[cshorts] My (our) journey

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Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey

Post by cshorts » Sun Oct 20, 2019 4:00 pm

Note: There's been some recent discussion in Chastity Mansion about how many fake / porn fantasy postings there seem to be. FWIW, everything I write here in my journey blog is true. Probably that's not a surprise -- we don't do anything that is outrageous or fantastical compared to many of you. But it might seems like all we do is have sex! Not at all (though frequency has increased since I entered chastity (while frequency of my orgasms has way decreased!). Most of our life is regular day-to-day routine: work, cooking, laundry, managing the house renovation project, visiting relatives.... When I started chastity, in an effort to improve some balance in our sexual relationship and open up some kink possibilities that weren't finding expression, I decided to keep a journal of our sexual journey and experiences with, so that's why this is only covers our sexual encounters (in the early days when chastity was newer, I wrote more about our discussions -- and difficulties -- around my being in chastity, but we don't talk about it a lot anymore -- it's just what we do).
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Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey

Post by cshorts » Fri Nov 01, 2019 9:37 am

SL seems to be exploring the idea of longer denial periods. She noted a couple of days ago that Friday (today) would be November, making it clear that she was marking the end of (our slightly incomplete) Locktober. I raised an eyebrow and said, just with intonation, "you mean NOvember?" She immediately caught on and said "oh, is that what you call it? I'll take that request under advisement."

Then yesterday when I joked that maybe she should punish me for some misbehavior, she said "you're right, NOvember it is." Quite possibly joking herself, but at least the idea of longer denial seems to be on her mind as a possibility. And with her finding that she very much enjoys my strapping on and using her vixskin, so that she isn't denied much - any? -- of the PIV pleasure she enjoys, who knows?
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Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey

Post by Chastityat60 » Fri Nov 01, 2019 10:39 am

Was toying with the idea of getting a strap on. Nothing crazy, just something to try so she can enjoy herself more fully than I can provide on my own. Seems she might be open to it if presented right.. she is about vanilla as they come.. which overall is a good thing.. she provides a certain balance to our marriage.. when I mentioned locktober, she just smiled and said what ever you want to do honey is fine with me.. Not sure If I even want to mention November.. lol.
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Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey

Post by cshorts » Sat Nov 02, 2019 12:41 am

That's very much my situation, @Chastityat60. She's very vanilla, but pretty tolerant of my aberrations as long as she doesn't have to do much. She never would have suggested a strap-in, but when I did she was willing, and now that she's discovered it pretty much accomplishes what my cock can do, well...ok. Maybe don't need the cock anymore.
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Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey

Post by Want2B_Locked » Tue Nov 05, 2019 12:07 pm

Thank you @cshorts ts your journey is giving me hope. Lady S has been stressed a lot from work so the "talk" hasn't happened properly yet but it's coming.

You're giving me hope.
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