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by michaelnmelissa
Thu Sep 29, 2011 10:31 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Random Thoughts
Replies: 2
Views: 1348

Random Thoughts

I came last week after 80 something days and it was okay. I know now I'd rather keep the steady beat of desire going than have an orgasm. Along with that, I can honestly say I don't really care if I come or not. What I do crave is intimacy. Sometimes it's gentle and lazy, while other times it's raw ...
by michaelnmelissa
Thu Sep 29, 2011 10:17 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Your limits tested?
Replies: 11
Views: 3984

Re: Your limits tested?

With chastity came a new openness with my wife that led to more than I ever could have dreamed. She is bringing all of my fantasies to life. And she is discovering some of her own that she never knew she had.
by michaelnmelissa
Mon Sep 12, 2011 11:11 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Intimacy, Not Orgasm, Desired
Replies: 2
Views: 1447

Intimacy, Not Orgasm, Desired

Today is the 70th day since my last orgasm. I remember this only because it was on July 4th. I don't remember the one before it. Sometime in early Spring, I think. This is the second time I've reached this point. I will break my record because my wife has no wish for me to come anytime soon. I don't...
by michaelnmelissa
Wed Aug 24, 2011 8:55 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Out & Accepted
Replies: 1
Views: 1491

Out & Accepted

Over the (almost) one year we've been practicing male chastity, (what we now call "my wonderful frustration"), our communication has become so open, free, and accepting it simply thrills us to compare it to how we used to be. This past weekend I finally confessed to Melissa that I not only had bisex...
by michaelnmelissa
Thu Aug 18, 2011 5:28 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: For Her The Relationship Is Primary
Replies: 5
Views: 2466

Re: For Her The Relationship Is Primary

CQS, Yes, we both enjoy the relationship much more than we did before male chastity. I don't feel any resentment for being denied orgasm. Really, I want to be denied much more than I want to cum because I loathe the valley so much. As long as we are together intimately in some fashion then I am happ...
by michaelnmelissa
Mon Aug 15, 2011 9:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: For Her The Relationship Is Primary
Replies: 5
Views: 2466

For Her The Relationship Is Primary

Every couple practices male chastity differently. For us, it's a way of life. It's how we are. We're also a wife led couple. We have every intention of continuing with these. We've also learned that strict chastity is best for us. I'm at my best when I am denied for long periods of time. I don't mea...
by michaelnmelissa
Mon Aug 15, 2011 8:52 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Male Chastity & Cognitive Disequilibrium
Replies: 0
Views: 1575

Male Chastity & Cognitive Disequilibrium

That title is a mouthful, eh? Cognitive disequilibrium is the term coined by Jean Piaget to refer to the experience of a discrepancy between something new and something already known or believed. I think male chastity can cause this experience for the men and the women involved with it. Some example...
by michaelnmelissa
Mon Aug 01, 2011 10:21 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: MM Watchful Mistress After 8 Months
Replies: 0
Views: 1981

MM Watchful Mistress After 8 Months

It's wonderful. No discomfort. No pain. I cannot remember the last time it's caused me any pain during the night. I never use lube and have no complaints. I wear it 24/7 and am very rarely let out of it. I think I've been out once in the last 3 1/2 weeks and found no issues on my cock during an insp...
by michaelnmelissa
Tue Jul 26, 2011 7:15 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: I Want To Be A Keyholder
Replies: 3
Views: 2900

I Want To Be A Keyholder

My wife keeps me in chastity. I want to keep another man in chastity. Me, a kept man, wants to keep another man locked up. One of the results of being in male chastity, and the freedom and openness that's come with it, is my coming to accept my bisexual desires. It's strange, because I am not attrac...
by michaelnmelissa
Sun Jul 03, 2011 10:50 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Still Going
Replies: 8
Views: 3236

Still Going

Hi, Been awhile since I've been on here. I see some new folks and some familiar faces. Some who used to be here a lot seem quiet. Still playing? We are. Early May was my last orgasm. Melissa insists no more for the rest of the year. I've been locked 24/7 for almost a month. She has less need for the...