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by lockedsteve
Sun Oct 11, 2015 3:10 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Easier Rule
Replies: 3
Views: 958

Re: Easier Rule

We were into strict chastity for two years but now we are doing it like you. My wife loves me and she loves to give me pleasure so if she cums so do I apparently. We are in our late sixties so we never know when my last orgasm is really my last. It no longer seems to make sense to hold me to a handf...
by lockedsteve
Mon Oct 05, 2015 10:50 pm
Forum: Administrivia
Topic: Board Outage
Replies: 4
Views: 3697

Re: Board Outage

You were down? :)
by lockedsteve
Sun Oct 04, 2015 12:34 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Survey: Why are you locked and whose idea was it?
Replies: 6
Views: 1666

Re: Survey: Why are you locked and whose idea was it?

My idea to start teasing and denial. My wife's decision to lock me up when I told her that I could not go as long as she wanted to on the honor system. It works well for us on several levels to include our old age,erectile problems, my wife's dislike of any form of penetration and being more of a va...
by lockedsteve
Sun Oct 04, 2015 12:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is it true that they never go back?
Replies: 22
Views: 6477

Is it true that they never go back?

I have read that once a woman gets used to chastity, she will have it no way else, so I figured I would ask. My wife and I started chastity two years ago. After a year and a half, I tried to take a 3 month break but was locked up again after 2 weeks because my wife said I was annoying her for sex to...
by lockedsteve
Fri Oct 02, 2015 3:35 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [lockedsteve] She still desires me but not like before.
Replies: 4
Views: 3397

Re: [lockedsteve] She still desires me but not like before.

I forgot to fully explain how we resolved the issue of my wife's preference for women which was why I started this journal in the first place. My wife tried to explain her preference for woman. We all have preferences and all things being equal, we would choose our preference. However all things are...
by lockedsteve
Fri Oct 02, 2015 11:56 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Not staying hard
Replies: 14
Views: 3723

Re: Not staying hard

First of all I am old but I never had a problem in getting hard. Since chastity, I have problems in getting hard after a few weeks of chastity. I am talking about even not being able to get myself hard. I think chastity has a lot to do with it because when I took a brief break, things returned to no...
by lockedsteve
Thu Oct 01, 2015 11:24 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Average Duration?
Replies: 12
Views: 3156

Re: Average Duration?

We started out with 2 weeks and gradually extended it to 3 months over the first 8 months. Then we went back to shorter denial periods for a while and now are back to 3 months at the end of our second year of chastity. My advice, for what it is worth, is to do chastity the way that works best for yo...
by lockedsteve
Thu Oct 01, 2015 10:49 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [lockedsteve] She still desires me but not like before.
Replies: 4
Views: 3397

Re: [lockedsteve] She still desires me but not like before.

Just thought an update was in order. My wife felt bad that I did not feel that she was interested in me or men so she lightened up on me and I got to cum twice in September. Today she said she wants to go back to what we were doing before, which is 3 month minimum orgasm denial periods. She also sai...
by lockedsteve
Thu Oct 01, 2015 6:16 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: varying scrotum tightness
Replies: 13
Views: 2007

Re: varying scrotum tightness

I have exactly the same problem. What I did was get another ring that is just 1/8 of an inch bigger. I can switch rings or just wear the larger one. i mostly wear the larger ring. I occasionally have a ball slip out but I rather deal with that than sit in a barber chair in pain because my scrotum ti...
by lockedsteve
Tue Sep 29, 2015 10:44 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: how long ?
Replies: 4
Views: 1012

Re: how long ?

I started chastity prior to my wife's major surgery too. We just finished year two or will have at the stroke of midnight. We tried having a target date, or basing it on a holiday but in the end it did not work out as well as we liked because it took the full control away from my wife. Although a mo...