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by Naljeans
Mon Dec 09, 2019 9:35 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Guidance on Chastity Cage Choice
Replies: 12
Views: 1129
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Re: Guidance on Chastity Cage Choice

This is the integrated lock version of my first long term cage. Perfect starter option for me, as I learned sizing and style preferences. TERNENCE Ergonomic Design Chastity Device Male Virginity Lock Chastity Belt Adult Game Sex Toy (1.77 inch / 45mm) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GLD2BWM/ref=cm_sw_r...
by Naljeans
Sun Dec 08, 2019 9:49 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Guidance on Chastity Cage Choice
Replies: 12
Views: 1129
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Re: Guidance on Chastity Cage Choice

I would go with an inexpensive steel device while you sort out what style works best. Go with the length you are at the absolute smallest and try different ring sizes. 45 or 50 mm seem to be the most common beginning sizes.
by Naljeans
Sat Dec 07, 2019 8:36 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: The Permanent Chastity/Denial Matrix
Replies: 52
Views: 2920
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Re: The Permanent Chastity/Denial Matrix

Per the Tom scale, I’m a 9, 5
by Naljeans
Fri Dec 06, 2019 9:27 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How do you deal with dribbling / leakage
Replies: 4
Views: 582
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Re: How do you deal with dribbling / leakage

Agree. My plumbing seems to have adjusted to the urination issues. The precum issues do seem to settle down with time. I contemplated panty liners but ultimately didn’t need them. I also keep a spare pair of underwear in my car just in case. I’ve only needed them a couple of times, though the most r...
by Naljeans
Mon Dec 02, 2019 8:52 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Imposed masturbation (and cum)
Replies: 10
Views: 1160
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Re: Imposed masturbation (and cum)

Every relationship is different, so you have to find what works in yours. Generally though the point of chastity is to relinquish control. It is natural to voice your frustration in the early stages to a point, but there has to be a balance. Either she has to be able to impose consequences or you ha...
by Naljeans
Fri Nov 29, 2019 10:16 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: a different route to chastity
Replies: 8
Views: 2054
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Re: a different route to chastity

We have a CNC relationship and are both into BDSM. However, relative to chastity, the rule is she has absolute authority as to whether and when I’m let out. There is no input from me, and accordingly does not always reflect what I want at any given moment. Sometimes it’s longer than I want, sometime...
by Naljeans
Thu Nov 28, 2019 10:27 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Short Device for PA Piercings?
Replies: 5
Views: 733
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Re: Short Device for PA Piercings?

MaleChastityNow. Fully custom for $300 - $400. Fantastic, lightweight high grade steel. The PA version of the Contender is beautiful. He also makes PA only (non-ball trap) devices.
by Naljeans
Sun Nov 24, 2019 9:31 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Trim vs shaving
Replies: 33
Views: 2149
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Re: Trim vs shaving

Shaving works best for me, but my owner prefers it trimmed. So, I can shave right where the ring sits, if the hair is an issue.
by Naljeans
Sat Nov 23, 2019 9:45 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Cherry Keeper - Review
Replies: 23
Views: 3299
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Re: Cherry Keeper - Review

Sure, no problem. This explanation should help too. On the cage itself (not the base ring) the ring/entrance you enter through is a thicker diameter. So, the opening is narrower than the rest of the cage. The bigger the headlock size, the smaller the opening is. So, once the head slips through the o...
by Naljeans
Sat Nov 23, 2019 2:11 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Cherry Keeper - Review
Replies: 23
Views: 3299
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Re: Cherry Keeper - Review

Update: Ten days seems to be a useful timeframe to see if there are any issues with a device. I’ve been continuously locked since going in the Cherry Keeper 11 days ago. I have one small bit of irritation on the bottom of the base ring. I’m fairly certain this is due to the texture of the ring. I wi...