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[chaste_cock] Gay chastity as it is lived

Post by chaste_cock » Fri Mar 29, 2019 12:36 am

[Day one of my blog]


A bit of background information leading up to me being locked in the Looker 01 Titanium:
We are a married gay couple. We live a "normal" life in every aspect except... my cock is locked away. We argue, we fight, he holds me accountable, and I hold him accountable. We do everything like every other couple we know. Except I am not allowed to cum during sex. Well actually I am not allowed to cum unless my Dom allows it.

About three years ago we found out that me being in chastity brought a whole new dimension to our relationship. Bottom line it made our sex soooo much better. If left up to my own devices, I would jerk off every day, which then leaves me no desire to have sex with my husband. But with me in chastity, I am in a constant state of horniness and I love to have him penetrate me either anally or orally. Love is not the right word. I CRAVE him. I am so totally into pleasing him. I am ready to have sex anytime he wants it. We have actually had sex of some sort 4 times in one day.

Our roles are quite different when it comes to sex. He becomes the Dom and I become the sub. He has all the power to make all decisions when it comes to sex - when, how, how often, and if I cum or not. And since he knows that when I am allowed to cum, my attitude about sex changes abruptly, and I have no desire to have sex, he does not allow me to cum all that often.

I bought a Holy Trainer three years ago. We learned a lot about chastity and about me being in chastity with the Holy Trainer. Now fast forward to current time. My Dom husband is a very visual person. He loves the visual aspect of seeing me when he is fucking me. He loves seeing my cock respond to his movements, and loves to see his cock slide in and out of my ass. With the Holy Trainer he was not able to see my cock in a way that visually pleased him but he loved how the HT made me horny when I was locked in it. So after three years we were ready to move to a different level of me being in chastity. We were ready for a metal chastity device.

He was dead set on it being an open design for a couple of reasons. He wanted it open so hygienically I could stay clean without having to take the device off, and he wanted to be able to see and feel my cock while locked up through the bars. I wanted metal because they are more secure. I also wanted a urethra insert. Just the feeling of my cock being penetrated 24/7 was a very interesting thought. But since I have a metal allergy to nickle, I needed to find a device made in titanium, since the metal was going to be in constant contact with some of the most sensitive internal tissue in the body.

With all these specific wants and needs, there was pretty much only one chastity device that kept coming up in our searches - the Looker 01 Titanium. We ordered it and received it around the first of the year. Due to our traveling scheduling I didn't put it on for a while. The first time was March 1st. It did take some getting used to. I wore it for about 6 hours the first day and increased the hours each day until after the 5th day I wore it for a straight 24 hours. All went well. Then I lost one a part to the device - the urethra tube locking nut. I was a bit afraid to continue to wear it until I could replace that part. So for about a week I was out of chastity. And of course or sex life that week also suffered. I just can't help jerking off. The male climax is a powerful instinct, and quite addicting. Ordering the locking nut that matched my device was sort of not realistic. The device is hand made in Germany and it just didn't make sense to order a little piece of hardware from half way around the world when I could go to Homo Depot and find something that worked. I was able to find a stainless steel locking nut in a metric size. It worked. So now that the device was again fully restored, I put it back on. The picture in the Member's Lounge at viewtopic.php?f=10&t=63215 is a copy of the text I sent to my Dom husband showing him I was once again securely locked back up and secure. His joy was immediate.

So on March 22nd the Looker 01 went on and has not been off since. There has been not one issue at all with wearing it continuously for the last week. The most comfortable device I have ever worn.

We have established rules that I must observe. Most are when we are in the Dom/sub roles, but a couple I must follow at all times. The rules are as follows:

1) I must be nude in the house at all times when appropriate. (must be follow at all times)
2) Any time my Dom husband comes up to me and places his fingers on my nipples, I must raise my arms over and behind my head and allow him full access to "His" nipples. (must follow at all times)
3) If he is traveling out of town, I am allowed and encouraged to use a dildo to perform deep throat oral exercises to keep my gag reflex to a minimum.
4) If he is traveling out of town, I am allowed and encouraged to use a dildo to fuck my ass and tease my prostate. Milking my prostate is allowable.
5) If cum oozes out, it must be reported to Dom immediately via text.
6) I must swallow any precum or cum if any is expressed during milking or during sex.
7) I must keep my ass clean and ready for sex at any time.
8) After sex, I am encouraged to take Dom's cock from ass to mouth to clean any cum from his cock.
9) If he should so choose to cum in my mouth, I must keep his cum on my tongue until he is finished cumming completely, then swallow only when directed by Dom
10) If Dom should choose to cum on my face, I am not allowed to clean His cum off until directed to do so by Dom.

