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Lgoddess, I note your use of the capital when referring to your husband. Is this a typo or are you switching? If so, it is a fascinating fact that there is no female equivalent of "sissification". If I was a sub and was forced to wander around in Y fronts, I'm sure I would find the gap in ...

Atone, to muddy cloudy waters further..

My hub does not like to be spanked per se but he does like to be made to feel submissive and controlled. Spanking does that for him.

Blaeu, to get some other perspectives from guys who went through exactly what you are going through now, I'd suggest reading Dishevilled Domina's series of interviews with submissive men. http://dishevelleddomina.wordpress.com/ You will need to put some time aside to read them all but I think you ar...

Hear, hear.

Warped I think that's a bit harsh and judgmental. It's a simple question to a normally open minded, helpful forum to hear other people's take on something that is just being kicked about as an idea. What I don't expect is closed judgmental offensive comments. I can hang out on the rest of the Inter...

I think the switch dynamic is more common than perhaps people think. I did a blog post on this ages ago about how entry level BDSM and the usual perception is MaleDom/FemSub because culturally, we are a bit more comfortable with the Male in charge model - hence the fact that male subs feel like they...

See here's the thing. Key holding for my hub is a fundamental piece of our relationship and I fully expect his "focus" -as it were- to be on me. It's a component of our FLR and it works because we have both spent a lot of time and energy communicating and trialling. The idea of remote hold...

Morning all Hub and I had a chat about a friend of his who loves to be chaste but has no keyholder although he did have one in the past (not his partner). This by the way is the only other chaste male I have knowingly met! Although this guy has not asked, my hub raised the idea of my holding his key...

We enjoy CFNM. I think it signifies the power balance and massively enhances vulnerability. Sometimes I'll demand hub earns his clothes and if he's told to do tasks he hates (ironing being top of the list), it helps get his head in the correct place if he does this naked - except for his device ofco...

All good advice here as usual. Don't underestimate the amount of dialogue needed to just get the mechanics of chastity working so I'd like to make a suggestion. How about you invest in some numbered locks first as you get used to wearing a device otherwise you may be burning up favours as you need t...