[Want2B_Locked] - A Very British Journey

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Hello all,

In December I decided I needed to push my own limits.

I did a full 12 hours self locked. Then did a full15 hours self locked. then only managed a 9 hours due to an issue with a type of dry skin and bruising.

Nothing over Christmas.

A few nights ago before going to be the LS (wife) was asleep and I put it on on impulse. I slept ok with it (maybe ED was a help here) but I went a full 26 hours self locked and was mighty proud of myself.


I need to sit down with LS and try to get her to talk. She's still "uncomfortable" with the idea. She's 52 and still awkward talking sex with me her husband of 30 years.

Any ideas on persuasion, well more how to allay her fears or questions ?
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What a turbulent year we have all Had.

In my own relationship things have been on and iff. No advancement in the chastity department. I still self lock sometimes.

Back in mid November we had a major row. During a resulting conversation she threw at me the fact due to the ED quote "don't you find me attractive, it's not like stay hard without those pills". Then I had thrown at me "... wearing that thing". And you still up it I hear you putting it on or taking it off at night."

To the staying hard I got really angry but didn't make a vile comment back. I did tell her tht ws hurtful.
To the wering that thing ... I said sometimes.
To the last bit I said no it's off by that time if I occasionally do wear it.

The last we used it she actually appeared to enjoy the experience.

God only knows where to go now.

Ideas please people....
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It's been about 7 months since I was here.

A few changes. The metal cade I had was sometimes causing me pinching and a little discomfort.

I've still been self-locking on and off and despite the above issues enjoying it.

The wife LadyS has had a few health issues so not tried to ask for her being my KH but now hopefully she is on the mend I may ask again. (Advice on this on how to ask please)

On one occasion I took the metal cage my pool little thing was sore and bruised. I also found as it was enclosed it was somewhat unhygienic at times. The other issues was it was a little too large on me and I had a lot of "growing" room.

I searched about a bit and found one that was open with bars. 4cm length that gave no "groowing room. Didn't pinch.

I must admit in my excitement I did trap a little skin so the new cage only had about 8 hours wearing time the first time but when wearing it it is a LOT more comfortable.

I'll give it a few days on and off wearing to see how I go.
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