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by _lj_
Tue Jan 02, 2018 6:29 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Grower needing some advice and suggestions about PA devices
Replies: 10
Views: 4352

Re: Grower needing some advice and suggestions about PA devi

I would just add to slave d's comment. The gap is the critical part, but bear in mind the gap is determined by the three-dimensional characteristics of the device. For example, MatureMetal use what they refer to as a 3/8" gap, whereas this 3/8" is actually the gap viewed at right angles to the ring,...
by _lj_
Wed Dec 27, 2017 11:23 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wife: "Of course this is the right thing"
Replies: 3
Views: 2734

Re: Wife: "Of course this is the right thing"

She replied very seriously "of course." Not even a discussion about "if" I should stay locked up. Although not yet 24/7, that is the target we are aiming for - I have written elsewhere that I have had a few problems with discomfort, and My Lady doesn't want my work to suffer, nor cause myself damag...
by _lj_
Tue Dec 26, 2017 5:04 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 5295

Re: [_lj_] a new beginning

well, I've had my Christmas unlocked.

Back in the JailBird.

Just an aside, lots of views, no comments. Comments are very welcome. It's part of the experience, for us who are locked, and perhaps it is interesting for readers ? (not an ego trip !)
by _lj_
Fri Dec 22, 2017 2:56 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Tullyboy] Acknowledging reality
Replies: 117
Views: 45352

Re: [Tullyboy] Acknowledging reality

sounds familiar...
by _lj_
Fri Dec 22, 2017 5:53 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 5295

Re: [_lj_] a new beginning

Had to use the emergency key, having bought some boxer shorts to give my bits more ventilation, whilst this worked, the total lack of support from the usual briefs meant I felt the full weight of the JailBird and for some reason this produced a strong discomfort, a feeling of strain either side of t...
by _lj_
Tue Dec 19, 2017 3:42 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 5295

Re: [_lj_] a new beginning

In fact I had 36 hours unlocked - I was getting rather bruised and sore, and asked if I could have some time out. My Lady said yes, and commented that it was perhaps a bit ambitious to go for three months 24/7 having been unlocked for over a year. Sunday evening brought a surprise, a request for a "...
by _lj_
Fri Dec 15, 2017 9:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is this the end... or just the means?
Replies: 16
Views: 6162

Re: Is this the end... or just the means?

Permanent lock-up is certainly not something I would want to have imposed on me. We are starting a 12 week lock-up - I perhaps unwisely suggested "the end of February" so the locked state would become the norm. Previous lock-ups have been for a maximum of two weeks, and so the "end" is quite near, s...
by _lj_
Fri Dec 15, 2017 5:20 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 5295

Re: [_lj_] a new beginning

I took a chance. Was she serious about my staying locked until May? Apparently not - but she reserves the right to add time if she feels like it, which of course I what I agreed to. I have been told I will be released whilst we are staying with our daughter and family at Christmas, but that will amo...
by _lj_
Thu Dec 14, 2017 4:08 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 5295

Re: [_lj_] a new beginning

or My Lady could extend that...:shock: I may have spoken too soon. A casual, joking conversation last night, and I made some comment about my birthday, vaguely in the context of chastity. This morning My Lady asked me to do a chore and, again joking, said no. Her reply was that the response could a...
by _lj_
Wed Dec 13, 2017 8:20 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 5295

Re: [_lj_] a new beginning

I had three hours unlocked yesterday, as I needed to have a shave, I was getting some discomfort at the lower edge of the A ring of the JailBIrd probably from hair follicles being pulled, and I asked for a few hours to let everything settle whilst we went out for the evening. I was allowed three. My...