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by sirmebane
Sun Sep 08, 2019 5:53 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Dreams
Replies: 18
Views: 2970

Re: Dreams

Interesting. I never have sex dreams. Almost never. So infrequently as to be regarded as never. Last night I had a dream about a woman (not my wife) who wanted to have an affair with me BECAUSE I was caged. I was excited and flattered while I tried to work out the details in my mind how I could work...
by sirmebane
Sun Sep 08, 2019 5:42 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Claustrophobic feelings
Replies: 11
Views: 1187

Re: Claustrophobic feelings

I can completely understand the feeling of claustrophobia. I had the same sensation but I was further along in our chastity journey (maybe 6 months) when all of the sudden being locked caused me some mild anxiety. Trapped animal sensation; even though I could move around and go anywhere I wanted, th...
by sirmebane
Sun Sep 08, 2019 5:30 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: ... for some value of "vanilla."
Replies: 60
Views: 45313

Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

I mentioned to my psychiatrist today that I'm now in a chastity device to keep me from 'taking care of myself' instead of focusing on my wife. He said Caging the phallus in long-term couples is "not uncommon." #TheMoreYouKnow Wait? What! Any more details in that conversation? Clinical articles? How...
by sirmebane
Thu Aug 01, 2019 2:26 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hygiene routine - open steel cage
Replies: 4
Views: 930

Re: Hygiene routine - open steel cage

Steel cage is easy. Soap it up like you normally would. Maybe just spend a little more time spreading soap.
by sirmebane
Sun Jul 21, 2019 8:19 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Are you worried that you will be stuck in the base ring or the lock can’t be unlocked
Replies: 15
Views: 3376

Re: Are you worried that you will be stuck in the base ring or the lock can’t be unlocked

Worry? Sure.

Have I had an issue in the past 3+ years? No. Not even close; not once.
by sirmebane
Mon Jul 01, 2019 1:16 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Is anything worn under your kilt?"
Replies: 5
Views: 1336

Re: "Is anything worn under your kilt?"

When a woman asked the Scotsman what he wore under his kilt, he replied, "On a good day... lipstick."
by sirmebane
Tue Jun 18, 2019 8:41 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!
Replies: 162
Views: 78479

Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

June 2, 2019 7 days since last orgasm There hasn't been a lot of teasing and I haven't chased her much but we keep going about our respective days secure in our relationship. We couldn't live without one another and we both know it. It is hard to describe the current situation as anything other than...
by sirmebane
Fri Jun 14, 2019 9:32 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Chinese HTC Nub review
Replies: 23
Views: 5370

Re: Chinese HTC Nub review

So I had a catastrophic failure of the cage after 5 days, it swiveled forward in a manner I didn't think was possible. The base ring was still firmly locked on so I don't know what happened. When I attempted to put it back on, I struggled with getting everything aligned and there was frustration. I ...
by sirmebane
Fri Jun 14, 2019 9:25 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: We need a new term for "reverse pegging"
Replies: 27
Views: 4267

Re: We need a new term for "reverse pegging"

I'm thinking perhaps, "Making Love?"
by sirmebane
Fri Jun 07, 2019 9:07 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 573
Views: 231756

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

My very conservative wife who struggles with my kinky side, drops random bombs into my mind from time to time. We took the family for ice cream one night this week and I brought a cone back with me. I asked her to hold it while I rounded up the dog from the yard. She stood there on the steps in the ...