[jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

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Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Post by jfenoffti » Wed Jun 05, 2019 10:35 am

LockedByBD wrote:
Tue May 28, 2019 5:10 pm

Gigolo? You might wind up with a former Fortune 100 executive holding your key...
That would be fun! :D
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Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Post by jfenoffti » Wed Jun 05, 2019 11:03 am

Hmmph. Well. The other day I put my cage back on while my wife was out running some errands. I was thinking I might leave it on overnight and maybe during the night or the next morning she'd become aware I was caged again.

This was just to avoid telling her I wanted her to lock me up again. Or asking. It's that old adage: If you think you won't like the answer to the question, don't ask the question. I thought I wouldn't like her answer. And that would cause a (temporary) awkward, unpleasant atmosphere which I want to avoid.

So I took it off before bedtime.

Next morning we are up and brushing our teeth, etc. and she finishes first and goes back to the bed. When I return to the bedroom she's lying there crosswise on the bed, still naked, on her belly so I have this great view of her legs and beautiful ass. :D This is, as it has been in the past, an invitation. :!: 8-)

Damn good thing I wasn't still locked! She wouldn't have been happy about it since she wanted "it" (PIV) now. And I would have been unable to comply with her wishes. That would be bad. We'd have to talk about where the key is, the recalling "I thought I told you I didn't like it... I feel like you are locking me out." :!: :?: and attempt to overcome the change in the atmosphere. (Based on past experiences, I don't think it would have worked well.)

I started running my hairy chest across the backs of her heels, up her legs, up and over her ass cheeks, (quite a few times) then up her back where I stopped and kissed and nibbled her neck. Of course, in this position I was dripping on her ass and sliding the head of my cock up and down between her cheeks. (She mentioned this later during "clean up").

But prior to the clean up, I rolled her over so I could go down on her and bring her to orgasm. It wasn't the best in history, but it was the first in two months. I'm just grateful I she still gets off on my tongue. I like doing that for her. And I'm grateful to have had sex with her again. For the first time in two months. But who's counting? (Third time, and the first orgasm with her in six months. Since I've been unlocked for the last six months, the other orgasms I've had were at my own hand - just to clarify.)

Next on the hit parade line up was face to face PIV sex, she was pinching my nipples :D , with a happy ending of simultaneous orgasms.

Couldn't have done this in my cage. But I would like for her to lock me up again. It has been six months since she said she didn't like it and wanted me to take it off.

We will see. Stay tuned for more!
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Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Post by jfenoffti » Thu Jun 20, 2019 10:23 am

As she is growing more accustomed to being home all day with me (her position at work was recently eliminated, without warning) I am anticipating there will be a "good time" to re-visit chastity. In the mean time, she said once again "we're not using them anymore", referring to my testicles; we were swimming in rather chilly water at the time and discussing erect nipples and ascending testicles.

Although we are finished making babies, (ours are 'perfect' and grown, so why not quit while we're ahead?), I'd like to use 'em to hold my JB cage up, to rhythmically slap against her clit as I penetrate her from behind, to give her something to play with, the list goes on and on.... I really do want to keep them. No, no, no, she's not going to castrate me. She's just not as interested in sex as I am. (Big surprise there, right?)

It's that "communication" thing again. I guess I'll just have to talk to her about it. err, them.

All that being said, I am wearing the JB as I write; (She is out for a lunch discussion with a former colleague), I miss wearing it. It's fun.
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Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Post by jfenoffti » Sat Sep 07, 2019 2:40 pm

Fast forward 9 months. No, not that! We are way past that.

My Queen and I are sitting up drinking wine, lots of wine and dreaming about travel and moving a nd a ‘new’ house and just having fun.

At some point in all of this, I say “We’re to the point where I either need to take a Cialis or you need to lock me up again!”

Queen pauses and says “Well I don’t want to be impaled. I just want to cuddle.”

I respond with “I’ll be back in a minute.” And go put the JB on. I leave the keys by her sink in the bathroom.

Boy howdy! Did I have a couple of wild dreams that night! I have been reading TwistedMister's account of his wife suspended by leather straps and two other men fucking her silly before he is forced to clean her.

Ok, that is hot!

I imagined my Queen and I in this scenario and exactly who did what to whom when and how. This resulted in a dream where Queen is floating in air (imagine weightless as opposed to held by straps) and her pussy is shaved (it hasn’t been for over two years, much to my dismay). It is covered by unusually large amounts of thick semen. It must have been multiple men because no one has that much ejaculate. She says “Eat me!” (Commands really). And I start hoovering it all up. First on her left side, from her perineum, up along side her vulva and then her right side and finish with right up the middle which causes her to orgasm. A complete, body tensing, exhausting orgasm. And I’m still securely caged of course.
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Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Post by jfenoffti » Mon Sep 09, 2019 9:12 am

Well, what a difference a day makes.

As mentioned previously, our last discussion of chastity was during an evening of wine drinking. Last night, my former KH says approaches me and says something to the effect "I noticed you're wearing your cock cage again; We talked about it a couple of months ago [actually, it was nine months ago] and I said I didn't like it then. And you've been more lovey-dovey and I don't know what to do with it -- I can't have sex with you when it's on and you know I don't like it. It's not natural. I much prefer to see you hanging low. It (cage) makes you this small and I don't like it. You knew I didn't like it and yet you put it back on. I feel disrespected."

So, I took it off and put it back into the drawer. I really did enjoy these last three days. Only problem is, she didn't.
There's other major stuff going on in her life too with her siblings and work, so this attempt to restart chastity was poorly timed. I saw an opportunity and acted on it - just the wrong time.
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Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Post by Schnoff » Thu Sep 19, 2019 4:09 pm

A phrase comes to mind that Joshua says a lot: “It’s not service when your partner doesn’t want it.”

She doesn’t want a cage. I like that she’s very clear about that. Moreover, she’s clear about what she does want. That’s great, you have something there! Stating “this is what I want”, with an expectation of being obeyed - you have a keeper.

So work with that. No cage - how about no masturbation for you? Tease and denial? Rituals, like serving her coffee, or whatever she might want and enjoy?

There is so much that can be done around orgasm denial that has nothing to do with chastity cages.

Now, if for you, it really is all about the toy, the cage, and less about giving her your pleasure - then you have a quandary ;).
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Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Post by jfenoffti » Thu Sep 19, 2019 7:08 pm

Schnoff wrote:
Thu Sep 19, 2019 4:09 pm
... “It’s not service when your partner doesn’t want it.”

She doesn’t want a cage. I like that she’s very clear about that. Moreover, she’s clear about what she does want. That’s great, you have something there! Stating “this is what I want”, with an expectation of being obeyed - you have a keeper.
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Thu Sep 19, 2019 4:09 pm
So work with that. No cage - how about no masturbation for you? Tease and denial? Rituals, like serving her coffee, or whatever she might want and enjoy?
Well, funny you should mention that.

Just yesterday, we were lying in bed, in the morning, talking, holding hands and that progressed to her teasing me (nipple pinching, finger nail raking, sucking and stroking) until... she stops and says "Coffee?"

And got up and out of bed. :o

And that's just two days she slept out in the RV.

Now as far as the no masturbation part -- weeellllllll. She doesn't really care and I figure why not. So here's where we are. And I'm good with it for right now and I think she is too. Who knows...?
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Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Post by KittensBoyToy » Thu Sep 19, 2019 8:36 pm

For us it would have been more like:

until... she stops and says "Coffee!"

And I would get up and out of bed.
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