what we like. This is truly the biggest and best change that chastity has brought about in our lives in my opinion. We are having deep meaningful conversations about sex and what we enjoy. We talk about our reactions to what we are doing. She asked me if I missed having the cage on because it had been a few days. After some thought I said yes. I missed feeling connected to her. She said that she missed having it on me and that she finds the sight of it on me very sexy.

The other night I said something casually to my KH that I didn’t think about first. She came to me a short while later and told me that I hurt her feelings and explained how what I said had made her feel. I had not considered that what I said would be perceived that way to her. I apologized, because I never try to hurt her, and I truly didn’t mean my words to have the meaning she heard. Then I thanked her for telling me so quickly. We talked it out and I feel I understand her better. This level of communication is new. A few months ago, I think she would have been less likely to tell me so quickly, if at all. It feels like our marriage is firing on all cylinders now.

This morning, Saturday, we went our separate ways for our errands. I must admit that I wished she had caged me. I know my KH has told me to tell her when I do; but I think it is important at this stage to let my wonderful wife set the pace. I need to hear her say she wants the cage on more than I need the actual cage. It is her participation that gives meaning to this.

I was done and home first, sitting in the kitchen trying to write up a post, and not getting it done when my KH came home. We spoke for a short time when she asked to put on the cage. I felt a surge of happiness. I was so glad I waited and didn’t say it first. I know if I had asked she would have said yes. But it feels so much better to me for it to be her idea.

We went up to the bedroom to put on the cage. She was clothed, sitting on the side of the bed. I was bare from the waist down standing in front of her. She used some almond oil where the ring sits while I rubbed her back and kissed her neck and hair. She wrestled the cage on me. I find it very exciting, so it is often a struggle to put it on. Then I knelt in front of her as she sat on the bed, we kissed passionately and I thanked her. I used the signal we have to ask if I could go down on her, expecting to be told ‘no thank you’. But I saw her pause for a moment, then smile and say, ‘just once’. Quickly our state of dress was reversed, now I was fully clothed while my beautiful wife was bare from the waist down. She got comfortable on the bed and over the course of 15 minutes gave her a very nice orgasm. It is such a thrill to me to be able to give my wife an orgasm while caged and clothed. It gives me an opportunity to show her how much I cherish her and how wonderful I want to make her feel always. I feel that way very powerfully after she cums, when I am kissing her lips and thighs as she comes back down.

While she was recovering we kissed and chatted. I told her that I didn’t think she would be in the mood for oral as we had a wonderful time last night. She told me that she wasn’t in the mood at first, but putting on the cage was exciting to her. She decided to enjoy the moment and allow herself to get in the mood. I love that we can have encounters where she is the focus of all the love.

She knows I have been having trouble keeping up with the posts, so she suggested that I go into the kitchen now and write down what we just did. I hope she realizes how helpful that was. An hour ago, I was sitting in this same spot trying to write and nothing got done. Now though, I know why I am writing. I am writing for an audience of one. The one who holds my heart and key. The one I have loved forever and will love for the rest of my life. And I hope she gets a thrill reading about how exciting she has made my life.
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