Week one wearing the Looker 01 is history. Week two begins.
So here starts the updates chronicling my life being chaste and the sexual adventures to cum.

NOTICE - pictures related to the story will be posted in the Member's Lounge under the same name as the blog, per the rules of the board. viewtopic.php?f=10&t=63215
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Re: [chaste_cock] Gay chastity as it is lived

Post by Tom Allen » Fri Mar 29, 2019 5:24 am

I guess it wasn't clear: The Journey is also a protected forum; that is, only registered members can see it. You can post pics related to your blog here.

If you are planning to post a lot of them, we would appreciate if you used an image hosting service, as our server space is limited.
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Post by sherulestherooster » Fri Mar 29, 2019 11:54 am

Seems pretty intense.

How often does he let you orgasm, and how do you get release? What's your "orgasm ratio"?

As I've posted in another thread, I'm curious about prostate stimulation so would appreciate any advice you have on that.

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Re: [chaste_cock] Gay chastity as it is lived

Post by chaste_cock » Fri Mar 29, 2019 2:55 pm

sherulestherooster wrote:
Fri Mar 29, 2019 11:54 am
Seems pretty intense.

How often does he let you orgasm
@sherulestherooster I am not really sure how often he will allow me to cum now that I am in the Looker. Before, when I was in the Holy Trainer, sometimes he would jerk me off after I got out of the shower and had taken the HT off and cleaned my cock after having been locked for upwards of two weeks. At least he would play with my cock. I still could not touch it. But now that I am in the Looker and I don't have to take it off to clean my cock, I honestly don't know how long before I will cum. And he can also touch my cock through the bars of the cage so he doesn't have to unlock me to feel my cock either. We are flying out of town the middle of May, so I am betting that I would be unlocked before then.
sherulestherooster wrote:
Fri Mar 29, 2019 11:54 am
I'm curious about prostate stimulation so would appreciate any advice you have on that
Every man is different when it comes to the prostate. Some can cum really quick with prostate massage and others not so easy. I am of the latter group. it feels awesome when my prostate is being hit but I as of yet have not been able to express much cum out at all. I really am waiting for the time when I am able to cum strictly by my Dom fucking me with his cock stimulating my prostate but so far it is elusive. There is one position that he will fuck me sometimes that has his cock really putting pressure and hitting my prostate and the sensitivity is almost too much for me to handle. I have to have him stop. I believe that if I can ever withstand him fucking me in that position and I can get past the sensitivity, I believe I would cum.

The position he has me in when that happens is I am on my stomach and he lies on top of me on his stomach with his head at my feet. He enters me basically upside down if you can picture it. But that position aligns his cock just perfectly to where my prostate gets pounded relentlessly without rest. I think I will have to give him a safe word next time we fuck in that position, so if I tell him to stop, he will pay no attention to it and just keep up the pounding. At least until I am forced to use the safe word.

When he is gone he highly promotes me playing with and fucking my ass with dildos. As mentioned, I have milked some cum out that way but not anywhere near enough to have emptied my prostate. And from what I have read, even if your prostate is emptied by milking, your body does not see that as a climactic release so it still things you need to cum and you remain horny after milking. Where if you cum with a climax it triggers your body to know that and you are no longer horny.

Hope this helps.
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Post by sherulestherooster » Fri Mar 29, 2019 3:31 pm

Wow, he is very dominant. So intercourse and oral sex is for him exclusively? Only handjobs for you? How often does he orgasm? Where does he keep the key physically?

