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15 years together.
9 years married.
Orgasm denial play and chastity play for 12 to 14 years. Minor play. Three to six weeks of denial, and cage time measured in hours.

Got more serious nine months ago. Six to twelve weeks of orgasm denial, and cage time measured in days (almost weeks).

This happens in my relationship all the time... It’s especially noticeable if I don’t have an orgasm and she does. My affection and desire for intimacy are pushed through the roof, and she’s almost cold. I have learned... Patience. She will come back around. Chores. Do some of hers. She’ll probably ...

I have always been pretty quick to the orgasm, even before we played with denial or chastity, so our coping mechanisms were already in place. Twisted said he used to have an orgasm an hour or so before so he could last longer, and having tried that, it doesn’t work for me. Once I get into PIV sex, i...

She took the cage off last night, and we had a long encounter that resulted in a lot of edges for me. Finally, she was riding me, and had already stopped at my edge a couple of times, and then she didn’t. Seemed like my orgasm went on and on for like five minutes, but I’m sure it was just thirty sec...

Happy Thanksgiving. Everyone’s in bed.

I had the cage off for six hours of in-laws time today.

That’s all. Wife was affectionate and receptive all day, so that was nice.

Two nights in a row of “where did that come from?!” Early evening we did our own thing, and then came together later to watch some television on the couch. While cuddling together on the couch, I began to get too attached, wrapping her up more and more with each passing moment. Finally, she called i...

Last night was a quick post that deserves some embellishment. She told me to put the cage on, and I asked if she would play with me for a minute first. I really like being worked up before I’m relegated to the cage, and it’d been two days. She was pleasantly receptive, and had fun with it, edging me...

She played with me for a minute tonight (okay, five or six minutes; couple of edges).
Then she told me to put the cage on.

I didn’t think last night was going to be much of anything, but after we got into it, my wife spent some significant time pushing quite a few of my kink buttons. She was even regretful when she accidentally let herself orgasm sooner than she had intended. I spent all day ... yeah ... on fire. Sigh. ...

A clue!! My wife arrived home much later than she wanted to, especially considering she has a start before sunrise all day event tomorrow. As such, it was straight to bed. But on her arrival home, I did give her a big hug, which turned into a long embrace, which became passionate kissing. “We’re you...