[cshorts] My (our) journey

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Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey

Post by cshorts » Wed Sep 25, 2019 2:25 am

Been experimenting with in-cage ruins recently, during my several trips. Felt a bit guilty the first couple of times and told SL. She didn't seem to mind and didn't instruct me to stop, so have done it a few more times.

One thing puzzles me ... I'm sure these are what folks describe as ruins -- I stop touching myself and nothing happens for several seconds, as my cock pulses. Then, the sperm flows or dribbles out -- not spurting. And no sensation of orgasm release (the though pulsing in my cock is a powerful good feeling, like a buildup to orgasm). Might be 5-10 seconds after I stop touching before I spill. Yet, though it has all of those earmarks of a ruin, there is a definite reduction in desire immediately after. Unlike just before, I lose interest in continuing to read the erotica and in jerking my cock through the cage. After I wipe myself dry, my cock has deflated, and I feel done. Yet the usual account is that guys are ready to go again right away, and don't lose their desire.

In another way, though, I seem to be experiencing a typical ruin: I don't experience major post-orgasmic drop lasting several days. Indeed, when I wake up in the morning I seem to be fully in my heightened state of constant horniness, and fully attentive to my SL when I return home. So that's good -- I'm getting some alone, unsupervised pleasure, but it doesn't seem to be taking anything away from my love.
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Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey

Post by cshorts » Tue Oct 01, 2019 12:36 am

Ahem. Not quite what I expected ... but the unexpected keeps life interesting.

My SL and I have essentially been apart for 10 days. 8 days ago I was home for one night between trips, with fun for her, and that was fun for me, but no unlocking. She got back from her trip last night, but was tired and a bit cranky, so we just cuddled and fell asleep.

This morning as we crossed paths at the gym she whispered in my ear that if I needed motivation to get thru the day, there would be some waiting for me at home tonight. Some *what*? That made me swell in my cage and the possibilities attracted my attention frequently thru the day. She had hinted that she might observe Locktober this year. And it's been 28 days since she last let me orgasm. Was she going to give me a treat tonight, the last of September.

I got home from a business dinner, removed my clothes at the door (we've been CFnm at home for the past 4 or 5 weeks), and joined her on the couch. After a bit of small talk I asked if she wanted a foot rub: "yes, after I finish this show I'm watching."

20 minutes later she came to the bedroom and stripped to her sexy, black lace bra and panties. She sat up against her pillows and I took my position at her feet and gave her the standard hour long deluxe foot rub. Then lay down next to her, whereupon she started soul kissing me. Took her bra off and lay back so I could worship her lovely, large breasts. After more cuddling, kissing, and breast attention she let me strip off her panties and slide down to place my face between her legs. As usual, she rapidly became aroused and reached her first orgasm (rarely takes longer than 30 seconds, even if I'm starting slow and avoiding direct clitoral attention -- she really is remarkably responsive). She started getting more worked up, and fairly rapidly had another three orgasms on steadily increasing intensity.

And then she pushed my head down, signaling I should stop, and thanked me. Lifted her leg over me to close them together. I pulled out our Vixskin dildo and harness and offered to penetrate her with something larger than my tongue -- she paused to consider it then said " it tonight, but I'll keep the offer in mind". And curled up to go to sleep.

I love providing her pleasure, and thoroughly enjoyed every moment. And got very very hard behind the cage, with my poor confined cock trying to swell but just able to bulge through the bars a bit.

Not a single word about possibly unlocking me -- very little attention to me at all except for the bit of hand teasing at the start. Now I'm a bit puzzled ... and apprehensive. Is she going to observe Locktober? Today is day 28, I think our record so far. Is that going to more than double? I've been outrageously horny the past week while we've been separated. I hope at least she'll engage in more teasing than she did tonight -- I don't need attention every time we fool around, but lock and forget will leave me feeling uncared for, I expect.

As an added "bonus" tonight, I took a viagra just in case, and now have to get thru the night wound up, and surely having multiple super challenging nighttime attempted erections. The effects of viagra last 6-u hours for me and if I take one before bed and *don't* come it's a long night! My ordinary nocturnal attempted erections when I'm caged are stimulating and sometimes wake me. When on viagra they are so intense as to be quite uncomfortably painful.
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Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey

Post by cshorts » Sat Oct 05, 2019 11:48 am

(2 Oct 2019)

Big step into new territory.

I came home earlier than usual for work, and immediately, after welcome home kiss, suggested we have some playtime before I made dinner. SL lit up and without hesitation headed to the bedroom.

No sign she had any thought of unlocking me, but enthusiastically letting me have my way with her :) After some squealing and several Os of increasing intensity from my tongue and her wand, I put on the harness - she indicated it was fine. (We’ve been together long enough that asking consent is usually unnecessary — signaling “no” is sufficient for an immediate stop, or a quick nonverbal query, like a raised eyebrow — but for the first time of anything, I’ll ask explicitly if it’s okay: a strong, positive “yes” was the answer this time.) We slipped the wedge pillow under her hips so that I could penetrate at a more comfortable, controllable angle for this new adventure. And adventure it was: almost immediately she was moaning and squirming in pleasure. All of the indications were that she was having a great time as I steadily but somewhat cautiously stroked her with her new toy. (Cautiously because it’s about an inch longer than I am, and I know she never likes having her cervix banged — I’m long enough to do that if I’m not careful.) All indicators except… I couldn’t feel her! It was strange to not feel her pelvic floor muscles grabbing me and throbbing. My cage was being pressed a bit, so I was experiencing some pleasurable feelings, but I wasn’t directly experiencing *her*. Strange.