You may consider him ruining your orgasm, as it's similar to what you describe at the end,where the semen is released but no signal to your body that you're sexually satiated. We played with that for a bit, it was a mindfuck for me not knowing if she was going to simply stop play and tell me it was time for bed (I'm not locked often, and she liked the feeling of my hard cock against her butt as she feel asleep); give me a relatively rare orgasm, or ruin it. What's also interesting about ruined orgasms is that (at least for me) you can maintain your erection. Might be something to try. He just has to see your body movements and no when to stop the stimulation.
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Re: [chaste_cock] Gay chastity as it is lived

Post by chaste_cock » Fri Mar 29, 2019 4:24 pm

sherulestherooster wrote:
Fri Mar 29, 2019 3:31 pm
Wow, he is very dominant. So intercourse and oral sex is for him exclusively? Only handjobs for you? How often does he orgasm?
sherulestherooster wrote:
Fri Mar 29, 2019 3:31 pm
Where does he keep the key physically?

I know what you mean when you ask if sex is for him exclusively. Yes he is the only one that gets to cum, but I get immensely more out of sex now that I am locked up then I did when I wasn't locked. Part of it is the fact that my body is pleasing him. The other is that I want him to fuck me. When he fucks me he is total Dom. He is using my body to please him. As I said he is very visual. And so I try to do things that I know will help him in that aspect. If I am on my knees and he is fucking me, I will reach back and pull my ass cheeks apart so he can get a good look at his cock sliding in and out of my ass. For him that is a huge turn on. When I am giving him oral sex, I make sure that I am looking at him the whole time. We have eye contact at all times. That is a huge turn on for him. He loves to play with my nipples. My nipples are wired to my prostate. The minute he goes for my nipples, I pull my hands up over my head to give him full access. He can get rather rough with them too. He has learned that by pinching just the tip of them, the pain is extreme but is a sexual turn on for me, but he loves to see my body react to the pinching, tweaking, and pulling. My cock is streaming to get out of the cage. It is bulging out between the bars of the cage and that is when he will start rubbing my cage. His rubbing is no where sufficient to elicit a climax out of me and he knows that. But it is enough to keep me teetering on the edge, with no hope of cumming.
Where does he keep the key physically?
He hides the key in the house. I have no idea where. If there is ever an emergency I can call him but he might not be available for up to 4 hours.
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Re: [chaste_cock] Gay chastity as it is lived

Post by chaste_cock » Sat Mar 30, 2019 10:15 pm

I am nine days now wearing the Looker 01 T 24/7. The Looker 01 T has not come off once. My Dom left on an out of town trip early yesterday morning but made sure to get a good fuck session out of my ass the night before. I had been like a dog in heat all day long. We both were doing errands around town but I would call him and say that my ass needs his attention or text him that my ass needs to be used. God I was horny. After he had packed for his trip that evening, he looked at me laying in bed. I was wondering if he was going to leave me wanting or if he was going to take my ass.

He finally got into bed and spooned behind me. He put both of his arms around me and told me that he wanted my ass but he also wanted me to remember this for a couple of days after he left. I didn't quite know what he was talking about. I could feel his cock growing hard and begin to part my ass cheeks. He told me to get the lube and get both of us ready for action. I quickly did as I was told. After my ass crack was lubed and his cock was lubed, he started to take what was his. At the same time he began to play with my nipples. He knows that always gets me going. My arms instinctively went above my head and my hands clasped behind my head. Now my nipples and ass were both all his.

He really started pinching and twisting my nipples hard. I can take some pretty hard pinches and really get turned on by nipple play, but this treatment was harder than he normally would do. All the time he is fucking my ass and my ass is meeting him thrust for thrust. Then all of a sudden he pinches the end of each nipple and held the pinch for what felt like was a long time, but in reality was probably only like 30 seconds. The pain shot through each and I grabbed a quick breath through gritted teeth. The pain quickly became pleasure. He would release my nipple but then repeat that same really hard pinch and hold again and again. After about 3 hard pinches and hold each pinch, he started twisting each nipple as far as he could turn it and then keep his fingers moving, creating a lot of friction on the nipples. Then he would reverse the twist and go the other way. Mind you he was doing this and never loosing his fucking rhythm. As a matter of fact the more I squirmed under his harsh attacks on my nipples, the more of a pounding my ass got. God I was in heaven. My cock seemed to be bursting out of all the spaces between the bars of the Looker.

