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by Grizzly228
Wed Apr 27, 2016 1:44 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Orgasm in seconds???
Replies: 13
Views: 3759

Re: Orgasm in seconds???

Never that fast but it does make things more sensitive. I am really really good at keeping my cool until she cums multiple times or until she ends the session. But I have had two mishaps and felt really bad about that. The most recent after 34 days. I was crushed as it was ruined as well. Actually p...
by Grizzly228
Wed Mar 02, 2016 10:44 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ruined orgasms: love/hate relationship
Replies: 7
Views: 2340

Ruined orgasms: love/hate relationship

I've posted about my feelings on ruined orgasms before but I think this post is a little different. I'm on day 17 of a 41 day stint. So far I've had no orgasm or release of any kind and the tension is mounting. Usually around this point my gf gives me a ruined orgasm intentionally or accidentally bu...
by Grizzly228
Mon Feb 29, 2016 11:30 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Managing Horniness
Replies: 13
Views: 4372

Re: Managing Horniness

Personally I don't find erections excruciating in the cage thought they can be uncomfortable or chaffing. However nocturnal erections are extremely painful to me and prohibit me from wearing from day to day regularly. Perhaps the style of cage or size is too small for you. A larger ring may assist a...
by Grizzly228
Sun Feb 28, 2016 11:14 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What part of chastity does your KH like the best?
Replies: 15
Views: 5292

Re: What part of chastity does your KH like the best?

My gf enjoys the extra orgasms she receives and teasing me and hearing me moan and beg. She still doesn't understand what I get out of it. But as long as she's happy she doesn't really question my motives. And frankly it's hard to explain a kink. So we don't really talk about it that much other than...
by Grizzly228
Wed Feb 24, 2016 12:42 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Lent - giving up orgasms
Replies: 5
Views: 1935

Re: Lent - giving up orgasms

It's not easy. I'm on day 10 and this is my third or 4th time attempting it. This Time I have the support of an understanding yet fairly vigilant girlfriend. Despite not living together she likes me to give her updates on how I'm feeling and such. I like to think she masterbates to my frustration bu...
by Grizzly228
Thu Feb 18, 2016 12:30 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Lent - giving up orgasms
Replies: 5
Views: 1935

Re: Lent - giving up orgasms

Different strokes for different folks. Lol 41 days is an obscene amount of time for me. Almost 2 weeks longer than I've been. I have a high sex drive and only see my woman on weekends generally so I want to get what I can get when I can get it. Lol. So purposefully waiting and missing out on those r...
by Grizzly228
Tue Feb 16, 2016 1:25 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: any Selflockers with a significant other
Replies: 14
Views: 3821

Re: any Selflockers with a significant other

Most of the time I'm not locked but when I am it's usually by my own hand. Often if I feel I may have a weak moment I'll lock myself just to add another barrier and give me more time to reconsider. I often like the feeling of being locked when at home. It's at work or during sleep it becomes a hassl...
by Grizzly228
Tue Feb 16, 2016 12:05 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Lent - giving up orgasms
Replies: 5
Views: 1935

Lent - giving up orgasms

This will be my fourth attempt at going through lent (from Vday to Easter) without an orgasm. My longest was 28 days so the thought of 41 is intimidating. Also being only day 2, makes me a little leery. But I've been sick the last two weeks so it really hasn't hit me yet. Once I'm back to healthy I'...
by Grizzly228
Fri Feb 12, 2016 10:02 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: erections when freed?
Replies: 21
Views: 9992

Re: erections when freed?

My first erection after being caged is usually perfect. But future ones if not recaged can be difficult to maintain. I think it is from fatigue of being squeezed and straining for so long. But it is not permanent or chronic. Things will return to normal usually in a day or So. I had the same concern...
by Grizzly228
Thu Feb 11, 2016 1:16 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Captions for Keyholders
Replies: 6
Views: 2822

Re: Captions for Keyholders

One of my exes watched a lot of porn and in hindsight was probably a wannabe Dom. She enjoyed having power over me but not always sexual. I did not enjoy it in that way as I was not sexualizing her behavior. I just thought she was a selfish person. But thinking back to some of the things she liked a...