She had 2 or 3 more Os. After the biggest, really explosive cum she laughed and gave me a double thumbs up. Later she explained that when she saw her girlfriends last weekend, she told them the story of how we were being so noisy a couple of weeks ago that a next door neighbor called over the fence to ask if everything was okay. Her friends told her if she wanted to be more quiet she could let me know I was doing good with a double thumbs up 🙂

We talked a bit about the experience after. I asked if it made her miss my cock less — she said it actually made her miss it more. But she also said that she very much enjoyed the vixskin, and that it had been a great ride. I think this is going to become a regular part of our repertoire.
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Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey

Post by cshorts » Sun Oct 06, 2019 2:36 pm

Apparently we aren't having a strict Locktober. After Breakfast in bed and a foot rub for her, SL brought in the key and let me out. Later, after a fair bit of teasing, she climbed on and started riding me to another O for me. As she started grinding on me again, I asked if I might put on a condom (to help me maintain control) -- she said yes, but that she wanted me to come this morning. Some time later, after more fucking, some oral, more fucking, come I did, indeed -- extraordinarily intense.

I was hoping to see what two full months denied might be like, but I serve my sweetie's wishes, with pleasure (lots of pleasure today!)
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Post by Chastityat60 » Mon Oct 07, 2019 12:03 pm

I made a comment to the wife last night.. we had a 4 hour getaway.. I said it was wiered to pee standing up. She gave me a look like ? I said I haven't peed standing for a month. I said you probably still think this chastity thing is silly.. her immediate response was a no not silly at all. Then it was on to our getaway activities. Happy times O s for both. 30 days IS ALONG TIME.lol
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Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey

Post by cshorts » Sun Oct 13, 2019 2:13 am

Another bit of surprise. We arrived in Berlin yesterday and settled in for a jet lag nap. When we awoke, SL wanted to play. She "forgot" to bring the key on the trip...ah well :) she teased me a fair bit thru the cage with her hand, tho, and some nipple play, before letting me settle into worship. Laying there after she was satiated and she pushed my face away, spanking somehow came up, and rather than just making note of it, she told me to get my belt, and gave me (for her) a pretty good whupping. I don't think she's ever taken a belt to me before, and uses her crop only about once a year and her hand never, so this really came out of the blue. I thanked her and during a less worked up time plan to suggestions her that even if she doesn't directly get off on sadism, perhaps she can enjoy it because *I* enjoy it and she's making me feel good - like enjoying the giving of a gift.
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Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey

Post by WifeIsVanilla » Mon Oct 14, 2019 2:00 pm

Did you go through security wearing your Contender?
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Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey

Post by cshorts » Mon Oct 14, 2019 6:02 pm

WifeIsVanilla wrote:
Mon Oct 14, 2019 2:00 pm
Did you go through security wearing your Contender?
Yes, been doing that for months. Probably about 15 times by now (I travel a fair bit). Only set off alarm once and when they sent me back thru it didn't the second time so I've never had to explain or been further examined.
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Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey

Post by cshorts » Tue Oct 15, 2019 5:01 pm

I'm riding high, but also feel like I'm on the verge of crashing.

SL is being very sexy and playful and receptive. We've had sex all four days in Berlin, fulfilling my semi-serious suggestion that when she's on vacation (I'm here on work) she should get at least an orgasm a day. Today was even twice. She roughed me up the first day, she teased me hard the second day, and she teased me lovingly again today. She let me fuck her wearing the strap-on. She told me what she wanted without hesitation. We've been cuddly and lovey.

But I'm also wondering why I put myself in chastity. And I wonder if I can continue to thrive on so much sex for her and relatively little for me. Yes, she treated me wonderfully, three of four days in a row! No complaints. But.... it's almost always pretty brief. Of course, while caged I'm endlessly horny and it's never enough...but still. She doesn't seem that generous in her attention. I spend hours trying to find better ways to please her, ting new things, getting to know her responses better. Her effort seems kind but limited. She knows things I like and want more of, but only rarely brings herself to give. I know she loves me powerfully, but she seems to have difficulty expressing that love through giving physically what I crave, and don't mean orgasms, at least not usually. More attention. More pushing my boundaries. More sensation. It feels so selfish of me even to think it, but why can't she be more generous?

Very mixed feelings. Very frustrated.
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Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey

Post by cshorts » Sun Oct 20, 2019 3:55 pm

Full routine: I rose early to shower and shave, then prepare breakfast in bed. Following the pastries and lattes (went for the unhealthy treat breakfast today) I provided a longer-than usual (over an hour) ftotrub. SL then tortured my nipples until she paused to say I was making too much noise (a couple of months ago a neighbor called over to our house to make sure everything was okay when SL was yelling loudly — she’s become a bit shy since), so I bit down on her pillow while she continued, adding some ball squeezing into the mix.

Then "Get out the nipple clamps, and put on your strap-on."

After putting the clamps on me and tugging them a few times, she instructed me to enter, and had me bring her to several powerful Os from the combined use of the vixskin (me) and the wand (her). After the first set, she collapsed back, exhausted, and we cuddled for a while, then she started in on tugging at the nipple clamps again. This got me so worked up that I started thrusting again, which was doing a bit for me — the pouch on the harness was rubbing a bit against my cock, through the cage — only enough to arouse me but not to bring me close to any satisfaction. As I got moving she turned on the wand again for round two, and we found the perfect rhythm for her — I thought she might pass out. After that last, explosive orgasm, she pushed me off and we lay cuddling, smiling and laughing for a while. SL reported that the vixskin is a pretty remarkable toy ... she's starting to find that she doesn't miss using the real thing.
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