He never let up on the nipple play. He only stopped after he had shot his load in my ass. As we settled into the after sex glow, he whispered in my ears, "I wanted you to remember this while I am gone. Your nipples should be very raw and sensitive to anything that touches them for the next day or two. Every time you feel something touch them, I want you remember our time tonight.

He called me this afternoon and he asked - "how are those nipples?" I said - "Sir, they have made me think of you all day long.". He said, "Good. As they should".
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Re: [chaste_cock] Gay chastity as it is lived

Post by Devoted2Her » Sun Mar 31, 2019 6:31 am

@chaste_cock ... I am hetero and never have really watched or read gay porn ... but that was very well written and very erotic. I think what clicked in my mind was that you were being thoroughly dominated, almost used. Thanks for sharing.
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Re: [chaste_cock] Gay chastity as it is lived

Post by chaste_cock » Wed Apr 03, 2019 7:56 am

Day 13 of 24/7 chastity

My Dom husband got home last night from being gone for 5 days. I had gotten sick while he was gone so I really was in no mood for being or, for that matter, feeling sexy. He totally ignored me last night but then this morning he says - "I'm horny". I said that I was not really feeling good with my cold and I doubt that he could get my body to respond to any of his actions. He said - "we'll see about that".

He starts playing with my left nipple. Nothing and I mean nothing was happening. Then he reached his other hand around and began playing with my right nipple at the same time. Damn him. He proved me wrong. He knows my body soy well. I started squirming in about 20 seconds. He had me straining in my cage in less than a minute. So here I am not feeling good but my body betrays me. Fuck.

He continues the onslaught of my nipples. It feels so good. I don't' know what it is about my nipples. You can play with one and it's nice, but you play with both and fireworks explode. This nipple play even had me moving my hand down to my caged cock to rub the skin that was poking out from the side of the cage. Anything for release but the cage doesn't provide enough exposed skin to achieve anything of than making me frustrated even more. It feels good to jerk my cock through the cage but IT will never happen. It just basically keeps me edging myself.

Then he starts fucking my ass. He does that for about 10 minutes. He doesn't cum. He has another idea in mind. After 10 minutes he pulls out and tells me to scoot down in the bed. He straddles my face while facing my feet. So now his balls are in my face and he has a clear view of my whole body from shoulders down. He starts on my nipples again and my cock does the caged dance. It jerks with every pinch of my nipples and he is loving it. He then starts jerking off while I give his balls all my attention with my tongue. He pulls back and tells me to open my mouth and not swallow until he tells me to. I know the rules so I would have done exactly that anyway, but I nod my head that I understand. He blasts his load in my mouth. After his last drop he says - "swallow". I take his cock and start giving it attention with my mouth and tongue making sure I get all the cum that might be left in his cock. Once satisfied that I got it all I swallow. Then I give him a couple or three deep throat actions with his cock going all the way down and my nose digging into his pubes. His cock head is still sensitive and he takes in a deep breaths but enjoys it. Then in a smart ass remarks says - "I thought you were not going to get all turned on because you are sick". He gives my nipples one last pinch and gets up and walks off with this little smirk on his face and he leaves me in the bed still all hot and bothered and caged.
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Re: [chaste_cock] Gay chastity as it is lived

Post by sherulestherooster » Wed Apr 03, 2019 12:44 pm

Devoted2Her wrote:
Sun Mar 31, 2019 6:31 am
@chaste_cock ... I am hetero and never have really watched or read gay porn ... but that was very well written and very erotic. I think what clicked in my mind was that you were being thoroughly dominated, almost used. Thanks for sharing.
I'm in the same boat - gay erotica and porn doesn't do a lot for me ("forced bi" is another story), but I agree that his writing is very erotic. Strikes me as borderline abusive, but since they've been doing this for three years I would imagine that they have a good idea as to limits and they both simply enjoy what they're doing. Good for them.

I enjoy the recount of events and will keep reading as long as he keeps posting. Would be interesting to get the keyholder's take on things, down the road. Maybe a guest post discussing what he gets out of dominating his partner so much.

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