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by Lockedchef
Mon Jun 16, 2014 1:44 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Loss of Arousal
Replies: 15
Views: 4170
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Re: Loss of Arousal

I couldn't agree more about the importance of communication. We just had our 5 year anniversary over the weekend and to say it was wonderful is an understatement. The addition of chastity into our life started with open communication and has resulted into things being better then they were. Contrary...
by Lockedchef
Fri Jun 13, 2014 7:31 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ways to find out if cock pulled out from the ball trap devic
Replies: 22
Views: 6324
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Re: Ways to find out if cock pulled out from the ball trap d

Got to go with Lady M on this one. Besides if my wife asked if I cheated I wouldn't lie to her about it. The whole thing was my idea to begin with, doesn't mean I am always perfect but I would let her know about any rules I broke. I did find the backup key one day on accident, could have said nothin...
by Lockedchef
Thu Jun 12, 2014 9:54 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Loss of Arousal
Replies: 15
Views: 4170
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Re: Loss of Arousal

My wife and I are relatively new to this and I have nowhere near gotten to that kind of lockup. The longest I have gone at this point is 5 days so I can really relate to that. My question is though are you still having fun with it? You said you like the attention and adore her but seems like that co...
by Lockedchef
Wed Jun 11, 2014 8:13 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How common is this?
Replies: 11
Views: 3279
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Re: How common is this?

I did see one woman once with a key around her necklace a couple years ago. Part of me wanted to run up to her and ask if that is what I thought it was for hoping to get some response, of course I didn't. As far as the pornography end of it goes you see it way more then you use to though. Just look ...
by Lockedchef
Tue Jun 10, 2014 9:44 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How common is this?
Replies: 11
Views: 3279
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How common is this?

I know chastity is one of those things most people do not talk about in public. It seems to be that it is such a different and more mental kink than what most people are used to no one wants to admit they are into it. The thing is I work in the restaurant business and have for 15 years. Nearly every...
by Lockedchef
Tue Jun 10, 2014 9:15 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ever feel panicky?
Replies: 5
Views: 1600
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Re: Ever feel panicky?

I have felt panicky every time she has taken the key away without talking to me first, however I get really excited right after. Since we are new to this she doesn't hold it all the time so usually the first thing I do in the morning is to see if she took the keys away for the day or not. I still ke...
by Lockedchef
Sun Jun 08, 2014 3:21 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wife worried about hygiene
Replies: 6
Views: 1772
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Re: Wife worried about hygiene

Thanks for the tips and advice. These are some of the not so kinky and everyday things you never think about when you first get locked up. Yeah it isn't so much me worried about staying clean it is more her preception that it is safe to stay locked and I will be clean for a few days. I can get plent...
by Lockedchef
Sat Jun 07, 2014 11:51 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wife worried about hygiene
Replies: 6
Views: 1772
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Wife worried about hygiene

One of my wife's greatest concern's so far is me staying clean. If you haven't guessed by my name I am a full time chef and spend long long days in the kitchen. For example today I was at work from 10am till midnight and running all day. This is pretty common for us and a short day is 9-10 hours. Th...
by Lockedchef
Thu Jun 05, 2014 6:27 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wife playing the game well...
Replies: 7
Views: 2782
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Re: Wife playing the game well...

Well since my first 5 day lockup things went back to normal around the house in a sense. She unlocked me last Friday when we had company at the house all weekend and she seemed to forget about the whole thing. Since we are just starting I didn't want to pester her about taking the keys back right aw...
by Lockedchef
Sat May 31, 2014 11:19 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wife playing the game well...
Replies: 7
Views: 2782
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Re: Wife playing the game well...

She finally let me out this morning to my relief. That was a lot harder then I thought it would be at first. I swear by day three I was half buzzed all day. I can see where this gets addicting. Haven't started a new session yet but can't wait.