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Last night, she told me I should take the cage off.
I made a mistake, and asked, “Okay, why?”
She responded without jumping me for my mistake. “Because I said so.”
... and I jumped up to comply, remembering myself.

Nope. Did not let me out. Kind of a big step for her, there, but as she was completely unaffected by the cage’s presence last night, it was perfect. It’s only been two weeks of denial, and now four caged morning erections in a row, and three straight days, and it does have all the indications this w...

While my wife is slowly finding more and more enjoyment from being in charge of our sex lives, we will never technically exist in an FLR. Although, as Twisted alludes to, orgasm control and the cage leads to my increased deference to her wishes. We have two young children in the house (I used to say...

(Note to any readers: While I certainly hope that people will find things to take from this journal to use in their own journeys, even if it’s just hope, a significant portion of the posts here are made for my benefit. After the long break that life and stress required this summer, I found it immens...

Sitting at the dinner table last night ... thirteen days without an orgasm, and one, maybe call it two days in the cage ... I could not stop staring at my wife. She kept catching me staring at her, and saying, “What?” And I could only admit the truth, “You look really cute tonight.” Now some unencum...

A long time ago, our use of the cage was limited to evenings, rarely beyond going to bed, and only for a couple or three evenings in a row. The other night, she told me to put the cage on, and then we cuddled, slept, I woke up and showered, and then she told me to take it off. She must’ve sensed my ...

... and then unlocked this morning ...
Must’ve just been a trial run ...
Oh well, it’s a marathon, not a sprint. I’m sure there will be more cage time.

Two sexual encounters since my denial started. Neither involved any question of my orgasm. She’s definitely interested in a long haul here. And last night, with no prompting from me, she decided it was time for the cage. After I put it on, we were both engaged in separate activities, but met up at b...

Last night, we had a very normal sexual encounter, but my wife started it with mentioning the possibility of denying me. It ended with my asking if I was or wasn’t allowed, and she said, “Go ahead. I hope it’s a good one, because it’s the last you’re going to have for a while.” So ... on the road ag...

If I have any idea of the time frame, it seems to ruin the entire experience for both of us. The anticipation of the possibility seems to be very key to my maintaining a good attitude. If I know it’s just not going to happen, I just kind of get moody. If there’s always the possibility that it could ...