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by _lj_
Fri Dec 22, 2017 5:53 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 4473

Re: [_lj_] a new beginning

Had to use the emergency key, having bought some boxer shorts to give my bits more ventilation, whilst this worked, the total lack of support from the usual briefs meant I felt the full weight of the JailBird and for some reason this produced a strong discomfort, a feeling of strain either side of t...
by _lj_
Tue Dec 19, 2017 3:42 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 4473

Re: [_lj_] a new beginning

In fact I had 36 hours unlocked - I was getting rather bruised and sore, and asked if I could have some time out. My Lady said yes, and commented that it was perhaps a bit ambitious to go for three months 24/7 having been unlocked for over a year. Sunday evening brought a surprise, a request for a "...
by _lj_
Fri Dec 15, 2017 9:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is this the end... or just the means?
Replies: 16
Views: 5528

Re: Is this the end... or just the means?

Permanent lock-up is certainly not something I would want to have imposed on me. We are starting a 12 week lock-up - I perhaps unwisely suggested "the end of February" so the locked state would become the norm. Previous lock-ups have been for a maximum of two weeks, and so the "end" is quite near, s...
by _lj_
Fri Dec 15, 2017 5:20 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 4473

Re: [_lj_] a new beginning

I took a chance. Was she serious about my staying locked until May? Apparently not - but she reserves the right to add time if she feels like it, which of course I what I agreed to. I have been told I will be released whilst we are staying with our daughter and family at Christmas, but that will amo...
by _lj_
Thu Dec 14, 2017 4:08 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 4473

Re: [_lj_] a new beginning

or My Lady could extend that...:shock: I may have spoken too soon. A casual, joking conversation last night, and I made some comment about my birthday, vaguely in the context of chastity. This morning My Lady asked me to do a chore and, again joking, said no. Her reply was that the response could a...
by _lj_
Wed Dec 13, 2017 8:20 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 4473

Re: [_lj_] a new beginning

I had three hours unlocked yesterday, as I needed to have a shave, I was getting some discomfort at the lower edge of the A ring of the JailBIrd probably from hair follicles being pulled, and I asked for a few hours to let everything settle whilst we went out for the evening. I was allowed three. My...
by _lj_
Tue Dec 12, 2017 10:38 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Tullyboy] Acknowledging reality
Replies: 114
Views: 29443

Re: [Tullyboy] Acknowledging reality

We also have Miss Ivey's book, and whilst there is quite a lot I/we go along with, there's also a lot neither of us want, and humiliation is a major no-no for both. We come from the BDSM background, so the punishment aspects are understood, even though we don't use them, and we also bring in the YKI...
by _lj_
Tue Dec 12, 2017 4:58 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 4473

Re: [_lj_] a new beginning

Well, the proposals were all acceptable. the main details are I would be unlocked if health issues require it, and during a very short daily time for hygiene. I may ask for temporary release during acclimatisation to being locked 24/7, eg an occasional evening, approved at her discretion I would app...
by _lj_
Mon Dec 11, 2017 2:29 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [_lj_] a new beginning
Replies: 11
Views: 4473

[_lj_] a new beginning

This may be the shortest beginning, it all depends on My Lady's response to an email. Why would I send her an email ? To explain, give her the chance to read and consider, without me expecting anything. Which is where I have gone wrong before. I introduced her to the BDSM world seven years ago, we h...
by _lj_
Wed Nov 08, 2017 6:18 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: It clicked
Replies: 6
Views: 2596

Re: It clicked

and will you tell your wife about the paid session?

it could all end in tears...