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There is a solution ... Sometimes, you will hear people talk of an alcoholic acquiring a sort of immunity or tolerance to the effects of alcohol, and therefore they will need more alcohol to get drunk. This is actually not at all true. What happens is that they actually develop internal coping mecha...

No real update ... just checking in, more for my sake than anything else. That stressor that has suspended our play time looks to be resolving itself sometime around early to mid September, so I'm holding on patiently and wondering what will happen. The chastity cage is not in use, and I'm free to o...

Once you've learned the technique, I've always had the best experience with straight glass or steel probes. My problem with curved massagers is that they always seem to turn and end up pointed in some funny direction. With the straight glass, it's smooth and hard and I know where it is. I can contro...

Personally, there are boundaries to the paradygm of my interests. As I started exploring the things that I hadn't realized I had an interest in, there was definitely an end to the "escalation." Eventually, it flowed into mixing and matching. Like each of my interests became a lego piece, and tonight...

Really good weekend with my wife, I did something very special for her, and she rewarded me with lots of teasing Friday night, Saturday, and Sunday morning. On Sunday morning, I was begging for an orgasm (with her encouragement), and she was saying 'no.' Then she said that she didn't want cuddly, su...

Not much to report, so far. I'm doing so much better this time with regard to not talking about it. I'm actually barely suppressing a desire to talk about it. It's like it's become normal finally, and there's no need to elaborate too much. The teasing has mostly been our sex life without my orgasms....

I like the idea of having my hands handcuffed behind me, and I must try to have sex with her My wife did something like this once, a couple of years ago. It wasn't planned (her process is more organic). It started with her teasing me while I was on my knees on the bed, with my hands restrained behi...

One week of denial ... no chastity yet. The build up of all the denial feelings and emotions has been much faster. In the past, one week would barely have me feeling it, but this time, I'm already quite far along. So far I've been perfect in my quest not to talk about it. I haven't asked for anythin...

Three weeks of freedom to orgasm. My wife and I had quite a few (maybe six to eight) fairly vanilla encounters during that time, and I masturbated ... a lot. During those three weeks, mostly when we weren't having sex, my wife started with comments like, "Remember when you loved me?" These were in r...

The cage came off last week, and she surprised me by permitting me to orgasm. I wasn't disappointed for not making it to six months as we had discussed. I'm pretty sure she'll go back to denial pretty soon. She's been making jokes about "remember when you loved me?" And they're just jokes. We'll see...